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To Shave or Not to ShaveYour preference is...
From Jay From Julia I was trimming my bush with hubby's hair trimmers as usual only I hadn't noticed he had changed the comb fitting for one that cut much shorter for his sideburns. That was a bummer! My normally luxuriant bush now had a "landing strip" of very short hair down the middle. I had no choice but to go all the way and trim the lot off. I then got Philippe to shave the stubble and shave my labia while he was at it. And guess what? It wasn't as bad as I expected. I rather enjoyed the smoothness of the skin. Philippe positively loved it (made for great oral sex!), so much so we got down to it there and then. Six months on I am still "smooth", but with warmer months around the corner and the prospect of visits to beaches, I think I will let my hair grow back. The notion of passing creeps being able to see my genitalia clearly doesn't appeal! From Triathlete When either of them want to pleasure themselves during their own time, the masturbation experience would be a better experience. There are no hairs around the region! From Tammi Great to have a masculine looking guy with hairy legs and torso, but nice to have a trimmed pubic hair zone, especially when going down on the fella, sucking cock and balls without fear of hairs in the mouth ruining the enjoyment! From CJ No problems, it looks good, makes me feel very sexy and the guys with their cameras like the all smooth look for close ups and upskirt panty shots. From Anonymous From Erin From Anonymous From Helen From Keith From Dawn I was very proud of my new 'look' and got some sexy undies and shorter skirts, my daughter advising me that a good combo to show off a smooth look was a short skirt, sheer toe to waist pantyhose, no panties. She said it would intrigue the men, and she was right - my pussy hasn't created this amount of attention since my high school days! From Alchemist And we both still really like it. The results are getting better and easier to maintain. And sensuously, there is just no going back. So delightfully smooth with no hairs in the mouth. With the layers of scaly dead tissue removed inside the outer labia and around the clitoris her aroma is fresh, much more mild and delightful. I've noticed that a lot more people shave in some parts of the country than in others. And usually a higher percentage of women than men are trimming closely or shaving/waxing if there is any difference. It's obvious that some are going to find waxing incredibly painful whereas others will find it tolerable. We both use dry shaving about 95% of the time and take care of certain difficulties with a wet razor. It appears to be getting more and more popular fairly rapidly. From Jim Personally speaking, I like a nicely trimmed bush. A clean shave looks so wrong, just odd and un-natural. Like a hairless cat. No fun petting a hairless pussy. From Lee My design was a black stallion, turned hubby on and we had some good sex that night. I trim every morning before my shower with a lady razor, then lotion up the area after I'm out and dry, then lots of scent. If I'm going out I trim again before my shower. With no bush I can now wear some cute panties and thongs and I am no longer unhappy about wearing real short skirts, there is no bush hair to poke out of panties to embarrass me when I sit or dance. Men like it unshaven as well of course. Lots of them think the pussy is real sexy and should not be hidden away and when they go down on you they are very happy there is no hair in the mouth problems. Hubby digs the tattoo, still don't think he has noticed I'm all clean down there, has not said a word! From Paul I love oral sex and have had experience of every different type of pussy. The hairy one beats all of the others hands-down. There is nothing to beat that beautiful musty smell which is trapped in the pubes. The sight of a few pubes peaking out from the swimsuit bottom is a great turn-on for me. I also find the unshaven armpit very sexy. Once again it is a sign that the woman is sexually mature. From Ghost Rider From Rogerio For me there is nothing better than to come all over my wife's open, shaved pussy and then lick it all up. Yummy. From Safkid From Shave Everyday Shaving the pubic hairs on a regular basis makes the joy and excitement of wearing speedo briefs and male g-strings quite rewarding! Females cannot see any pubic hairs around the neither region! From Prefers Punani Plush
Since the dawning of these realisations, I've actually come to prefer women as-is. Even armpit and leg hair. Doesn't phase me, and I like the textures and smells. I don't necessarily go for very hairy girls, just ordinary ones as nature intended. Keep that pretty triangle, ladies. From Pulchra
From Joey
I think most guys think it is unmanly to not be hairy beasts. That is their loss. The guys out there that haven't discovered what every porn star has is really missing the boat. Hairless is next to Godliness in my opinion. Just shave yourself, dry off and apply some lotion and tell me you will EVER go back. As for the ladies, it's your call. But I clearly prefer not having to deal with loose pubic hairs when I want to lick and suck a throbbing clit.... From Cathy
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Just leaving a wedge on the pubic mound might be the best of both worlds, but can't speak from personal experience there. From Philip
Pussy au natural is okay for just doing the deed, but when it comes to administering some close up and personal attention it can sometimes be a bit of a mouthful, like wading through a deep forest where the branches keep on springing back and smacking you in the face. At least you don't need to floss afterwards! Trimmed is my favourite, but can be a bit rough on the old tongue. Pubic hairs recently trimmed with a razor can be quite sharp. A nice prim wedge is good, but a Hitler's moustache is just too silly and should be banned. Fully shaven is quite a thrill, at first, but strangely I find its novelty wears off very quickly, making one wish for a bit of frizz. Frizz is fun! From J. Corvo A few days ago I rented a movie called, "The Coca-Cola Kid," There is a wonderful—but far too short scene of a woman in a shower with her seven or eight year old daughter. It is a loving and wonderful scene, and as the movie was made some time back and the woman who plays the mother has a full bush. As I watched her (I confess to rewinding several times) I was struck by how much that dark triangle was so much a part of what I find exciting about women. I have never had the experience of a fully shaved pussy, some have been well trimmed and others have been sparse, but I think I would miss that familiar feel of those first few hairs as I slide my hand down my lover's belly and find that boundary-line between smooth skin and hair. It's been a long time, but I still remember that first moment of sliding my hand beneath a girlfriend's waist band and traced the smooth, soft dip in flesh below the slight dome of her belly that then rises to the first hairs. It was magical and transformative. It was the line between the maybe and the possible. Even today, a small part of that old thrill stays with me. I like the feel of its rough matt under my palm. I like the way it frames the opening, and how the wetness clinging to the hairs tells of my lover's excitement and desire. I like the feel of it under my cheek as I pause for a moment on my way up, or on my way down. I like catching a glimpse of it as my lover dresses, or gets up from bed to go pee or get a glass of wine and turns away for a moment, so that as she turns there is the briefest of fragment of time when light passes through the dark curls before it disappears from sight and is replaced by the luscious roll of her hips as she strides away. There have been black, blond, red, graying, and brown bushes. Some had hair that was rough and coarse, others were silky smooth and there were others of all textures in between. Some were trimmed. Others were as wild as a Louisiana swamp. I have touched them, kissed them, nuzzled and gently cropped at them and fallen asleep cupping them under my hand. I might not miss that errant hair that hangs half way down my throat and will not move up or down and is too far to reach but too high to swallow. But I would miss the friend who has excited, enticed, mesmerized, tantalized and filled me with desire for more than thirty years. From Helena One of my fave moments as a reader came in a book I read last year in which (at one point) the hero, having agreed to spend a day with a woman he's become increasingly attracted to, is walking with her in a waterfront park in NYC, and she's wearing a bit of a sheer dress. It's sunny and he catches what might be a glimpse of a knot of thick hair, silhouetted through the fabric (guess she had gone commando). It was a cool moment. Sets him wondering if it's really her bush, or an illusion (he'll find out eventually). I liked the emphasis on it. Never forgot it, in fact. The whole scene in the park was loaded with conjecture on both their parts, as they try to assess each others hidden treasure - without really touching and builds to an agonizing near-climax, then tumbles away, maddeningly. Have to read another 50 pages before they (and you) find out. Ya bush (the womanly kind) can be cool. From Bethany It was so embarrassing sitting there in the dressing room with my legs apart while the lady shaved me. All the other girls and some other people were coming and going and kept taking a peek. Even though I was embarrassed I got wet as the lady touched me there to shave me. Afterwards I kept getting wet for days when the bikinis or panties rubbed on my exposed bits. I didn't realise how much my bits stick out from the mound there until I was shaved. Now I'm 24 and keep it fully waxed because it's much easier whatever clothes I'm modelling. From Mark She has just had a small double-heart tattoo done in the area once covered by her pubic hair, just above her opening, plus a stud clipped to her clitoris. Not bad for a fiftiesomething lady! From Phil Since shaving I've also bought her some sexy see thru panties which do full justice to her pussy area beauty. In a few months time she goes on a short vacation with her widowed sister and I jokingly told her not to hide her shaven pussy away and ensure other men got to admire it. I will have to wait to see if she does. From Teddy From Kris From Mel It wasn't until I was older that I began 'wanting the pubic hair off'. The first time I shaved, it was so new and I thought it was great, but after awhile I got bored of only smooth, so I grew it back. I shaved again, six months later, (and I have the pillowy, kind of outer lips) and I was looking in the mirror, thinking my vagina now kind of looked like the top of a bald man's head. (Not Good) Now, the hair is back, and I think I look more womanly naked than before. I've never had a huge bush anyway. If the hair is hanging half way down your leg, by all means trim it, but otherwise the stubble, razor burns, waxing (What a pain!) The natural look is not as horrible as people think. I'm betting if the media and porn, displayed nothing but women and models with 'hair' that is the look women would be aspiring to. From Think_Kink From Franco From Liz And in the summer when i wear swimsuits, I don want hair sticking out and showing. It looks weird. And one more important reason, shaved is easier on a guy's face, or so I've heard. I know I would not want to eat a hairy pussy if I were a guy. Although I have to admit, if it was winter and if I was celibate, I would probably let the hair grow back. From Anonymous From Jane I can't bring myself to shave or wax it all off completely, though. The idea of it, and the idea of looking like a little girl down there after, freaks me out a bit. My ex-boyfriend had some strange addiction to cleanliness, and would shave himself completely, which I found to make him look very immature, as well as his constant requests for me to shave as well. He literally had no hair, except for his eyebrows and the hair on top of his head. Current boyfriend has naturally no hair on his chest or back, which I love, but has hair everywhere else, which I also love. His kissing my skin with a jaw that's shaved nearly only once a week turns me on; glimpsing the hair below his hips as he throws on his dressing gown thrills me. Completely shaven people look weird and childlike, and having sex with people who have childlike bodies is disturbing. From Fast I must confess to getting a "hankering" for a big bush once in a while. I am happy to just enjoy some free pics on the internet though. My girlfriend has been shaving since her pubes grew in during puberty. It wasn't sexual for her; she was into shaving her legs, and the pubic hair seemed out of place or whatever. Same with her underarms. Now she shaves it bald all the time. The big news is we recently paid almost $6000 for laser hair removal on our bodies. I am getting my chest, abs, back, buttocks, front neck, and pubic hair done. She is getting her pubes, legs, and underarms. I find it really erotic to have hairless genitals, though I am a little worried about guys finding out (somehow). Just for the record, the pain is tolerable, to get laser hair removal on your dick and balls and everything around it. They say it feels a little bit like a tattoo, but I don't have any tattoos. It does hurt, like a small pain from a pin prick. I always use the prescription skin-numbing cream, and it helps a lot. The front neck is truly torture though. Absolutely torture. On the front neck, it feels like a hot needle being stabbed into your neck for about 1 second. Terrible! From Anonymous From Anonymous The only hair on my body is my head and that's short. keep it clean and shaved, who needs panties then? I save a fortune in not buying underwear, everything is there waiting to be touched, licked and sucked on, anytime. It's the least I can do for the person I love. From Alchemist Oral sex is so fabulously better smooth than hairy. I really liked her auburn bush sparkling red in the sunlight. I was trying to persuade her to let me do a series of pictures including her lovely bush lit for effect. Now I never will most likely. On the other hand, her inner labia never get painfully folded in, pulled by hairs, any more. Intercourse is just glorious. So slick and soft and smooth and sensual. No more hard spikes around the base of her clit. No hairs on my shaft or anywhere nearby. No hair form between inner and outer labia causing all sorts of discomfort. She couldn't keep her hands off of her pussy the first month she was smooth. I couldn't either. Or my tongue or my lips. And she said that suddenly she wanted to run around showing it off . She has no intention going back and neither do I. I had a large reduction in pain from the hair. Around the base it would pull and rub during sex of all kinds and did not feel good. Now everything sexual feels better. I itch far less there than anywhere else on my body now. Turns out all that itching is tickles by hair. I really liked her luxuriant bush. And I really like her smooth. it's different. And sex of all varieties are better now. And oral sex is most improved From Red From Dave From Mel From Au naturel... c'est meilleur A note for all you hairy men out there—I know the latest trend is to shave your chest, balls, etc, but I'm all for the fur. Dark chest hair, men's pubic hair... both are incredibly sexy and masculine. Also maybe it has to do with pheromones, but there are certain men, like my current boyfriend, whose natural body odors on his neck, under his arms, between his legs, make me woozy with desire. Hygiene is great, but let's not forget we're humans, not hairless perfume factories. From Anonymous I started shaving completely when puberty started. I love the feeling of a bald pussy. I never wear undies, and I have a few genital piercings so it's more of a turn-on. One of my ex-boyfriends preferred hair—the hairier the better he used to say—but I never would let my hair grow. Maybe that's why were not together anymore. I just think being bald it more sanitary also. From Anonymous My wife has a nice full triangle that she keeps thick but neatly trimmed, and I think it makes her look more mature, sophisticated, and is sexy as hell. The triangle is like an arrow proclaiming "This way to paradise!" I love letting my fingers play in it and my wife loves how that feels, and we both know that soon enough my fingers will go lower than her bush, and I think it's that anticipation that makes this hair-play so exciting for us both. From Swimmer-Runner I know for a fact that when I strip down naked in front of a mirror or in front of a woman, she knows, and I know, that I am a well groomed neat package. I feel good about myself. I just have a thing with body hair. I prefer women to shave or wax their legs; armpits and indulge in Brazillans all the time. I would love to give a woman a Brazillian before making love. It's a trusting sexy activity. She can shave my pubic hairs in return. In conclusion, I just want to feel clean. I feel sexy. I sleep naked in bed all the time, and when I have shaved my pubs and legs, I just feel clean and sexy! From Silverado From Shawn From Sarahlynne My man trims his pubes and cock hair, and I appreciate it since he's pretty hairy. It makes giving him frequent BJs more pleasant for me! From Rick I'm not into male genitals, but seeing the trimmed or shaved ones on porn movies is a major turn-off also. I don't even watch porn movies anymore because I can't find one with naturally hairy males or females. From Ghost Rider It doesn't bother me to see other men or women shaved. I do prefer to see a lady either neatly trimmed or shaved. I hate to look at a person and not be able to see anything but a vast hairy jungle. Also, this would not be a turn-on, fixing to engage in oral sex and wind up with a mouth full of hair. I also like to be able to tell if a lady is by chance wearing any jewelry. From Patrice My boyfriend was skeptical at first but now loves it because he can see everything. I don't leave the "landing strip"; all the hair comes off. It used to hurt but now I'm used to it and it's kind of like a ritual. My other girlfriends do it too and say they can never go back. I absolutely hate the fact that I have to wait for it to grow back somewhat before I can wax but nothing can be done about that. I have shaved but can't hang with the stubble. I am thinking of having my dermatologist laser the whole area and be done with it. From Willie C. From Fuzzy From John I feel very sexy and horny when I am totally clean shaven. It is a great feeling. I feel so horny when I look into the mirror and view my naked lean-athletic body after a run and a swim. I know I am in great shape and a lady would love to feel my smooth skin and hairless body against their sexy athletic bod! Shaving your body hairs everyday is a great ritual. You feel sexy; horny; attractive and you are basically clean! From Barefootbill From Kate I don't look at this as a "child-like" appearance as my clit and labia are full, mature, and kind of a dusky rose color. Very beautiful and sensual. When I watch porn, I love it when a woman's clit stands up proud and her labia are visibly swollen and red - not covered with hair. It's a great turn-on for me and my husband always loves it when I get turned on! From Dez The legs look good, I do a lot of biking and running so I do not wear much and people do look. In my swim group I noticed woman stare at my crotch when they talk to me at first. I like waxing best, it lasts longer, you do get to know your waxer pretty well especially when getting a Brazilian'. From Rollo Needless to say, I inspected it from one side to the other. Although I had fucked several women, that was the hairiest pussy I had ever seen. It was not wild and wooly and didn't spread all over the place, but it was thick and profuse. I took a tape to determine the perfectly shaped triangle's size. It measured 9 inches across the top of the triangle and 9 inches from the top to the crack of her ass. The length was 2". It was so thick that she could lay with legs spread and you could not see the crack of her pussy. When eating her out, my face was buried in hair. She could not wear a swim suit without hair showing 1" on each side. Needless to say, I couldn't get enough for years and years. From Sweetnsuckulet Guys, same thing, neatly groomed no hair over one inch, plus guys get long hairs on sides of base shaft so grab your dick and pull side to side checking on long hair that might cause someone to stop given head. From Lloyd, 42 From Tim My girl loves my shaft and balls bare. In the summer I will sometimes shave completely smooth. My cock will get hard which makes it easier to shave. Sometimes I will shave my ass cheeks and all around my butt hole so my girl can suck and lick me all over and tongue my rim. I like looking at my big nude penis in the mirror and will usually jack off my horny cock till I shoot my hot come letting it trickle back down over my smooth cock and balls. We both love smooth genitals. They just feel better to stroke and suck. You can also see everything better. When a girl has a hairy pussy you can't see anything and a guy's cock will look better and bigger when shaved. My girl loves me trimmed which means more action for me. She always tells me what a big beautiful cock I have and I get really turned on displaying it for her. From Lizbeth As for him, I like him to keep things neat, but I love his "happy trail". Very sexy. I have asked him to shave his balls, just to see what it's like. He's reluctant. From Anonymous As for the correspondent who is turned off by a smelly or stinky cunt - the smell of a cunt is the most glorious thing I know, and the more potent the stink, the stiffer my cock. From Travis From Chloe As for a man, I like to see him trimmed, but not naked as well. Wild hair on or above the shaft is too much to deal with. I do have to say, however, that I like smooth balls. From Anonymous A shaved or waxed pussy is the most attractive turn on in an attractive lean to athletic lady. She resembles a clean lady who prides herself on hygiene and when a man and a woman both indulge in mutual shaving, they both build up trust within the relationship. Secondly, they can explore each other's fit, lean and clean bodies so they can learn more about each other! I shave my pubic hairs everyday because I want a woman to turn me on! From C Mac At first I was shocked to see this because most girls love the shaving sensation. I asked her why she didn't shave and she told me that it was because she liked wearing short skirts and giving glimpses of her hairy pussy. "It makes me wet, especially when I'm at the beach and my pussy hair comes out the side of my bikini." I know what your thinking that the girl must have been ugly and a butch but I kid you not she was extremely hot, doing her nails, tan, working out and very pretty. I decided to eat her out and found her pussy to be very tasty. finally, I put my dick inside her and found the sensation of it rubbing against her hairy bush to be very arousing. Since this day I have been a fan of a girl not shaving her pussy at all and my girlfriend now has stopped shaving her pussy completely and believe it or not she loves it. Don't get me wrong I love waxed legs, waxed eyebrows and the rest of her body to be shaved but leave your bush alone! From Anonymous When I go for a swim in my speedo briefs, I just want to feel sexy and sensational! I just want to feel good about myself! Because of this, I do get a real hard on. From Anonymous I shave my armpit hairs; whole legs and pubic hairs (scrotum hairs included) everyday. I feel really sexy when I go for a swim and when I wear my speedo briefs! Do women prefer guys to be cleanly shaven? From Ampfly From William Scape I shave because whenever I beat off, it feels better, I had this Asian girl named mai who stroked my balls to orgasm, I think what did it was the fact that I was hairless down there, the sensation, the feeling, is wonderful. All you need is a disposable shaver some hot water and a steady hand, within minutes you'll have balls smooth as your face. It's something I recommend to any and everyone! From Daman From Bill From Vi
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