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From Harry
I remember once coming back with my then wife to the US on a ferry from Vancouver Island. I noticed a young German couple at the rail enjoying the Sound view.  The woman wore shorts and she had a lovely growth of fine, light brown-blondish hair on her legs.  I couldn't help fantasizing about her pussy hair, imagining it to be the same honey color and straight instead of kinky (remember, it's a fantasy!).  I've never fucked a completely hairless pussy, so naturally I'm curious.  But I've fucked both wild/never cut and trimmed.  My preference is for trimmed.  A full bush is okay as long as the pussy below is trimmed.  Not shaved or waxed, just trimmed. 

The absence of out of control growth lets me see her swollen pussy lips in all their glory.  And her clit erection, too, if she has one big enough to see.  This makes giving cunnilingus more fun in every way.  Here's the thing about full, never been cut pussy hair.  For me it's a warning sign that the woman may have self-image problems.  That she is so mentally messed up she's ashamed to touch herself down there.  This same hang-up can also extend to bad hygiene.  So a hairy mess can also become a dirty mess. 

When I masturbate while looking at pussies, I like lots of hair, but not so much that I can't see the object of my fantasy.  So I like hair.  A big beautiful bush and a somewhat hairy pussy.  I don't want to see genitalia that looks like my baby daughter when I changed her or gave her a bath.  I like women and pussy hair is one of the things that makes a woman a woman. 

From Paul (essex)
Both my wife and I are completley hair free all over and have been for some time. It is much more sensual especially when using oils or lubricant, and in my mind there is nothing more beautiful than a pussie so why hide it behind a curtain

From Chad
I prefer my wife bare and smooth and I shave her most of the time.  We both enjoy the process.  She says any girl would like to be pampered this way.  Recently I had a medical procedure and had to be shaved in the hospital by a nurse prior to the procedure.  She came in with a battery clipper and shaved me from the nipples to the penis as the doctor ordered.  This was embarrassing to say the least, especially when she held my penis to move it out of the clippers path in order to remove all my hair. 

From Cat
I tried the bare route 2'xs. I hated it. I got nothing but ingrown hairs. It hurt. Second, growing in itched and my partner finally realized how it felt with stubble. A new look on things. I keep it short and trimmed nicely. When the man I was seeing walk in on me he was turned on. I sit backwards on the toilet to keep hair from being everywhere. So, we've turned it into a sex game. The times I did shave it made me feel like a little girl. I did not like that.

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