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Semen is not something I would think 'mmmm, the taste'. Indeed I have found it not nice at all, yet men insist it's creamy and yummy—mostly because they haven't tried the drinkie drinkie test themselves. I prefer to spit rather than swallow but I have had one partner get highly offended that I spat. So I swallowed, hated it and resented him. Still a dilemma tho. I guess that it's like soymilk—an acquired taste. Swallow or spit; you either like it or hate it. Personally I prefer soymilk. —Giulia Cosentino 


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From Sue
I'm a retired porn star. The only gift of sperm I can think of [see Judy's entry below] is to the multi-billion dollar porn industry - it's called the money shot. After countless sperm showers on my face, breasts, ass, pussy, I can tell you it's just plain icky - sticky, smelly, slimy. But, the silver lining is we don't have to swallow the stuff. It's not so much the taste, which could range from ok to god awful, it's the consistency that is so unpleasant. Let's face it, sperm is not god's gift to women. It's simply reproductive fluid. We've effectively taken women off the pedestal, thank goodness. Now let's do guys a favor and take his dick and sperm off the pedestal and let him move past the social constructs of what makes a man.

From BJ Jonas (California)
Myself, I think it is on a case by case (or, cock by cock) basis. I am bi, and have been with women and men. I am always clean and love it when partners swallow, it just feels better. Now, some of the cocks I have sucked were on guys that did not feel like washing. I either did not suck them, or I spit (usually on them). Those that were clean, mmmmm, I have to say, I love the taste.

From RJ
From a male point of view, I have always come to believe that if a woman goes down on a guy and brings him to the point of no return, she has now placed herself into the stage of whether I do or do not fulfill my commitment to swallow. During the oral suck aspect, she has to ask herself, Do I or Don't I? To please him fully, I should. I personally prefer her to, however from a guy's point, I tell other men, if you think it is a no brainer for a woman to swallow, try ejaculating into a glass and without hesitation, without second guessing, bottoms up the glass into your mouth and swallow. If you flinch or hesitate; don't chastise her for not swallowing, it may not be as easy for her either. Just because she wants to suck your cock, does not obligate her to swallow.

As a cardinal rule of thumb, I NEVER insist that she swallows, it is a choice she must make. Yet in my own experiences, I have found that if you do not make it an issue either before or during oral lovemaking, she tends to be more comfortable and relaxed and therefore she tends to swallow, which to me is the highlight of bringing two people ever so closer together. Oral sex; either way is to me far more intimate and personal than intercourse.

From T
My personal philosophy: If you put it in your mouth, you better be damn sure it's disease free—especially if you swallow.

From S
My personal philosophy: If you can put it in your mouth, you can swallow what comes out of it.

From B
My personal philosophy: Don't ask someone to do what you're not willing to do.

From Sir Kenn
I do not mind a lady spitting, its the ones the gargle that scare me.

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