What About Strap-On Dildos?

My girlfriend and I just got a strap-on harness and dildo, and yes, she uses it on me (I'm a guy). I don't have any desire to be with a man, trust me I've worked this through, but that's not precisely what I'm commenting on. We bought a really good strap-on and though we don't use it every night we do take it out for special occasions - when extra-kink is what the doctor orders.

Usually during sex I'm the more dominant partner BUT once in a while I like the tremendous rush of vulnerability that comes from being submissive to her. She gets a major kick outta having 8 inches of phallus dildo in her strap-on to heave about and she says she like the dominance that she feel it brings out in her. It was her idea to get the thing but it only occurred to her after I introduced her to good anal sex.

Anyhow, I'm wondering are there other couples or people out there who like using strap-ons and dildos? I'd like to hear other perspectives on this and any advice other's might have: Like what's the thrill for them, does dildo size matter? And what contexts, or roll-plays might others be into? I'm doing some fiction writing right now and I'd find the feedback useful.

Thanks ... and God bless the ERWA folks for their providing this forum!    —Festus

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From Mick
What about them - fantastic. It took my wife a while to come around the idea, but now she loves it.

We just had a few days away without kids, what a difference that makes. She became the penetrator and dominant. Pushing it into me bent over the bed, pumping me with my ankles wrapped around her waist. She told me it gave her an immense feeling of power.

It gave me an immense orgasm as she fucked my arse and rubbed my cock, all the while looking down on me talking slutty.

From Allan
Just within the last year my wife has brought up the idea for the use of a strap-on for me. She has enjoyed them herself having had several female lovers over the years (with my knowledge & approval & many which I have been present for) who have used a strap-on on her. Several of her female lovers have commented that with a strap-on one never goes soft, you can pick the size of your delight and the color of the day.

Anyway the wife had mentioned her desire to use one on me. I have zero homo sexual desires at least none that I am aware of...yet I find myself aroused by what has happened and the things I have done for her.

We went to a rather well known store for sex toys in the LA area. There the wife with the help of a gorgeous little salesgirl picked out a Doc Johnson strap-on "kit" telling our friendly helper it was to be used on me.

We got home and after a few glasses of wine she retired to our bedroom. She came out about 45 minutes later. She was in a beautiful gold corset, stocking & heels with her makeup done and she was wearing her new "cock." Truth be told my breath was taken away.

She walked towards me and standing in front of me simply said, "On your knees."  I did and the next thing I knew I was giving her head. She came quickly! Soon she was reclining on the sofa with a glass of wine while I knelt before her doing my best to swallow her whole. I didn't make it.

After about thirty minutes of that she positioned herself behind me & with great care worked her "cock" into my ass.

Now I understand the comment about being split in two...lol

After relaxing enough to start to enjoy it and grow comfortable she began to fuck me...what an amazing role reversal. I was harder than I have ever felt before and she was coming like gang busters.

Eventually I was on my back on the sofa while she had my legs over her shoulders. As she fucked me she stroked my cock which was painfully hard. As she stroked me she teased me a bit about being a big macho guy who was taking a cock in his ass like a pro...she pushed the mental buttons pretty hard.

Needless to say I came hard. Very, very hard, all over myself. Since that night her cock has become an integral part of our sex play. Not everyday by any means but occasionally she gets that gleam in her eyes and I know who's going to be in charge that night.

PS. One of her female lovers has given her a very flexible "cock" that she can and has worn under her clothes. Our play has advanced to giving her "head" as she drives, to stopping along the side of a road or going into a closed business complex at night so she can get a "quickie" before we get home...neither of us have any desire for my feminization (I could not go there and she knows it) she has said she simply likes to be the one calling the shots and loves being a woman with a cock.

And within the last month she has broached the topic of one of her girlfriends joining her and both of them doing me together...

Amazing truly amazing.

From Olddog
We're in our fifties my wife has always played with my ass. One morning early I woke up with her finger going in and next she was pushing a strap on up. She rolled me on my belly and started out slow and then she was hammering me hard. I had never had an orgasm last so long and intense.

I wish we did it more often.

From Joe
After we were first married we bought a vibrator which I used on my wife, then one night she suggested that I try it, saying prostate massage could make me come. Well I agreed to let her take my virgin ass, and I'm glad I did. 

I love when my wife fucks my ass it really is a great turn on, that was when I was only 28 years old. I'm in my mid 50's now and we have many toys she uses on my ass, strap-ons butt plugs, anal beads. My all time favorite is the Doc Johnson 8 inch strap-on. It really fills my ass up. 

And my favorite position is laying on my back with some pillows under me [try using the fabulous The Liberator Cushions rather then pillows!]. I pull up and spread my legs exposing my hole the she slides it home and pumps my ass while my knees are up by my ears until I come. Ya gotta love the feeling.

From Ben
My wife and I had promised each other we'd get a strap-on and did for Christmas. She had fantazised about fucking me for a long time while I had fantazised about her fucking one of her girlfriends. My wife did the buying and when it arrived I was shocked to see it was 10 inches. By evening Christmas Day our guests had gone and we got to the bedroom. She belted on the 10 inches and I lubed up, went face down on the bed. Wow! What an amazing sensation.

She edged it in slowly but the size was breathtaking. Within five minutes it was all the way in and I was screaming in ecstasy. I had a big hard on and one downside of the strap-on session with my wife was no one there to suck me off. The strap-on was rock hard, a lot less comfortable in my ass than a real cock but a lot more exciting.

Later on I strapped up, shoving my erection inside the plastic cock and went inside my wife's ass, not the first time she's had ten inches inside her, but still a very horny experience for her, she also screaming in ecstasy. Similarly, she said a downside for her was not being able to suck either cock or pussy while I fucked her.

From Dina
I am extremely curious and interested in exploring this 'avenue' with my currant partner. However, I am completely at a loss about how to go about it---- how you could suggest it? what type of anal play beforehand? etc. As I have never, ever been the dominant one when we have anal sex, and have absolutely no idea what to do at all. I would really like to hear some feedback from women who have performed anal sex with their partner, and, hopefully, maybe some hints for a first timer.

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From Hesitant
First of all like most guys in this forum I'd like to say I've never had an intrest in guys. Second, for some reason the sight of a woman wearing a strap on is a big turn on for me. I could come just watching my wife stand in the bedroom wearing one. We have two but they are just gathering dust in our "toy box". We tried years ago but I just couldn't relax. 

Here are my questions:  #1 how can I relax? #2 besides an enema, how can I clean myself out, the few times we tried I felt really full and she pulled out immediately. #3 can you hurt anything physically? 

I'd really like to get this thing going. I'm jealous of the others on this site that have no problem with this type of sex. Any help would be appreciated!

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