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Sexy HeelsWhen I want to look and feel sexy, nothing beats a pair of beautiful high heels, wear them with stocking and I'm a sex goddess. There is something about the way heels make me stand, walk, move. .. makes me feel incredibly sensual. Yes, I know heels are bad for my back, harsh on my legs and feet.  And yes, I know  I'm catering to the male idea of what's erotic. Sure, heels make a woman look sexy, but at a high cost. So what say you men and women — what is it about high heels, and are they worth the discomfort of sore calves and lower back pain?

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From Chris
I have to say that I have had a fetish about high heels since I was about 13 years old. What first attracted me to my wife of 15 years was that she always wore heels even on a casual date. We have a very active sex life and she usally wears heels which totally turns me on. My favorite heels are her high heel mules. As I thrust into her her legs come up behind my back, her mules slapping on her feet. Nothing could be better.

From Toni
I have loved heels since I was a teenage girl. My first pair were Candies slides. I got them when I was high school and remember wearing with my skirts, had guys following me down the hallways. Long time ago but still wear heels all the time. I've never had any foot problems at all. My husband loves my heels and buys some occasionally for me. All it takes is to slip one of my high heel mules to the end of my toes for him and were off to the bedroom

From Curtis
I guess I'm in the minority here, but I don't like high heels. When I see an attractive woman in heels I'm thinking "I hope she gets tired of them and takes them off soon". I'd much rather see a woman barefoot or in flip flops,  that's much sexier than heels. But I'll readily admit to having a foot fetish, so I'll always think barefoot is sexiest.

From Andre
Yes! There something about high heels on a woman. It just seems to lift their bottoms that bit higher. And as they walking along in a short skirt that cheeky bottom bounces up and down merrily as if lost in its own momentum. Just doesn't have the same effect without the high heels. So short skirts and heels, girls, are a marriage made in heaven! Long may they reign to tempt us men.

From Phillip
High heels...they evoke such powerful imagery. There is no doubt the attraction is both physical and emotional. Physically, there is nothing more sexy than the curves forced into a beautiful female foot by high heels, a sultry arch that rises to a calf tensed in a primal sense, as though ready for the "fight or flight" response. Emotionally, there is the unmistakable parallel to female subjugation offset by the fact that she is wearing them by choice, a very powerful combination. That accounts for the allure.

From Louis
Heels ALWAYS makes a woman more attractive to the guys. First, the heels make her calves more shapely and with the hose, it improves her legs immensely. Second, heels adds shape to her ass and alters the way she walks. I have noticed that when women wear heels, they have more swing in their ass, which really gets a guy's attention. All this combined with a short, slightly tight skirt and a blouse that shows off her cleavage gets her plenty of admirers. I realize that heels are not very comfortable but they are one of the most powerful tools to make any woman look so much better.

From Lady Elf
I believe that all of your options are correct. Heels do make a woman look and feel incredibly sexy or at least I do. But in spite of how I feel when I wear these heels I do and feel the pain of high heels. As a former model I have been told that I have compacted 3 of my lower vertebra just above my hip bone. Now every time I bend my knee & tilt my hips on the left side I lock my hips in place almost like dislocating them. I have to force them back so I can move. For 20 mins after I hobble around in pain, I'm only 25.

From Meri
Have to be honest here; if they're more than 3 1/2 inches, I do a much better job of turning someone on with them if they're up in the air. I love to shake my ass as much as the next person, but falling on it just somehow never seems to qualify as sexy no matter how gracefully one does it! I'm in complete awe of women who can strut in five inch stilettos convincingly. Rock on girls!

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