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From Mansa
In my case, closer I get to having my menstrual period, more easily aroused I am. Sexual urges are strongest 3-5 days before the periods start and almost completely vanish by 2nd or 3rd day of bleeding. I do not really have much of libido from that time to until after the ovulation. I wonder how many other women have same experience.

I sometimes enjoyed sex during menstrual period when my husband was willing but the enjoyment vanished when I saw all the bloody mess on him and me. Tried with a Tampon on, and towel to catch stuff but it just was not as good as one during 'clean' time.

From Rob
When (back in the 1970s) my wife had periods sex during the week was impossible due to the migraines she suffered during periods. She was a bear with a sore head but immediately before the period she'd be very horny and in those few days we would fuck three or four times a day then, bang, nothing. Then she'd come out of the depression and almost as an 'I'm sorry' she suck me off or invite me to fuck her ass.

When the period finally finished we'd be back to regular sex but both of us looked forward to those days just before her next period was due, when she got so horny she couldn't get fucked enough, her sexual appetite getting bigger to the point we went to a few swingers parties for a year or so.

To finish the story we eventually had children, my wife had a hysterectomy in her early forties and despite no more periods, she remained very horny, we became swingers again for a long time, before losing interest in the lifestyle.

From Anonymous
The first couple of days my flow is heavy and the cramps are really bad. I'll masturbate to help with the cramps, but I don't really want anyone touching me and I'm just really selfishly concerned with my own orgasms. But after that, towels can absorb any mess and I recently have been using a menstrual cup (such as the one made by Instead) as an alternative to tampons. I haven't had a chance to try it during sex yet, so I can't say how effective it is.

I'm pretty frank about it. Recently, a new partner and I were about to get together for the first time, but I was scheduled to have my period during that time. So I just told him that I would probably have my period when we discussed our plans. It was after the first couple of days, so I would have been ok with it, but he opted to wait. I think mostly because he really wanted to pleasure me orally and it is a bit riskier when a woman is menstruating. Plus, in my 3 decades of menstruating, I've never put my mouth on the fluids, so I wouldn't expect a guy to do so! It was worth the wait.

From Pete
My first wife an I did the deed when ever, I loved to lick her pussy and she loved it too. SSSoooo sometimes it was a little early/late. When she told me her lesbien lover liked to lick up her flow I realized I was not were I should be.

 I do not mind the blood, just don't care to taste it.

From Dawn
As much as I love sex, I don't fuck vaginally during my period. Tried it once and didn't enjoy that tacky slipperiness. I do however, suck my hubby's cock the whole week long. At night I use a tampon and he takes my asshole.

From Connie
Vaginal sex during periods is a no-no. I'm not alone, none of my girlfriends indulge during their periods. But I'm normally very horny during periods, my breasts are full of milk, my nipples very responsive, so sex with my husband continues nightly, a mix of blow jobs or him in my ass.

As an experiment we did invite one of my girlfriends over when she and I had our periods at the same time. She and I had a great time, fully satisfied, but hubby was a bit of a performing seal, a real stud and left totally shattered!

From Catherine
I'm a very heavy bleeder, so intercourse for the first two days is out. I do like masturbating and being masturbated during this phase, as the orgasms help a lot with the cramps.

I've heard that some people can use a diaphragm during this time, that it's really excellent for holding back the flow. I don't have a diaphragm so I've never tried it. I used a sponge once but my flow was too heavy for it to remain effective (it held for about fifteen minutes).

My libido dips during the third and fourth day, so even though the flow has lessened I'm not as interested. Around the sixth day of my cycle (after the bleeding has ceased) I get a surge in that lovin' feeling. So the wait is worth it!

From Doug
I prefer frank talk to euphemisms for all bodily matters. My long term wife was on the pill and had very short light periods since before we were married. When we got married we got a whole set of maroon towels. She didn't have period for two years after going off the pill. Then with early menopause after 3 kids and 2 years of nursing for each, a lot of periods were skipped. My girlfriend had an hysterectomy before I came along. At this point I'm not likely to get much experience along these lines unless it's with a much younger woman.


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