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From Megan
I think porn is good for a relationship that's open to trying new things; it's good for people who are open-minded and experimental. It's good for any relationship that needs a new lease on sexual adventures. After a night of watching porn, you might find yourself daydreaming about what could happen the next time. Just thinking of things to do to each other could be enough to make you quiver during the day.  

I went out with someone a long time ago and while the sex was great... I knew something special was going to happen when he lit a LOT of candles, then popped in a porn video. And it set the stage for not only that evening but quite a few more. It was exciting. It was fun. It was definitely satisfying.

It's NOT good for any relationship that depends on it for fulfillment; it's not good if one of the partners is obsessed with it. (A sexual addict is NOT fun to live with.) It's definitely not good for any relationship where one partner doesn't enjoy it. Not only do the bodies have to agree, the minds have to do come to terms first.

From Drd
I'm a 25 year old male. I enjoy looking at porn and have done so since I was a teen. It's a nice dirty release from reality. The girls in the videos don't and can't judge me which is nice. I'm engaged to a very beautiful 20 year old and we now have a son together who is 2 months today. She gets enraged when she looks through the history on the computer and finds I looked at porn.

Ladies let me fill you in, we find you sexy and we love you or we wouldn't be here. Porn is just porn, it's a dark dirty place we can escape to every once in awhile. We're not trying to hurt you, and it isn't cheating. Once again if we didn't want you we would not be with you. Tale as old as like porn...woman get jealous.

From Dr. Danny
I'm not anti-porn. My wife and I watch it sometimes when we are together and it adds spice to our lovemaking. It's a nice little treat once in awhile. But hearing about these young guys whackin to porn rather than being with their available girlfriends is really sad. And the tragedy is that young men who watch a lot of porn and masturbate tend to get conditioned over the years to only being able to get aroused and ejaculate this one way.

From Anonymous
Porn and relationships is great in the right relationship, me and my ex used to enjoy it together and we were open about, it was never hidden like a "dirty secret". But my partner who I have been with for 3 and a half yrs is destroying our relationship with it. I wouldn't have minded him watching it, but it has majorly effected our sex life. When we first got together we were at it like rabbits, then as he watched more porn our sex life decreased quickly and he became less interested in my needs... quick blow job trying to make me deep throat, doggy style him shoot his load and he's done. Never longer than a couple of minutes. I feel used when we do have sex, rejected when we don't. I don't feel like a sexual being any more when I felt like a sex goddess before. I can't take much more of it.

From Anonymous
I am the type that gets somewhat mad at the fact that my man watches porn....(sneaks). But at the same time I find myself wanting to watch it with him. Male/female only. When I try to bring it up in creative ways....I find it not happening. It can be turned into a sexy thing...we can learn a little something new.

From Jay
My husband and I regularly watch porn movies, have done for many years, we have a 'library' of about 50 and growing, mainly tapes but now some DVDs, with six new ones bought each year, a mix of straight, gay and bi. We both have very busy jobs so watch porn to relax us at the end of a stressful day, also using it as part of our foreplay.

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