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From Jay
I am a super clean freak of 52 years old and have been shaving my balls regularly for the last 30 years. A former boyfriend got me going on it and I just never stopped. Being super smooth has been a big plus for me over the years. I know it helps keep things on the up and up.

From Julia
Hmmm, to shave or not to shave! As a 48 (nearly 49) year old wife & mother who enjoys nude sunbathing and used to go to naturist health clubs with hubby (until high blood pressure prevented me from enjoying saunas & steam rooms), I have always maintained that a good covering of hair provided a bit of privacy! (you try stepping in or out of a hot tub without exposing your bits to all present.). So labia hair is good. How about the triangle of hair then? Well you can't really shave that off and keep labia hair without it looking odd! So be hairy and happy has been my motto.....until last autumn.

I was trimming my bush with hubby's hair trimmers as usual only I hadn't noticed he had changed the comb fitting for one that cut much shorter for his sideburns. That was a bummer! My normally luxuriant bush now had a "landing strip" of very short hair down the middle. I had no choice but to go all the way and trim the lot off. I then got Philippe to shave the stubble and shave my labia while he was at it. And guess what? It wasn't as bad as I expected. I rather enjoyed the smoothness of the skin. Philippe positively loved it (made for great oral sex!), so much so we got down to it there and then.

Six months on I am still "smooth", but with warmer months around the corner and the prospect of visits to beaches, I think I will let my hair grow back. The notion of passing creeps being able to see my genitalia clearly doesn't appeal!

From Triathlete
This is an enjoyable debate! I prefer to be cleanly shaven down the penis region, and I prefer my woman to be cleanly shaven around her vagina etc. Lovemaking would be beautiful, clean, imaginative and the man and woman would look sexually desirable to each other!

When either of them want to pleasure themselves during their own time, the masturbation experience would be a better experience. There are no hairs around the region!

From Tammi
What about men shaving? I keep hubby fully trimmed, top of his cock and around his balls. Some guys I know are as bushy as the women they complain about (I'm a fiftiesomething lady and fully shaven). It's a two way street guys, and my personal preference is for shaven men, especially if they are dark. 

Great to have a masculine looking guy with hairy legs and torso, but nice to have a trimmed pubic hair zone, especially when going down on the fella, sucking cock and balls without fear of hairs in the mouth ruining the enjoyment!

From CJ
I do some modeling at my husband's photo and film club and my ego still gets a boost when I turn up to do some posing for the club members. When I first started modeling I had a very bushy beaver, hubby should have told me to trim it but didn't, it was some of the other guys who suggested I could trim it back to a vertical piece. I did, then they asked me to dye it blonde and I did, then they said I should shave it all off and I did.

No problems, it looks good, makes me feel very sexy and the guys with their cameras like the all smooth look for close ups and upskirt panty shots.

From Anonymous
I have found that the Seiko, Clean Cut is the best intimate shaver out there. There is no itching at all after the first few times! It's amazing, love it! Having a shaved pussy, makes me wetter and hotter than ever. I just love the feeling!

From Erin
I like to keep it neatly trimmed with a small landing strip on top. During the summer I wear some pretty skimpy bikinis. It's usually shaved clean to avoid any straggler from peeking out. Shaving makes me so horny too that my hubby loves the "hot" Summer.

From Anonymous
I shave my pussy because there is no hair getting in the way when my man gives me a good licking!! He loves it too. it makes my pussy so soft to touch and silky.... I love the freedom it gives me too!

From Helen
I'm in my early fifties and separated from my husband for six months or so last year. During that period I had two relationships, both younger men. One was very caring and loving and displayed a sophistication in our relationship well beyond his years. His desire to please me sexually was paramount and his foreplay techniques were breathtaking, often leading me to orgasm well before he entered me. Part of his foreplay was his superb cunnilingus technique and when he requested I trim my pubic hairs I willingly complied. My enjoyment and satisfaction suddenly improved, me shaving the remaining hairs, pleasing him and further heightening my responses and pleasure. My experiences with this man told me that for any lady interested in cunnilingus would achieve extremely intense pleasure with a fully shaven 'pussy', an untrimmed bush being very much a passion-killer. Once reconciled with hubby he of course noticed my shaven condition and was duly excited by it (and the little heart tattoo I had done down there) and while his oral techniques do not yet compare to my lover, my husband improves all the time and I shave daily to ensure full smoothness. To maximise on my shaven state, I am even considering a little stud clipped to one of my labia.

From Keith
I started shaving almost completely about ten years ago. The sensations of having a smooth cock and balls is extremely erotic and more appealing in a thong or bikini. My wife shaves too; seeing my smooth cock sliding in and out of her shaved pussy turns us both on.

From Dawn
I noticed how smooth my daughter was when she came to stay with us a few months after giving birth to her first. She said she'd shaved for two reasons, one because her husband said a smooth pussy excited him, and the other in readiness for the birth. She told me to trim off the big bush I had, calling it 'unhygienic'. Although I wasn't pregnant and sex with my husband was a memory, I did shave it. Not all off at first, a good trim, then when I was happy I went all smooth. 

I was very proud of my new 'look' and got some sexy undies and shorter skirts, my daughter advising me that a good combo to show off a smooth look was a short skirt, sheer toe to waist pantyhose, no panties. She said it would intrigue the men, and she was right - my pussy hasn't created this amount of attention since my high school days!

From Alchemist
My girlfriend and I have been shaving for 7 months now. It's no longer new so the novelty has worn off. It seems totally normal now. The extra sensitivity of the skin has decreased to normal, just as my facial skin does after I shave off a beard of long standing. The "chicken skin" present originally in some areas on both of us has entirely disappeared. For each of us, our pubic area skin is getting soft and smooth.

And we both still really like it. The results are getting better and easier to maintain. And sensuously, there is just no going back. So delightfully smooth with no hairs in the mouth. With the layers of scaly dead tissue removed inside the outer labia and around the clitoris her aroma is fresh, much more mild and delightful. 

I've noticed that a lot more people shave in some parts of the country than in others. And usually a higher percentage of women than men are trimming closely or shaving/waxing if there is any difference. It's obvious that some are going to find waxing incredibly painful whereas others will find it tolerable. We both use dry shaving about 95% of the time and take care of certain difficulties with a wet razor. It appears to be getting more and more popular fairly rapidly.

From Jim
Oh oh, Lee's husband [see Lee's entry below] is in some kinda of trouble: he sees a tattoo down there, but doesn't notice his wife 'shaved everything clean away'. That's not good. 

Personally speaking, I like a nicely trimmed bush. A clean shave looks so wrong, just odd and un-natural. Like a hairless cat. No fun petting a hairless pussy. 

From Lee
We have sex once or twice a week and my husband did not noticed I'd shaved everything clean away. Reason for getting rid of it was my daughter. She had gotten herself a tattoo down there and convinced me to do likewise, she is 27, I'm 52, she's just gone thru a divorce she is trying to get her life back together, we are big buddies so we do a lot as a team, like going Friday nights to this pick up place, so she said I had to get myself all sexied up! 

My design was a black stallion, turned hubby on and we had some good sex that night. I trim every morning before my shower with a lady razor, then lotion up the area after I'm out and dry, then lots of scent. If I'm going out I trim again before my shower. With no bush I can now wear some cute panties and thongs and I am no longer unhappy about wearing real short skirts, there is no bush hair to poke out of panties to embarrass me when I sit or dance. 

Men like it unshaven as well of course. Lots of them think the pussy is real sexy and should not be hidden away and when they go down on you they are very happy there is no hair in the mouth problems. Hubby digs the tattoo, still don't think he has noticed I'm all clean down there, has not said a word!

From Paul
For me, the hairier the better. Pubic hair is a sign of sexual maturity. Why would a woman want to disguise that fact by shaving everything off?

I love oral sex and have had experience of every different type of pussy. The hairy one beats all of the others hands-down. There is nothing to beat that beautiful musty smell which is trapped in the pubes.

The sight of a few pubes peaking out from the swimsuit bottom is a great turn-on for me. I also find the unshaven armpit very sexy. Once again it is a sign that the woman is sexually mature.

From Ghost Rider
Safkid, [see Safkid's entry below] have your girlfriend to get some Bikini Zone lotion to use after shaving. It keeps the razor bumps at a minimum and kills the itching that occurs when the hair starts growing back through the skin.

From Rogerio
My wife and I both shave. We find that the skin around our genitals which would otherwise be covered with hair is very sensitive. The feelings we get when we massage and lick those areas vastly compensate the discomfort we get when the hair starts to grow back. At that point we just shave again - about once a week. Also, that discomfort decreases after the skin gets used to the shaving.

For me there is nothing better than to come all over my wife's open, shaved pussy and then lick it all up. Yummy.

From Safkid
My girl likes to shave her pubic hair off completely. But once it starts to grow out it itches a great deal. Therefore she only shaves every 2or 3 years. Do any of you ladies have a method to stop the itching. I love the bald look and it is easy on the face. Thanks for any advise.

From Shave Everyday
I shave my pubic hairs every day to minimise the itching around my scrotum etc. As a recreational athlete, I find that shaving the pubic hairs regularly makes me feel really sexy, and I feel really clean all the time!

Shaving the pubic hairs on a regular basis makes the joy and excitement of wearing speedo briefs and male g-strings quite rewarding! Females cannot see any pubic hairs around the neither region!

From Prefers Punani Plush
Me? I love a nice big bush. I could stand to see a neat, sleek, laser-depilated fanny, but the shaved ones strike me as ghastly. The worst of all is the "Brazilian" which just looks so hideously artificial and does nothing for the appearance of a woman's physique.

Since the dawning of these realisations, I've actually come to prefer women as-is. Even armpit and leg hair. Doesn't phase me, and I like the textures and smells. I don't necessarily go for very hairy girls, just ordinary ones as nature intended.

Keep that pretty triangle, ladies.

From Pulchra
I can't imagine not having a furry pussy. I think it looks beautiful and it smells awesome. My hair is soft and blonde and I think my bits wouldn't be nearly as lovely without it. I trim it a bit before I get my period so that it doesn't get all matted from the blood, but I'd never shave it. Having pubic hair is a natural part of being a woman and I think not only accepting that, but also appreciating it, is very healthy.

From Joey
Hellooooooo. Have we forgotten the other sex? I've been shaving my dick and balls and anus for over 20 years and would never go back to being a furball. Two simple reasons - cleanliness and sensation. I am always clean and dry now (a girlfriend once told me how former boyfriends sometimes had sweaty balls - oooh) and the touch on freshly shaved skin is beyond belief. I love the feeling of walking around without underwear and feeling my dick and balls sliding around between my legs. Before I shaved, I hardly knew they were there.

I think most guys think it is unmanly to not be hairy beasts. That is their loss. The guys out there that haven't discovered what every porn star has is really missing the boat. Hairless is next to Godliness in my opinion. Just shave yourself, dry off and apply some lotion and tell me you will EVER go back.

As for the ladies, it's your call. But I clearly prefer not having to deal with loose pubic hairs when I want to lick and suck a throbbing clit....

From Cathy
I keep mine short and trimmed. I can't shave it all, I get nothing but ingrown hairs. But I like to vary it. A heart for Valentine day, green for St. Patty's. Sometimes I shave the outer lips. I even did it like the crop circle's once. I like a guy who at least cuts his down. I don't like hair in my mouth it throws off my mission.

From Nya
Personally, fully shaved creeps me out the door. And, quite honestly, shaving pubes is a huge pain. That hair is thicker than the hair on my legs and the skin is super sensitive, so I got razor burn the only time I tried shaving my pussy. It wasn't fun at all. As for smell, if a woman smells bad, she needs to a) shower, or b) see her gyno because she's got an infection. A healthy, clean person shouldn't smell bad.

From Ray
Hmm.... The girls I have been with have all had hair to one degree or another (clipped short, or left natural), and I have learned one thing Hair van be very sexy, but I HATE getting hair caught between my teeth.

Just leaving a wedge on the pubic mound might be the best of both worlds, but can't speak from personal experience there.

From Philip
Any man who automatically associates a pussy with a pizza needs to visit a few good restaurants, I think.

Pussy au natural is okay for just doing the deed, but when it comes to administering some close up and personal attention it can sometimes be a bit of a mouthful, like wading through a deep forest where the branches keep on springing back and smacking you in the face. At least you don't need to floss afterwards!

Trimmed is my favourite, but can be a bit rough on the old tongue. Pubic hairs recently trimmed with a razor can be quite sharp. A nice prim wedge is good, but a Hitler's moustache is just too silly and should be banned.

Fully shaven is quite a thrill, at first, but strangely I find its novelty wears off very quickly, making one wish for a bit of frizz. Frizz is fun!

From J. Corvo
A while back, maybe quite a while back, when shaved was rare and when you opened Playboy or Penthouse and the women mostly had pubic hair, it was wonderfully exciting to find pictures of women without. Then some more time went by and now that bare is in—I find myself looking forward to lush bushes.

A few days ago I rented a movie called, "The Coca-Cola Kid," There is a wonderful—but far too short scene of a woman in a shower with her seven or eight year old daughter. It is a loving and wonderful scene, and as the movie was made some time back and the woman who plays the mother has a full bush. As I watched her (I confess to rewinding several times) I was struck by how much that dark triangle was so much a part of what I find exciting about women.

I have never had the experience of a fully shaved pussy, some have been well trimmed and others have been sparse, but I think I would miss that familiar feel of those first few hairs as I slide my hand down my lover's belly and find that boundary-line between smooth skin and hair.

It's been a long time, but I still remember that first moment of sliding my hand beneath a girlfriend's waist band and traced the smooth, soft dip in flesh below the slight dome of her belly that then rises to the first hairs. It was magical and transformative. It was the line between the maybe and the possible.

Even today, a small part of that old thrill stays with me. I like the feel of its rough matt under my palm. I like the way it frames the opening, and how the wetness clinging to the hairs tells of my lover's excitement and desire.

I like the feel of it under my cheek as I pause for a moment on my way up, or on my way down.

I like catching a glimpse of it as my lover dresses, or gets up from bed to go pee or get a glass of wine and turns away for a moment, so that as she turns there is the briefest of fragment of time when light passes through the dark curls before it disappears from sight and is replaced by the luscious roll of her hips as she strides away.

There have been black, blond, red, graying, and brown bushes. Some had hair that was rough and coarse, others were silky smooth and there were others of all textures in between. Some were trimmed. Others were as wild as a Louisiana swamp.

I have touched them, kissed them, nuzzled and gently cropped at them and fallen asleep cupping them under my hand.

I might not miss that errant hair that hangs half way down my throat and will not move up or down and is too far to reach but too high to swallow. But I would miss the friend who has excited, enticed, mesmerized, tantalized and filled me with desire for more than thirty years.

From Helena
I hear you. Bush is cool.

One of my fave moments as a reader came in a book I read last year in which (at one point) the hero, having agreed to spend a day with a woman he's become increasingly attracted to, is walking with her in a waterfront park in NYC, and she's wearing a bit of a sheer dress. It's sunny and he catches what might be a glimpse of a knot of thick hair, silhouetted through the fabric (guess she had gone commando). It was a cool moment. Sets him wondering if it's really her bush, or an illusion (he'll find out eventually). I liked the emphasis on it. Never forgot it, in fact. The whole scene in the park was loaded with conjecture on both their parts, as they try to assess each others hidden treasure - without really touching and builds to an agonizing near-climax, then tumbles away, maddeningly. Have to read another 50 pages before they (and you) find out.

Ya bush (the womanly kind) can be cool.

From Bethany
I'm a part-time model and the first time I have to shave was for a catalogue photo-shoot. I was 18 and the bikinis were really small. The make up lady said it's gotta come off love but I was horrified. In the end I agreed as long as they left a bit. 'A bit' ended up being a tiny stamp sided patch at the top where my split ends. 

It was so embarrassing sitting there in the dressing room with my legs apart while the lady shaved me. All the other girls and some other people were coming and going and kept taking a peek. Even though I was embarrassed I got wet as the lady touched me there to shave me. Afterwards I kept getting wet for days when the bikinis or panties rubbed on my exposed bits. I didn't realise how much my bits stick out from the mound there until I was shaved. 

Now I'm 24 and keep it fully waxed because it's much easier whatever clothes I'm modelling.

From Mark
After we did some light swinging, Lydia, my wife, shaved her pubic hair to a narrow vertical strip, also dying it blonde to match her hair color. With her vagina now visible, I found the vista incredibly beautiful and erotic, motivating me to rediscover cunnilingus, my technique improving all the time, me now giving Lydia multiple orgasms. 

She has just had a small double-heart tattoo done in the area once covered by her pubic hair, just above her opening, plus a stud clipped to her clitoris. Not bad for a fiftiesomething lady!

From Phil
My wife used to trim her pubic hair but when it turned color (we're in our sixties) she tried to dye it to match her hair color then decided to shave it all off, and I'm a very big fan. Not only does her pussy area look very sexy and exciting I no longer get pubic hair in my mouth when I go down on her. 

Since shaving I've also bought her some sexy see thru panties which do full justice to her pussy area beauty. In a few months time she goes on a short vacation with her widowed sister and I jokingly told her not to hide her shaven pussy away and ensure other men got to admire it. I will have to wait to see if she does.

From Teddy
I shave my balls and shaft clean. I shave about 1" above my shaft and the sides of my pubic area to form a rectangle patch of pubic hair. I then trim what's left fairly tight with a clippers. My girlfriend loves sucking on my shaved balls and deep throating me when I am trimmed. Also, I get very horny and hard when I lather up and shave in the shower.

From Kris
Oh my god to be shaved or not to be? I love to keep a little patch on the top and the rest bald. I get more sensation when I am masturbating or when hubby is down having desert. I think it totally good for a woman to have a full messy bush that is like flossing your teeth while your man is eating.

From Mel
You know, it's funny, but I never use to have a problem with pubic hair until I watched a few porn videos/magazines. It has to be the media, that brings this disgust or the discomfort toward pubic hair. 

It wasn't until I was older that I began 'wanting the pubic hair off'. The first time I shaved, it was so new and I thought it was great, but after awhile I got bored of only smooth, so I grew it back. I shaved again, six months later, (and I have the pillowy, kind of outer lips) and I was looking in the mirror, thinking my vagina now kind of looked like the top of a bald man's head. (Not Good) Now, the hair is back, and I think I look more womanly naked than before. 

I've never had a huge bush anyway. If the hair is hanging half way down your leg, by all means trim it, but otherwise the stubble, razor burns, waxing (What a pain!) The natural look is not as horrible as people think. I'm betting if the media and porn, displayed nothing but women and models with 'hair' that is the look women would be aspiring to.

From Think_Kink
I shave everything off. I have been doing it since puberty. I prefer having a bald vagina; it's softer and looks way sexier in my opinion. My boyfriend likes it that way, too. I can't imagine having him go down on me with a hairy pussy! I feel sexier with a shaved vagina; I don't remember ever being hairy really. I just feel like a hairy vagina is just not my style.

From Franco
All pussy is beautiful, no matter what. But a woman with a hairy pussy is very attractive and sexy. It is a big turn on for me if a woman has a hairy bush. And when it comes to eating a woman, I can eat a hairy pussy for hours.

From Liz
I keep my pussy smooth and shaved, pubic hair just bothers me. It has no business being there. I miss the old days when it was naturally bare. The thing is, I can't see a goddamn thing down there when there is hair all over it. I want to see my crotch when I look at it. I don't want it covered up. Not only that but it feels cleaner when it's shaved, the pubic hair traps things and it gets gross.

And in the summer when i wear swimsuits, I don want hair sticking out and showing. It looks weird. And one more important reason, shaved is easier on a guy's face, or so I've heard. I know I would not want to eat a hairy pussy if I were a guy.

Although I have to admit, if it was winter and if I was celibate, I would probably let the hair grow back.

From Anonymous
I don't like a shaved woman. I think a hairy pussy looks so sexy. For me the hairier, the better. The more hairy it is the more I want to eat it.

From Jane
I used to be a swim teacher, and for modesty's sake, I shaved along the top and sizes of my area.

I can't bring myself to shave or wax it all off completely, though. The idea of it, and the idea of looking like a little girl down there after, freaks me out a bit. My ex-boyfriend had some strange addiction to cleanliness, and would shave himself completely, which I found to make him look very immature, as well as his constant requests for me to shave as well. He literally had no hair, except for his eyebrows and the hair on top of his head.

Current boyfriend has naturally no hair on his chest or back, which I love, but has hair everywhere else, which I also love. His kissing my skin with a jaw that's shaved nearly only once a week turns me on; glimpsing the hair below his hips as he throws on his dressing gown thrills me.

Completely shaven people look weird and childlike, and having sex with people who have childlike bodies is disturbing.

From Fast
It's not lady-like to have a big messy bush. I literally stopped getting hot-and-heavy with a girl because when I reached down her panties, it felt like a wolverine was hiding in there.

I must confess to getting a "hankering" for a big bush once in a while. I am happy to just enjoy some free pics on the internet though.

My girlfriend has been shaving since her pubes grew in during puberty. It wasn't sexual for her; she was into shaving her legs, and the pubic hair seemed out of place or whatever. Same with her underarms. Now she shaves it bald all the time.

The big news is we recently paid almost $6000 for laser hair removal on our bodies. I am getting my chest, abs, back, buttocks, front neck, and pubic hair done. She is getting her pubes, legs, and underarms.

I find it really erotic to have hairless genitals, though I am a little worried about guys finding out (somehow). Just for the record, the pain is tolerable, to get laser hair removal on your dick and balls and everything around it. They say it feels a little bit like a tattoo, but I don't have any tattoos. It does hurt, like a small pain from a pin prick. I always use the prescription skin-numbing cream, and it helps a lot.

The front neck is truly torture though. Absolutely torture. On the front neck, it feels like a hot needle being stabbed into your neck for about 1 second. Terrible!

From Anonymous
I shave the bits that stick out of my bikini, but other than that I leave it long and bushy. My boyfriend likes to pull it with his teeth and separate the hair 2 find the clit before going down on me.

From Anonymous
Why would anyone want a hairy pussy - buy a cat! I have had a clean shaved smooth pussy for years and would never go back to all that hair hanging around. Every man I have been with loved the fact that I took the time to clean and shave it. Little girl look? Wow my pussy never looked so grown up. It doesn't take hair to make a women. I love my husband for keeping his joy stick clean and shaved. Nothing worse then a mouth full of hair and cock. 

The only hair on my body is my head and that's short. keep it clean and shaved, who needs panties then? I save a fortune in not buying underwear, everything is there waiting to be touched, licked and sucked on, anytime. It's the least I can do for the person I love.

From Alchemist
My girlfriend and I have shaved for about 2 months now. I had tried several previous times with wet razors and electric and trimmers of the period and nothing worked any better on my pubic area than on my neck. 2 months ago we suddenly both agreed that we would like to give it a try again. We did this just before a 12 day camping trip at several nudist clubs/resorts.

Oral sex is so fabulously better smooth than hairy. I really liked her auburn bush sparkling red in the sunlight. I was trying to persuade her to let me do a series of pictures including her lovely bush lit for effect. Now I never will most likely. On the other hand, her inner labia never get painfully folded in, pulled by hairs, any more. Intercourse is just glorious. So slick and soft and smooth and sensual. No more hard spikes around the base of her clit. No hairs on my shaft or anywhere nearby. No hair form between inner and outer labia causing all sorts of discomfort.

She couldn't keep her hands off of her pussy the first month she was smooth. I couldn't either. Or my tongue or my lips. And she said that suddenly she wanted to run around showing it off . She has no intention going back and neither do I.

I had a large reduction in pain from the hair. Around the base it would pull and rub during sex of all kinds and did not feel good. Now everything sexual feels better. I itch far less there than anywhere else on my body now. Turns out all that itching is tickles by hair. I really liked her luxuriant bush. And I really like her smooth. it's different. And sex of all varieties are better now. And oral sex is most improved

From Red
Do not shave ladies, please... except from the hair that goes out of the bikini. But leave the triangle alone, it's very erotic.

From Dave
My wife and I both shave. It's a fantastic sensation, extremely erotic. The shaved look is also much more desirable if wearing bikinis or thongs.

From Mel
Personally, I felt more confident about my vagina's appearance after I began shaving. When it's hidden under a mass of hair, your parts are not as easily accessible, nor is it as easy to see the shape and definition of the labia lips. I learned to love my larger inner lips and the appearance of my vagina after the hair was gone, plus it was more fun to masturbate also without the hair getting in the way.

From Au naturel... c'est meilleur
I myself am not so into shaving my pussy into the little landing strip, but in the summer I'll give it a trim. Once I did let my boyfriend shave the lips of my pussy, very carefully. He was naked as he knelt before me, and I watched him get hard as he did it. As soon as he was done, we were fucking all over the bathroom. But he finds the triangle of hair above my pussy a turn-on, and I also prefer the natural look.

A note for all you hairy men out there—I know the latest trend is to shave your chest, balls, etc, but I'm all for the fur. Dark chest hair, men's pubic hair... both are incredibly sexy and masculine. Also maybe it has to do with pheromones, but there are certain men, like my current boyfriend, whose natural body odors on his neck, under his arms, between his legs, make me woozy with desire. Hygiene is great, but let's not forget we're humans, not hairless perfume factories.

From Anonymous
I am a female that completely shaves my pussy. I do hair for a living and guess I really don't like it much! My man must at least trim his area—although I prefer no hair.

I started shaving completely when puberty started. I love the feeling of a bald pussy. I never wear undies, and I have a few genital piercings so it's more of a turn-on.

One of my ex-boyfriends preferred hair—the hairier the better he used to say—but I never would let my hair grow. Maybe that's why were not together anymore. I just think being bald it more sanitary also.

From Anonymous
I hate completely shaved. When my wife had to have some major abdominal surgery, they shaved her, and I've also gone down on previous girlfriends who completely shaved clean. I always thought completely shaven makes a woman look like a pre-pubescent little girl and is a total turnoff for me, like being a child molester or something.

My wife has a nice full triangle that she keeps thick but neatly trimmed, and I think it makes her look more mature, sophisticated, and is sexy as hell. The triangle is like an arrow proclaiming "This way to paradise!" I love letting my fingers play in it and my wife loves how that feels, and we both know that soon enough my fingers will go lower than her bush, and I think it's that anticipation that makes this hair-play so exciting for us both.

From Swimmer-Runner
Well, I swim twice a week during the winter and everyday in summer in speedo briefs. I run in lycra shorts (4 inch) and I run topless. I don't have a hairy chest and I shave my legs, armpits, pubic hairs, pubic hairs around my anus and scrotum and other pubic hairs everyday. I feel really sexy!

I know for a fact that when I strip down naked in front of a mirror or in front of a woman, she knows, and I know, that I am a well groomed neat package. I feel good about myself.

I just have a thing with body hair. I prefer women to shave or wax their legs; armpits and indulge in Brazillans all the time. I would love to give a woman a Brazillian before making love. It's a trusting sexy activity. She can shave my pubic hairs in return.

In conclusion, I just want to feel clean. I feel sexy. I sleep naked in bed all the time, and when I have shaved my pubs and legs, I just feel clean and sexy!

From Silverado
Shaven pussies are ok for a change but give me natural unshaved women anytime, and if they have a juicy, long fleshy pussy lips all the better. Even unshaved armpits are a turn on. Personally I do shave the base of my cock, it makes it look bigger, and my balls, but leave the rest alone.

From Shawn
A hairy pussy is nice to look at, but not to give oral to. My girlfriend shaves her pussy, and that is pretty nice, however I recently saw a friends pussy, she has a strip of short hair, and I thought it was the sexiest pussy I've ever seen.

From Sarahlynne
I have gone through phases with other body hair, but I always trim my pubes. It makes it easier for him to give me oral. I think of it as good manners. The more groomed you are, the happier your partner will be. However, I make the exception with shaving my legs. I'm kind of lazy, and it doesn't bother my man. It's almost like a test to see if he minds or not. I would shave if he asked me to, but he's too sweet to ask. He just doesn't touch my calves. They aren't an erogenous zone, anyway.

My man trims his pubes and cock hair, and I appreciate it since he's pretty hairy. It makes giving him frequent BJs more pleasant for me!

From Rick
No way. Keep it all natural. I love a hairy pussy and am very turned off by shaving or waxing to different patterns, (triangles, squares, or bald). Love to see a few curls of hair around the edge of panties or swimming suits. When it is trimmed or totally shaved, it reminds me of pre-puberty or adolescents, which I find to be a major turn-off. My years in the service overseas where the women don't shave anything brought some of my most exciting experiences.

I'm not into male genitals, but seeing the trimmed or shaved ones on porn movies is a major turn-off also. I don't even watch porn movies anymore because I can't find one with naturally hairy males or females.

From Ghost Rider
I, personally do not like to shave the pubic area. I find that it causes me to have ingrown hair and they hurt like the devil. Also, unless you shave every day, the stubble is uncomfortable. What I did decide to do was to take a pair of clippers, with an attachment and cut the pubic hair to a certain short length. This stops the ingrown hair and the stubble.

It doesn't bother me to see other men or women shaved. I do prefer to see a lady either neatly trimmed or shaved. I hate to look at a person and not be able to see anything but a vast hairy jungle. Also, this would not be a turn-on, fixing to engage in oral sex and wind up with a mouth full of hair. I also like to be able to tell if a lady is by chance wearing any jewelry.

From Patrice
I don't shave; I wax. It's purely an aesthetic thing for me and slightly sensual. For some reason, I've developed an aversion to pubic hair. I wax my legs and my genitalia; I have noticed that I smell better, particularly in the summer. I love the feeling of a smooth pudenda and when I wear panties, I can wear whatever kind I want. Thongs, bikinis, nothing...it all looks great. 

My boyfriend was skeptical at first but now loves it because he can see everything. I don't leave the "landing strip"; all the hair comes off. It used to hurt but now I'm used to it and it's kind of like a ritual. My other girlfriends do it too and say they can never go back. I absolutely hate the fact that I have to wait for it to grow back somewhat before I can wax but nothing can be done about that. I have shaved but can't hang with the stubble. I am thinking of having my dermatologist laser the whole area and be done with it.

From Willie C.
Do not shave. The first "woman" I ever saw naked was a 15 year old redhead. You know what they say about first impressions. She had a perfect triangle of thick, reddish- brown hair. She brushed it in front of me as she was obviously proud of the profuse bush. And made note that she was aware that she had more hair than any 15 year old she had ever seen naked. Since that was the first pussy I ever fucked, I will never forget it and have come to appreciate pussy hair. The more the better - from the crack of the ass to the navel.

From Fuzzy
I leave my hair alone down there. I have a nice thick bush around my cock, and my balls are hairy too. I tried the shaving thing once, but with a hairy stomach and hairy legs a smooth hairless crotch looks silly. I'm all for the natural look!

From John
I shave my pubic hairs; scrotum hairs; pubic hairs around my penis; my armpit hair and my legs everyday. I swim and run (run without a singlet and tri-singlet so I can work on my tan) on most days during the week. 

I feel very sexy and horny when I am totally clean shaven. It is a great feeling. I feel so horny when I look into the mirror and view my naked lean-athletic body after a run and a swim. I know I am in great shape and a lady would love to feel my smooth skin and hairless body against their sexy athletic bod!

Shaving your body hairs everyday is a great ritual. You feel sexy; horny; attractive and you are basically clean!

From Barefootbill
Some years back I shaved my penis and scrotum just to see what it would be like. The problem was, things were very itchy as the hairs came back. For two years now I have shaved myself every other day. Although one woman doesn't like the look, I have found a great side benefit. Living in the Pacific Northwest I realize that even the mighty cedar looks all the more majestic when you cut away the underbrush.

From Kate
Five years ago I shaved my pussy bare for the first time. It was an erotic experience in itself, in that my husband did the honors in a hot tub with lots of lather and an incredible hard-on to attest to his enjoyment. That aside, I have mostly kept it so since. I find sensation to be more acute and pleasurable. At first, the feel of panties against my clit was a bit disconcerting because I found myself getting turned on more often during the day - I have come to enjoy that! Also, when we have intercourse, I have much more freedom of movement on his penis.

I don't look at this as a "child-like" appearance as my clit and labia are full, mature, and kind of a dusky rose color. Very beautiful and sensual.

When I watch porn, I love it when a woman's clit stands up proud and her labia are visibly swollen and red - not covered with hair. It's a great turn-on for me and my husband always loves it when I get turned on!

From Dez
I get waxed, legs, cock, balls and full ass. I love the smooth feel of my body and so does my girlfriend. I like the way it looks and a smooth body is good for oral fun. Plus I swim 3 times a week so I think a smooth male body looks better in a speedo. I love to have a smooth ass, it feels better and I love having it played with. 

The legs look good, I do a lot of biking and running so I do not wear much and people do look. In my swim group I noticed woman stare at my crotch when they talk to me at first. I like waxing best, it lasts longer, you do get to know your waxer pretty well especially when getting a Brazilian'.

From Rollo
Shave? Never. There is no bigger turn on than a reasonably attractive woman with a heavy bush. When I married my first wife, she was a 19 year old, blonde virgin. Generally, blondes are not as hairy as brunettes. However, when I peeled off her panties for the first time, I was amazed. She had one heavy bush. That was the quickest hard on I have ever experienced. She said she had been hairy since the age of 12.

Needless to say, I inspected it from one side to the other. Although I had fucked several women, that was the hairiest pussy I had ever seen. It was not wild and wooly and didn't spread all over the place, but it was thick and profuse. I took a tape to determine the perfectly shaped triangle's size. It measured 9 inches across the top of the triangle and 9 inches from the top to the crack of her ass. The length was 2". It was so thick that she could lay with legs spread and you could not see the crack of her pussy. When eating her out, my face was buried in hair. She could not wear a swim suit without hair showing 1" on each side.

Needless to say, I couldn't get enough for years and years.

From Sweetnsuckulet
My favorite is very neatly groomed, short hair is preferred. From top of vulva downward shave all hair off and your for sure going get more oral takers. Clean shaved isn't my thing because of pain involved with oral and scraping face against razor stubble. Just the same I wouldn't say no to a shaved person ever!

Guys, same thing, neatly groomed no hair over one inch, plus guys get long hairs on sides of base shaft so grab your dick and pull side to side checking on long hair that might cause someone to stop given head.

From Lloyd, 42
Unshaven, of course! I can't stand this fad of women shaving bald. I love the hair. I love the sight of it, the feel of it, even the smell of it. I especially love the way it feels during intercourse. No matter what position, it's erotic to feel it either against my body, or running my fingers through it and/or over it. The sight of that lovely dark triangle between a woman's legs is such an overpowering turn-on, mere words cannot describe it well. Performing oral sex on a hairy woman is the pinnacle of sexual excitement for me.

From Tim
I definitely prefer women's pussies very trimmed or completely shaved. My girl knows that when she comes out of the shower freshly shaved I will get an instant hard-on and she will get her beautiful nude pussy lips sucked into my hungry mouth while my tongue flicks her hot little clit. Then I will strip naked exposing my stiff cock which I also keep trimmed most of the time. She will lick it up and down and suck on my big cock head until finally I can't take it any more. I'll position my long thick hard-on at the entrance of her naked wet pussy and shove it in. I love watching my bare smooth penis slide in and out of her nude little pussy.

My girl loves my shaft and balls bare. In the summer I will sometimes shave completely smooth. My cock will get hard which makes it easier to shave. Sometimes I will shave my ass cheeks and all around my butt hole so my girl can suck and lick me all over and tongue my rim. I like looking at my big nude penis in the mirror and will usually jack off my horny cock till I shoot my hot come letting it trickle back down over my smooth cock and balls.

We both love smooth genitals. They just feel better to stroke and suck. You can also see everything better. When a girl has a hairy pussy you can't see anything and a guy's cock will look better and bigger when shaved. My girl loves me trimmed which means more action for me. She always tells me what a big beautiful cock I have and I get really turned on displaying it for her.

From Lizbeth
I completely shave my arms and legs, but I leave a little bit of hair down there, just on the mons pubis. I have shaved the hair completely, but my husband says it's creepy. Looks a little too young for the both of us.

As for him, I like him to keep things neat, but I love his "happy trail". Very sexy. I have asked him to shave his balls, just to see what it's like. He's reluctant.

From Anonymous
Personally, I prefer a shaved cunt - though I love ALL cunts in whatever state I find them. It's true that the erotic appeal derives largely from the suggestion of pre-pubescence, as all men (though perhaps few would admit it) would as gladly fuck girls as women.

As for the correspondent who is turned off by a smelly or stinky cunt - the smell of a cunt is the most glorious thing I know, and the more potent the stink, the stiffer my cock.

From Travis
I enjoy women with a airstrip or no pubic hair at all. I also like to shave my neither regions. I shave everywhere except for a little rectangle shape just above my penis. I love the fell of being shaven and like the look of having just a little pubic hair down there.

From Chloe
I find that personally, I am turned off at the look of my own shaved pussy. It looks too puffy and naked, like a little girl. I am a woman, and a woman should have pubic hair. I like to trim the triangle (but still leave the majority of the bush), and completely shave the "netherlips" so that they are silky smooth.

As for a man, I like to see him trimmed, but not naked as well. Wild hair on or above the shaft is too much to deal with. I do have to say, however, that I like smooth balls.

From Anonymous
Heh, I prefer a woman to shave and wax their whole body (legs, armpits, back and pussy hair).

A shaved or waxed pussy is the most attractive turn on in an attractive lean to athletic lady. She resembles a clean lady who prides herself on hygiene and when a man and a woman both indulge in mutual shaving, they both build up trust within the relationship. Secondly, they can explore each other's fit, lean and clean bodies so they can learn more about each other!

I shave my pubic hairs everyday because I want a woman to turn me on!

From C Mac
I have been a fan of hairy pussy since I brought a girl home from a club when I was about 20. I was always with girls with shaved or trimmed pussies. When we got back to my place I had lifted her short skirt up and noticed an enormous amount of pussy hair sticking out from the side of her see through white panties.

At first I was shocked to see this because most girls love the shaving sensation. I asked her why she didn't shave and she told me that it was because she liked wearing short skirts and giving glimpses of her hairy pussy. "It makes me wet, especially when I'm at the beach and my pussy hair comes out the side of my bikini."

I know what your thinking that the girl must have been ugly and a butch but I kid you not she was extremely hot, doing her nails, tan, working out and very pretty. I decided to eat her out and found her pussy to be very tasty. finally, I put my dick inside her and found the sensation of it rubbing against her hairy bush to be very arousing. Since this day I have been a fan of a girl not shaving her pussy at all and my girlfriend now has stopped shaving her pussy completely and believe it or not she loves it. Don't get me wrong I love waxed legs, waxed eyebrows and the rest of her body to be shaved but leave your bush alone!

From Anonymous
Heh, This debate is definitely continuing! I shave my pubic hairs everyday and the pubic hairs around my scrotum! I feel really sexy and I feel good about myself!

When I go for a swim in my speedo briefs, I just want to feel sexy and sensational! I just want to feel good about myself! Because of this, I do get a real hard on.

From Anonymous
I prefer women who shave and wax their entire athletic sexy body and use body scrub every night to achieve the sexy smooth skin! I prefer women who shave their entire body (pubic hairs included) every day...

I shave my armpit hairs; whole legs and pubic hairs (scrotum hairs included) everyday. I feel really sexy when I go for a swim and when I wear my speedo briefs!

Do women prefer guys to be cleanly shaven?

From Ampfly
Shaved cock and balls are the way to go! I prefer to completely shave the shaft, balls and part way back to the anus, leaving my upper pubic hair in tact. The process itself is a celebration that usually results in an incredible tossing. Once complete, you will realize the maximum enjoyment out of cock rings (no hair twisting and pulling) and any stimulation. It's worth a try -- it'll grow back.

From William Scape
I love to shave down there. I never knew that having a smooth pair of balls would feel so awesome. I got the idea from my friend joanne one night she was over my house, she suggested that shaving my pubes would be a good thing. She even found herself tickling my balls with her toes satisfying, watching me come afterwards and seeing the look of pleasure on her face. She liked to see her black platform flip flops and her pretty feet wearing my fresh coat of paint.

I shave because whenever I beat off, it feels better, I had this Asian girl named mai who stroked my balls to orgasm, I think what did it was the fact that I was hairless down there, the sensation, the feeling, is wonderful.

All you need is a disposable shaver some hot water and a steady hand, within minutes you'll have balls smooth as your face. It's something I recommend to any and everyone!

From Daman
I like my girls to be neatly trimmed or shaven. It is just so nice.

From Bill
Have been shaving my chest, abs & pubes since my wedding night 28 years ago when my then bride tied me spread eagle to the bed and shaved me! Much to my surprise I found the smoothness was and still is very erotic. Our sex life has thrived since that day when I was reduced to the humiliated, bound, shaved, submissive slave. So me being hairless just fits our sex life! My mistress, on the other hand, sports a full bush which I worship as commanded.

From Vi
For a couple decades I never even thought of shaving my pubic hairs. Then after hearing stories in chat I decided what the heck I'll just shave it off and I did. That night hubby noticed and we had the most earth shattering amazing sex ever and since then I keep mine bald.

From Firemermaid
Glad to see that in these times of widely distributed porn, featuring mostly women pumped full of foreign substances & shaved, that so many still enjoy a grown-up, natural bush. If it smells bad, wash, or get yourself well. (That goes for men, too). My skin is extremely sensitive, & while a bit of trimming is an option, shaving is not. I'm sure that's true for many people. Friends have told me that shaving can be a fun option, & I can understand why. Creative variation rocks! But when it becomes an imperative for grown women to be shorn like little girls or show poodles-- well, that's kinda creepy. Few of us love pubic hair in our teeth, but nature gave us that hair to protect & decorate our extremely important genitals. Besides, the hair can be such fun to tease, pet, & play with...

From Lee
I am a rather hairy brunette. But as I age (just turned 49), I noticed a lot less hair down there. I routinely trim the triangle, but completely shave my nether lips. I love the slippery cool feel of that. My boyfriend enjoys it as well.


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