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From Jim
Oh god, yes I agree completely and hardly think you're weird, Hugh. Matter of fact, I'd say gynecological fantasies are pretty common - there's dozens of such adult sites on the net that cater to such fantasies, bless their smutty hearts!

My wife requests I stay with her during her annual exams for two reasons. She says she's uncomfortable without me there, my presents lending a feeling of support during a stressful exam. And she knows full well that it fuels my imagination to crazy heights and says it enables her to transformers a lousy situation into something titillating - afterwards (when the fantasies run wild), and not during the exam (which are hardly sexy). The key, she says is that I'm there with her and she knows we'll have some sexy fun later playing doctor.

From Janice
I can't say the exam itself is sexy, and I would hate my boyfriend to be there. It such a private thing. But the fantasy of it is hot hot hot. I imagine lying there fully expose while a man (or women, depending on where my imagination happens to roam at the time) spreads my lips and uses the excuse of a gynecological exam to take shameless shocking advantage. Looking, pulling, probing, stretching, rubbing, leaving no part of my pussy and ass 'unexamined'. Christalmighty, is there anything hotter!?

From Brady
A guy in the room as the doctor examines his paramour's pussy?  Damn, if you're all into threesomes, imagine what fun you could have!  Bizarre ideas are already popping into my otherwise empty head.

From Becca
I have these fantasies about a Doctor G who schedules me for therapy to locate my gone missing G spot.  I like to play doctor in my dreams...

As for the actual gynecological exam I must admit that I do get decidedly damp and at my age it's a nice compliment to hear how my vagina is not dry *grin* (my doctor's actual words).

As to the mammogram, that's a definite turn off.  I find nothing erotic about having my breasts smashed between two cold pieces of glass.  That does not give me fodder for fantasy.

From Rose
Well, if you saw my doctor, you'd understand why I never pass up the opportunity to have my annual physical.  He's not only good looking but has a marvelous sense of humor, and a "you go, girl," attitude about my erotic writing and my un-vanilla proclivities.  He's very easy to talk to and I've never gotten the feeling like I'm being rushed in and out of the office like it's some kind of assembly line.  All in all, I just get that lovely feeling of being "looked after," which is quite enjoyable.

As for the gynecological exams, I have never found them the slightest bit off-putting, even as a teenager.  Again, it's that feeling of being "looked after."  It's an erotic feeling, but also much more than that. Because it is actually clinical in nature, there is that sense of objectification, a kind of detached intimacy that I find to be even more of a turn-on.  (I don't know if this is related to the same type of sensations that cause arousal by being objectified in D/s or BDSM play, or not, but I would suspect the answer is yes.)

The doctor is a person to be trusted and when I'm lying there being looked after, it's all about me; someone is actually looking after me.  All that attention and I don't have to do a single thing to warrant it except be me.

From Mary
Unequivocally, NO, visits to the gynecologist are not sexy.  A pelvic exam is at best an uncomfortable experience for me, and that's if the doctor is kind, gentle, and warm-handed.  My first pelvic exam was by the family doctor, and he stuck a cold, Vaseline-coated speculum into me, and proceeded to crank it open until I screamed.  Bastard.  I can only figure that he didn't want to do the exam, and took it out on me.

The main reason for my discomfort is because it's a non-sexual situation, yet I am exposed in the profoundest way, and to a virtual stranger.

From Anonymous
This question reminds me of Mark Twain's "On The River."  There's a scene in which Twain marvels at the beauty of the river to the Captain. The Captain replies that what Twain sees as beautiful, he sees as a threat to the boat.  Years on the river have dulled the sense of beauty for the Captain.  I imagine this must also happen to gynecologists.  I'd rather be a lover and a dilettante where the nether regions are concerned -- never an expert.

From Vol
I've come up with a good fantasy now and then about a gynecological exam, but in real life, depending on the doctor, they can be anything from repellent to friendly, but always businesslike, at least in my experience.

I'm not PC when it comes to the aesthetics of the appearance of garden-variety genitalia -- male or female -- , anyway, and cannot relate to the reader's fascination.  As described by him, his girlfriend's genitals sound somewhat unattractive to me.  Nothing personal here, folks!  Not trying to offend anybody.  It's just that anything other than a plump, pink, clean-shaven pussy or a sturdy, erect pink cock leaves me cold in the artistic-appreciation department.

From Richard
Listening to the many women I have known it becomes clear that most gynecological examinations are experienced as a necessary, frequently embarrassing and more frequently uncomfortable chore.  The discomfort and embarrassment of someone I care about is inevitably a turn-off.

There was a certain Mr. B., a consultant gynecologist, who introduced both my children into the world and who was handsome and charming to an awesome degree such that the eyes of all the women in any given space around him followed him remorselessly.  I have no doubt that he featured in a great many fantasies, though certainly in none of mine.

Ever since I was a child there has seemed to me to be a strange hypocrisy in the almost psychotic aversion so many have to nudity and certain kinds of intimacy being set aside with total strangers just because their titles are doctor or nurse.  As a hetero male I would far prefer that any ministrations or investigations performed on me were done so by happy and flirtatious practitioners - male or female - who were safe in the knowledge that they could be so without my misinterpreting it.  Even having my nuts cupped by a jocular homosexual nurse would, in my view, be preferable to the sterile, "let's-all-pretend-that-this-is-all-totally-meaningless" everyday reality.

Indeed one of the happiest memories I have comes of being 16 years old and working alongside an attractive older staff nurse in a hospital (I was there as a volunteer).  Engaged in a conversation about my anticipated future I told her that though I thought I might one day get married I also thought I would prefer never to have children.  The lovely lady looked me cheerfully up and down and said that the latter ambition was one that women were not likely to allow me to achieve.  One of the sweetest compliments I can ever remember.

I guess in a world of my choosing, those who stand around the examination table would be as naked and potentially as vulnerable as he or she who lies upon it and everyone concerned would be unapologetic of the immeasurable glory each one, male and female, represented.

From Lynne
Are gynecological exams sexy?  Absolutely not.  All I want is a warm speculum and a gentle hand when they rip the bit of skin away from your cervix.

I think it's because you go in for a smear, or other examination with a certain mindset. You're not doing this for fun; you're doing it as a basic health prevention thing. You don't dress up to visit the gynie, you just make sure you're clean and presentable. You know if you do get flirtatious, you'll probably get handed off to someone else next time. It is, literally, more than his job's worth to get even mildly flirtatious.

I can see some situations might be interesting. A routine smear test scheduled, woman goes to a social event, gets flirtatious with a sexy man, but doesn't quite do it. He turns out to be either the doc, or a receptionist, or another doc at the clinic. So he gets to see her after all.  It's a clich situation, needs careful handling of character to be fresh and different.

But in the general run of things - no. This person looks at vagina after vagina all day and probably just hopes they all have decent hygiene. So it's in his mindset, too.

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