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From Ward
My girlfriend and I had sex a lot before getting married, we had a baby soon (six months) after getting married, and still had sex whenever we had the time, almost every day I guess.  Then I started going to sea for work six months a year; after being away from each other for many months at a time, when I get home we fuck like rabbits!  Twenty years and six kids later, we are still going! 

I'm fifty-five, she is fifty.  Reading sexy stories, watching videos, talking about fantasies, it all helps.

From Anonymous
We have been together for 17 yrs. When we first met we practically lived in bed! Now it's rare and we've had many fights because I keep on asking for it. We aren't a young couple over 55 but still wanting your partner after yrs to me is a plus. Sure our bodies don't look like when we first met but whose does?

I am surprised because I thought it was always the woman who wanted to quit. I want it until I can't! I have also thought about finding someone else to 'play' with but I want to be loyal. I honestly don't know how much longer that will last. I even told him that and I got a blank stare. It has made me feel unattractive and that he's cheating on me.

I've tried everything my sexy self came up with to no avail.I cannot spend the rest of my life without being touched intimately. I feel like I'm starving!

From Anonymous
I have been married for 10 years and sex is now a rarity.  My husband just has no interest anymore. If we do have sex it is of the most basic variety. Our sex life started out as quite adventurous - bondage, spanking, anal etc., but now it seems like that is just embarrassing to him. He told me about a year ago that he does not like me sucking him off.  That felt like a real slap in the face after doing it for years, and thinking I was good at it. 

I am seriously considering cheating on him because I can't bear the thought that my sex life is over, and I have so many more things I want to try.

From Anonymous
I married my wife after living with her for about nine years. The sex at that point was not the greatest. I thought she was just mad at me because I had not ask her to marry me yet. That was about 20 years ago. The sex has only gotten worse. Now it's been at least seven years with absolutely no intimate contact at all let alone sex.

She says it hurts but won't go ask the doctor. When I ask her about sex that just makes it worse.

I do know she is still horny because she late at night she fingers her clit and works her nipples while she thinks I'm asleep. She deeply pissed off at me for something but I must the do the yard work well enough to keep around.

From Cookie
My husband and I have been together for 17 yrs. I don't know what happened and when I try to talk about it we get in a fight. It's been over 6 months this time and the last was 2 yrs! I miss so very much his touch, his kisses and all the rest. I told him I would find someone to meet my needs and he said nothing. I haven't been able to do that, it feels wrong.

This is a man who couldn't get enough. I made him go to dr. he's ok. I know he still gets erections. I know my body has changed and so has his. I still see the sexy handsome man I met yrs. ago. I cry a lot. I masturbate and that makes me cry more.

After 1 ugly fight I threw out all the 'special' clothes I had. I can't see me leaving him after all this time and we are not a young couple. I thought it was only the woman that didn't want it anymore! I don't want pity I just want my husband back!

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