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Porn and RelationshipsRecently I discovered a lot of porn on my partner's computer, and I went nuts. The fact is I don’t want my partners to feel like they can’t ever look at porn. What I want is to lose my hang-ups over it and let my partners enjoy. I mean we have good sex so why should I care?

Is porn part of your relationship? Does it heighten or diminish your sexual fulfilment? Share your thoughts about how porn effects relationships.    Anonymous Web Reader


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From Anonymous
Well I have found porn has a place in any relationship.  My wife and I use it every now and then to spice things up.  MF, FF and sometimes MMF or FFM.  I also would go to it for some masturbation material.  Even in the best relationships you still have fantasies and instead of acting on them, I go to porn. 

Anyone one of you who is married and says they don't masturbate are liars or don't have much libido.  The wife knows of this and has on occasion looked at some without me.  I found her looking at 8 lesbian sites on the history one morning and when she got home from work we had crazy hot sex.  She said it is nothing she would act on but, says it gets her hot. 

So, porn when not acted on is o.k. but, if it leads to affairs or in the place of sex with a partner then it is bad.  I guess it depends on the one who is viewing it. 

From Wicked1
I have been, I am now, and always will be a very sexual woman. I love to have wild and unpredictable sex. I have been with a guy for over 5 years now. We have had some great sex at times and both enjoy watching SOME porn. He wants us to watch it, talk about previous sexual experiences and our future fantasies, and masturbate. Problem is that this will go on for as long as 10/12 hours.

At this point I have already had multiple orgasms and he has rubbed the skin off of his pecker and nothing in the world could bring it back to life for ME. He knows how I feel. It is ridiculous for him to expect me to be okay and satisfied with this forever. He should know me better than that. I will never beg him to screw me. There are plenty of others on standby.

From Doug
I've watched a small amount of porn.  Sometimes if I am looking for arousal I will use written erotica.  My partner isn't at all hot on porn.  We have watched a very small amount together and haven't repeated.  I much prefer real  activity with a warm loving lady over other people's activities and fantasy and masturbation.  There is nothing I could read or view that can compete in any way with the real thing.  Of course she is an attractive middle aged sexually responsive friendly lady who loves me and I her, and that helps.  Porn is empty and lacks the emotional connection made with a real person during sex.  To me that connection is the most important aspect.  Meditative intercourse sitting heart to heart, can be a most extraordinary experience.

From Cat
I'm not a fan of porn. I do understand it's draw on both sexes. Me I'd rather read stories. I guess I'm too critical about them. Sometimes the women and men don't look clean. Yuck, how could that turn you on! I'd like it to look real and see some kind of pleasure on their faces. And the verbal phrases could use a little more work. I'd rather spend that time with my partner. We have filmed ourselves and find that a real thrill. But everyone has their own ideas and ways of showing it.

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