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From Merrimint
Fisherman's Friend does come in tins now, similar to Altoids. Stay with the "original extra strong" flavor. The sugarless ones have only 30% of the menthol, and the bag states "33% more" [lozenges]. The girlfriend says she likes the shapes better than Hall's, and they don't dissolve so quickly like Altoids.

FF lozenges are rougher on the outside than Hall's, so if you're going to use them for rubbing on the clit or elsewhere, first let them smooth down in your mouth.

From Chloe
I'm sitting on a towel trying to concentrate on something other than the burning sensation caused by Vicks VapoRub in my vagina. In one word-OUCH. Not for the faint hearted.

[Do not fool around with, or let anyone talk you into using, Vicks VapoRub on or in your vagina. It's painful and can cause negative long term effects.]

From Meri
Okay, you guys, I'm pretty liberal and willing to try almost anything in bed, but Vick's Vaporub? NO WAY! I had a boyfriend put Icy/Hot on his knee and then hop on me, forgetting to wash it off his hand. His dominant hand, and of course the one that slid three fingers into me less than five minutes later. NOT a good experience--that night, or for the following twelve hours of intense burning. Definitely one not to try! The Altoids thing or any type of peppermint-based product (edible, please!), can be a pretty good stimulant, though. Careful!!

From Epiphany S.
I'm totally down for the whole menthol-oral sex revolution....but Vicks Vaporub!? come on now....I can't imagine letting anyone put that in, on or near my vagina. I can barely stand it on my chest. I imagine it to feel like the time I accidentally put MEDICATED powder on my thighs and a little got on my nana. Damn that. My rule of thumb is 'if it can't go in your mouth, it shouldn't go on your vagina.'

From Alyssa
My boyfriend is South American, so he eats lots of spicy foods. While this can feel really great, BEWARE! Spicy foods affect your conjunctive tissue (that is, the tender pink skin like that of your eyes, lips, and genitals) Think of the pain you get from touching your eyes after touching a hot pepper... only DOWN THERE. I would recommend the spicy food idea in moderation only.

From Tarrick
The tricky part about using spices is that if something starts to burn too much, YOU CAN'T STOP IT! Chemical blisters on genitalia can kinda kill the mood -- to say nothing of the trip to the emergency room if the too hot stuff gets inside.

From Magnanimous
It's my understanding (as best as most men do) that often incorporating even a small amount of a sugary substance into sex-play in, on or around the female genitalia can oft times initiate a yeast infection. I'd imagine some woman are more susceptible than others but it's something to consider when choosing a sugary addition to your sexscapades.

From Candy
Has any one used mint tea before going down on a guy? I read it in Cosmo this past month and heard it's down wonders! I'm going to try it on my boyfriend this week, but I just wanted to see if anyone else has done this before?

From Anonymous
This comes from a gay friend - find a vial of liquid icebreakers - not the tablet kind - these are tiny gelcaps with liquid in them. Then use your tongue to slip them up your partner's ass. Doesn't take long for the gel to dissolve and start an incredible feeling inside. About five is optimum.

From Kat
I was absolutely horrified at the suggestion of using vaporub or fishermen's friends near anyone's vagina [see Megan's entry below]. I have had two fishermen's friends related accidents that left my private parts burning like a bonfire. It REALLY hurt and was NOT fun. You people must have tough pussies....

From Megan
My husband introduced me to the delights of "Fisherman's Friends." The first time he placed these inside my vagina, and rubbed one around my clit' It blew my mind within 2 minutes - especially as I was tied to the bed in the middle of summer with the windows open ...

From Anonymous
Have a guy put a mint Listerine strip on your clit, and lick and blow- 15 orgasms later I highly recommend it

From Jane Lane
I know the mint thing works, but sometimes too well- Had a spearmint /menthe "flavoured" condom used in sex, needless to say the mintyness and the friction made it one hot mint condom and sex had to stop because it got too burnt.

From HC
Try using mouthwash (listerine) right before you give a guy head... it gives kinda the same sensation as Altoids.

From JAFO
My wife and I have tested the Altoid theory and proven it's well worth the effort!!! The tingly, mint, sensation is wonderful and hard to describe. Since then, I have reciprocated with chewing a couple of Altoids just before tonguing her lips and pearl and she goes nuts, saying it gives her an unbelievable sensation. Best of all, now all either one has to do is put the Altoids on the counter and all bets are off!

From Claire
My boyfriend says that all using pop rocks does for him is feel like sand paper. I think it is more a novel idea and pops in your own mouth more than it really does much for him, according to my own bf and several other girls I know who've also done used the pop rocks on their bf's or husbands. 

Also, as an aside, if anyone ever comes near my vaginal opening with Vick's Freaking Vapo-Rub, I'm running the other way [read Guy's entry below]. That stuff is NOT supposed to be used near any mucus membranes, such as far up in the nose, the eyes, into the anus or tip of the penis AND in the vagina. There are tons of things that don't have the lasting and possible stinging/pain effect as Vapo-Rub that will give a similar sensation that I'd advise.

From Guy
Try using Vicks Vapour Rub when you bring your girl off with your fingers or while having sex. I'm not sure what it's called in the States, you know the stuff you rub on your chest when you have a cold / flu.

From Gem
I can honestly say green creme de menthe works very well. A few drops at a time smoothed on the skin, then lick the skin to get it wet and blow cool air over it. You'll definitely get a reaction.

From RJ
While I have learned the hard way that soap and water doesn't take off chili oil (ouch, contact lenses!) my lover and I have found spicy Thai food to be very exciting. We have a favorite restaurant and such a history of great oral sex after going there that it's pretty hard to keep our minds on dinner!

From Jenna
Definitely Altoids! Just for fun, I like to pop two or three into my mouth before popping "him" into my mouth. It's a bit like icy-hot, so he tells me. Two other benefits: 1) he likes the sensation of the little candies rubbing all over his penis, and 2) there is absolutely no taste other than peppermint for me. Most of the time his "flavor" doesn't bother me, but sometimes it's a little bitter. I suspect it's a dietary thing. Which brings up a question: Someone once told me that if he drinks pineapple juice the day before, his cum will taste sweet. Has anyone had any experience with this? Just wondering...

From Joan
May I suggest a mouthful of peppermint schnapps as an interesting after-dinner alternative? Quite tasty, and from what I understand, effective too.

From Caitlin
DANGER! Never, never, never go anywhere near anyone's genitals with capsicum on the breath or on your hands. Try not touching your face either. Capsicum is what makes chiles spicy, and also what makes fire-ant bites hurt!

After slicing Thai Super-Chiles, Scotch Bonnets, or any of the other super-hots, one should use acetone or nail-polish remover to strip the chile oil from the hands - or just start off by wearing surgical gloves. Is there sex after salsa? Yes, but be VERY careful! Aye Chihuahua!

From Mink
I agree with Caitlin. I've heard that male/female urinary tract openings can be highly irritated, causing pain and extreme burning. For a pleasant alternative, try giving him head with a mouth full of "pop rocks" - it can be a very stimulating experience and fun for both!

From Alan
My SO and I have made love after eating Mexican food, but we don't like our food super hot, so I'm not sure our experience would help you much. We didn't notice any great difference in oral pleasure. I suspect a bit of pepper that might find its way into the urethra during oral sex would cause sharp discomfort. Dare I say, like a pin prick?

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