Porn and Relationships
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From MidnightBones
Porn, soft, hard - I think it adds to the intimate act of being with your lover. As long as both of you are into it and don't feel threatened or feel like porn is "needed" - then I don't think there is anything wrong with it at anytime. I enjoy porn, both alone and with my lover. I wouldn't be upset to come home from a long day at work to find my lover masturbating to a porn flick. 

For some, it would be extremely painful or offensive. To me, it is another form of intimacy and sometimes, therapy - to want to love one's own body and use visual or audio aides. I would only hope to be included when the time is most appropriate. Pop it in, and warm up with or without audio; preferably with audio and then by adding to it, when the moments are just right! 

From Anonymous
My boyfriend is addicted to porn. He doesn't care if I find it disgusting or not, he will just keep right on playing with himself in front of me. He, too , will go on about what he wants to do to me later on. And he is having trouble getting hard. If it gets up it doesn't stay long. (while I am sitting there thinking you dummy I am right here and you would rather look at pictures?)

 He is so gross about sex. He will just ask for blow job or beg me to let him eat my pussy. To me is disgusting. He watches porn, gets hot and bothered and then wants to fuck me? I think he would probably fuck the cow out back. Porn is gross and hurts a relationship really badly. I am to the point now I don't care if he ever touches me again

From Anonymous
I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now, and a little over a year ago he started getting into porn and magazines, and it just progressed from there. He became a member to several sex sites, as well as a member to a site to find Escorts, and gone as far as purchasing expensive Sex Medications. 

When confronted about the movies and magazines, of course he denied they belonging to him. They were a friend's that he was hiding for him from his wife. I believed him, until I soon came across more, and then found out about the sex meds., and when I asked him if he has bought any medications, I was told no. 

He has called several women for phone sex, to meet for sex, and even e-mailed women....all the while denying that he was in a relationship. He had never done this to me, until he started watching porn and viewing magazines. I believe that if you are hiding them so your partner doesn't know that you have them, or you deny any of it, that you are in fact cheating! And until your partner can be honest, and open, there is no hope of saving your relationship.

I do not trust him anymore, because of all of his lies and deceit. He has truly hurt me and my self-esteem, and made my opinion of him very low. I have never felt so used, and abused, neglected and ashamed in all my life. Porn, when not shared or at least honest about, is a Relationship Wrecker.

From Calculus
Let's get this straight. Men are turned on by visual stimulation than women. Men like porn more than women. This will not change. It will be like suppressing a basic need, like hunger. This does not mean he is cheating on her, since the man is just enjoying a fantasy. The fact that women cannot fantasize by looking at porn and using sex-toys can barely be called the man's problem; she is also at liberty to look into porn & enjoy sex-toys herself. 

Problems are created when men are overdoing it, neglecting duties to their partners. And further, women's popular argument "Am I not enough for him?"; I think that is really narrow-minded. Men are wired in the brain differently than women in a way that will make them quite enjoy porn. Really. There is nothing wrong with it and there is nothing preventing women from taking the same attitude towards fantasizing sex.

I read somewhere in this forum that some women have resorted to actually cheating on their partners (with other men) in revenge of their men looking at porn. Hey, that's what I would call cheating and not men just looking at porn. How can you even to compare the two? What's more "serious"? Enjoying porn or adultery?

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