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From Drew
As a (male) massage therapist I can say that high heels, if worn a lot, do dreadful things to a woman's body. So ... they may make a woman look "lovely" but at a high cost, and I don't think it is at all loving of men to expect women to do harm to themselves in this way simply to increase their attractiveness. My ex-spouse had a pair which basically were reserved for "bedroom" wear ... she'd dress up in them to do a striptease but that was about all ... and they always came off very quickly.

From Inish
Despite all of the long term horrible things high heels can do to a woman - nothing can beat the feeling of swaggering across a room confidently in high heels. Heels are a tool of seduction, giving graceful curve to ones calves and foot. The look of a sculpted legs, delicately crossed to the side with a well designed heel dangling by ones toe- works better than a hair flip and a giggle anytime. We woman know it is not the shoe, but the relationship we have with them that is sexy; a playful peek into one's psyche. The bold and daring red pump to the sensuous strappy sandal - women have never dressed for men - but for the effect we have on men's girlfriends. A woman who can walk tall in heels has no problem being barefoot in the bedroom. No amount of hours in a gym can give my legs the shape a well designed heel can.

From Gussy
Great subject hiheels. When I met my wife, she dressed very well and I was so proud of her appearance, but the shoes got to me! Black patent nickles pumps or sweetwalkers both with bows. One day I told her how much they gave me the "hornies"  "You mean they get you aroused?" she asked to which I answered heartily,"YES" so from then on in our intimate times she would start foreplay with her black patent heels.

Somtimes she would use one shoe to have me come into as I did her with the other heel. Ahe would sometimes ask if I was bummed out about something, "wanna fuck my fuck-me shoe?". Beads somehow got in on the act as well, big white shiny beads or small pearl like beads she would wrap round my cock and then put a heel over it an wha-a-a-a-what a feeling.

From Lucille
Ahh woman's secret weapon, I love them and my beloved (leg) man loves them too, tells me they make my legs go all the way to my armpits. The darling's got a foot fetish too, sympathizes with their lack of comfort and gives me the best foot massages ever.

Girls, it takes practice, if mums not the type mine wasn't, find a woman you know, who can walk in heels to show you, an old lover of mine who just happened to be a stripper taught me. I see her now, saying 'lean back, have faith.' as she knelt pushing my bum and boobs chirping. 'Here's me fanny, me face is following.' then got me doing it balancing a book on my head, the old ways are the best.

Down sides for me now, well on the wrong side of fifty, bare feet or absolutely flat soles are fine, or the minimum's a three inch heel otherwise my calves give me hell, a little lower back pain after a day or two unless I'm corsetted (quite often) and two to three week trips general maintenance trips to the chiropodist.

From Alexander
This is a very interesting topic. I think high heels are an important part of the power of women over men. There are so many types of heels, there are the sling back heels, open toe heels and the standard office-type ones in black. They are incredibly sexy, it is an expression of a woman, her sexiness and femininity. It is also the way she walks in them, the way she struts at a party or walking across the office. It is a form of confidence in a woman that she feels good about herself and how she dresses and presents herself. She can wear them as a CEO or at a party, they both deliver an exciting sexual charge in men.

I also like how ladies coordinate the heels to occasion. They can wear black 4" ones with a skirt, or say wear teal colored ones to go with a sarong for the beach or resort on the ocean. There are many possibilities a woman can design her image, but nonetheless, I approve of women wearing them. Nothing like the sound of a woman walking on a floor in high heels!

From Prerafaelite
Did you know that when a woman wears high heels it alters her centre of gravity...therefore her hips are rotated forward which thrusts out her buttocks behind her and in turn causes her chest to be pushed forward by the increased curvature of her spine, which highlights her womanliness making her more attractive to the average male. There is a basic technical description, other than that they just look lovely.

From Rudy
All of the comments so far have been great! I second all of them especially regarding heels pointing up when I'm on top or when she's got her legs over my shoulders...oh yes! One thing I'd like to add the form of the foot in the pump (classic styled pumps by the way) is so incredible, it has become sex in itself. That form, arched and tense creates the cleavage that is, in my opinion, one of the most incredible stimulators. Yes, those toes just a peek of cleavage and you have instant hard on! Oh the slings and strappy sandals, with normal thin soles...oh my my my! And when she's sitting with her gorgeous legs crossed and dangles her high heels, careful now!

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