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Public Shaving I only shaved my bikini line and only when absolutely necessary. I found shaving my pubic hair unpleasant in so many ways.  When I decided to try shaving more I wound up shaving it all off. Once I got use to that I found I preferred it that way. I've got a few questions on shaving.  Do you shave your pubic hair?  If so, how much do you shave off?  What about your partner or lover or spouse?  Do you prefer them to shave their pubic hair, and again, how much?

It says as much about you as your shoes. —Kim Catrall (Sex and the City on the importance of pubic hair styles.)

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From Kelly
We got this shaving thing figured out.  My man wanted to shave me and I agreed only if I could shave him.  At first he didn't want to but one evening in the heat of the moment he asked again and I said sure you can shave me after I shave you.  I took a trimmer and mowed it down for the blade and then cleaned him bare.  He did the same to me, sex was great.  Now we use the trimmer on the shortest setting which says .0750 inches and that stops the itching when hair grows back.  We trim each other about once a week.  It's quick with no risk of cuts and looks bare unless you are very close.

From Erika
I am proud to be a hair lover.  I'm bi and like a full, natural, wild bush on both men and women.  I prefer unshaven legs as well (I love to stroke them, massage them) and I am keen on nibbling unshaven armpits.  I myself don't shave or trim my bush, or my legs.  When I was younger I trimmed, and shaved along my bikini line, but as I've gotten older (I'm 34 now) I care less about that and would rather be with partners who like it natural. 

I'm quite lucky that my husband likes me as-is, and is also willing to keep his pubic hair in its natural, unruly state.  I think for me, a huge part of the appeal of a full bush is the way it traps a person's natural, sensual scent.  Such a turn on!  I also love twining my fingers in the hair.  My own bush is curly and occasionally my husband will twirl it into little pretty curls.  Makes me feel quite sexy.

From Ed
In summer my wife goes bare or almost bare. In winter its the full natural bush together with underarm hair. I love winter!

From Ashton
I too had that hospital shave. Weeks later as my hair was growing back, it itched like a bitch.  My wife complained that it was sticking her during intimacy and wanted to shave me.  Because of the itching I said OK.  I asked her to leave a patch above my penis and she said ok.  The patch was uneven and she kept trimming it until I was totally bald again. The close shave stopped the itching. 

A few days later I ask if I could shave her and she reluctantly said ok but leave a landing strip.  I shaved her and really meant to leave the landing strip but it looked crooked so I kept taking a little more off to straighten it.  Finally, I just shaved the whole thing bare.  It's hard to get a landing strip straight and she had made my patch so uneven she just shaved it off saying it would have itched anyways.  She got the same.

Ever since if my hair starts to stick her she shaves me again and then I shave her.  Maybe every 10 days or so.  Intimacy is much better when you are smooth. Oral has increased 500% or more which I like and don't want it to stop. We've continued shaving each other for about 8 months now and I've gotten used to it and don't want it to itch  like when the stubble gets too long. I would recommend the smooth look and it's better if you shave each other and have fun with the process. Try it and enjoy.

From Chad
I prefer my wife bare and smooth and I shave her most of the time.  We both enjoy the process.  She says any girl would like to be pampered this way.  Recently I had a medical procedure and had to be shaved in the hospital by a nurse prior to the procedure.  She came in with a battery clipper and shaved me from the nipples to the penis as the doctor ordered.  This was embarrassing to say the least, especially when she held my penis to move it out of the clippers path in order to remove all my hair. 

From Harry
I remember once coming back with my then wife to the US on a ferry from Vancouver Island. I noticed a young German couple at the rail enjoying the Sound view.  The woman wore shorts and she had a lovely growth of fine, light brown-blondish hair on her legs.  I couldn't help fantasizing about her pussy hair, imagining it to be the same honey color and straight instead of kinky (remember, it's a fantasy!).  I've never fucked a completely hairless pussy, so naturally I'm curious.  But I've fucked both wild/never cut and trimmed.  My preference is for trimmed.  A full bush is okay as long as the pussy below is trimmed.  Not shaved or waxed, just trimmed. 

The absence of out of control growth lets me see her swollen pussy lips in all their glory.  And her clit erection, too, if she has one big enough to see.  This makes giving cunnilingus more fun in every way. 

When I masturbate while looking at pussies, I like lots of hair, but not so much that I can't see the object of my fantasy.  So I like hair.  A big beautiful bush and a somewhat hairy pussy.  I don't want to see genitalia that looks like my baby daughter when I changed her or gave her a bath.  I like women and pussy hair is one of the things that makes a woman a woman. 

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