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From Andrew
I am 28 and single.  I would have to say that I find a full bush more erotic than a shaved one.  I enjoy running my fingers through it and kissing it.  I don't mind a few hairs in my mouth as I dine.  I also find hairy armpits very erotic and love to lick and caress them.  However, I find smooth legs very appealing but don't mind hairy ones either.  I think body hair is there for a reason and should not be messed with. 

From Olsinr
To each his/her own, but as for me I love the bush.  At 83 I am a well seasoned widower and know what I like but don't tell my grands.  They think I should spend my waking hours rocking in a chair.

From Anonymous
For me, I do not like the feel of razor stubble, nor do I want to feel smooth. I like knowing my woman is a women, not a child. I love the feel of a woman's hair on her mons area above her vagina. Especially if she trims it a little, but no matter what it much better than stubbleewe!

From Eric
I asked my girl to stay clean shaven all the time.  It looks good and clean.  She reads this stuff.  I've shaved her many times and love the bare feel.  I have a big bush of dark brown hair, never trimmed.  Recently after I shaved her bare, she said, I wonder what your dick would look like without all that hair around it?  I didn't take her serious as I've never cut my pubic hair.  She once took a picture of me flying a kite stark naked and said how good the dark contrast of my hair to white skin looked. I reminded her and she said styles change and that's why I'm shaved and you need to try the clean look too.  Then she got all heavy handed and demanded me to be shaved clean like her or else.

 I don't have a hair left on or around my penis.  My underarms are smooth and burning.  My chest, belly and thighs are smooth.  I had a few hairs on my butt and she shaved them too.  She didn't shave me from the knees down and it looks weird.  We are both looking prepubescent and she says we will stay that way permanently if I want her smooth. Sex is enhanced with smooth skin to smooth skin.  I get more oral and I like that, but I feel so naked. I hope I don't have to go to the doctor.

From Anon
I'm female and I trim my pubic hair pretty closely, but not bare.  I prefer the same on my partners.  It keeps things tidy, but there's still some hair to play with.  And it doesn't get itchy like completely bare does.  I tried completely bare a couple of times.  As well as being itchy as it grows in, the hypersensitivity is annoying during the portion of life spent outside the bedroom.  It was great during sex and foreplay, but not so great when I was trying to focus on something at work.

I'm in my 40s, so when I was younger, the bush was the norm.  I didn't really start pubic hair grooming there until my 30s.  The natural bush tends to get caught in underwear or against the adhesive in menstrual pads.  It also traps more odor. I think trimmed is a nice compromise between the 2.  But to each, his or her own.

From Anonymous
I for one have no delusions about my wife being pre-pubescent when she is bald. I love to kiss, feel and stroke her vagina when she is smooth and especially love the feeling of sliding my bald Dick into her, burying it deep so that I make maximum contact with her. It is almost like the surface area of my dick expanded to increase the sensations of being inside her.

Before kids it was much easier to have a night of shaving fun that turned into months of smoothness. Now I dream of when we can get back to that again. If I did not have young kids I would have my hair removed permanently. I know it is not for all but both of us would love it.

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