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From RJ
From a male point of view, I have always come to believe that if a woman goes down on a guy and brings him to the point of no return, she has now placed herself into the stage of whether I do or do not fulfill my commitment to swallow. During the oral suck aspect, she has to ask herself, Do I or Don't I? To please him fully, I should. I personally prefer her to, however from a guy's point, I tell other men, if you think it is a no brainer for a woman to swallow, try ejaculating into a glass and without hesitation, without second guessing, bottoms up the glass into your mouth and swallow. If you flinch or hesitate; don't chastise her for not swallowing, it may not be as easy for her either. Just because she wants to suck your cock, does not obligate her to swallow.

As a cardinal rule of thumb, I NEVER insist that she swallows, it is a choice she must make. Yet in my own experiences, I have found that if you do not make it an issue either before or during oral lovemaking, she tends to be more comfortable and relaxed and therefore she tends to swallow, which to me is the highlight of bringing two people ever so closer together. Oral sex; either way is to me far more intimate and personal than intercourse.

From Franco
I'd just like to say that one time my girlfriend at the time decided to try swallowing it. Unfortunately I think she was unprepared for the amount and intensity of the moment. Long story short, the ultimate erotic fulfillment came to a screeching, coughing, gagging and choking halt, and culminated with her spitting it everywhere all over me. So, in the end, while I appreciated her trying to swallow it, it really would have been better if she'd spit or just pointed it somewhere else.

From Robert
My wife feels similarly to Anonymous [see entry below] and has also compared the consistency of semen to phlegm. I feel very lucky that she does enjoy going down on me and let her know that I enjoy it every time she does it. She asked me once if I wished she would swallow and I admitted that yes I did, but that I'm not about to get upset that she doesn't. I love her and love what she does for me, but I would never try to talk her into doing something she doesn't want to do.

From George
To Anonymous [see entry below]: Your lovely wife doesn't need to get past anything. You simply need to accept and respect the fact that she doesn't like the consistency. Be happy that she loves to go down on you. My wife dislikes the taste, and I'm happy to warn her before I shoot. If she doesn't like the taste, so be it. I hate the taste of lima beans, and won't eat the damn things for anyone - why should I expect my wife to swallow something she doesn't like? That's selfish, and immature. Be grateful she enjoys giving me head, such a glorious feeling! 

From Anonymous
My lovely wife loves to go down on me, but she always stops well before I cum. She likes to lick pre-cum from my cock, but she won't let me cum in her mouth or on her face (her belly, ass, or breasts are ok). She says that while the taste doesn't bother her, the consistency does...she says it's too much like phlegm. Any suggestions to help her get past this?

From Sam
I'm bi-sexual, and not promiscuous by any account , and yet I've had bad tasting cum experiences. And worse, terribly thick viscous consistency. Sometimes I swallow, and sometimes I don't. It depends on person I'm with -- sometimes I take a guy in my mouth and he taste and smells good enough to eat and I swallow. Sometimes the smell and taste is not right, and I don't swallow. And I don't expect the men or women I'm with to swallow. It's their choice to make, if they do, that's fine. If they don't, that's fine also. Oral sex is good either way.


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