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From JD
I have been married for over 20 years and enjoy oral to its fullest extent. Getting my wife to perform this is always a chore, she would Gag and Spit. After I would feel as if she was forcing herself to please me and this was not enjoyable. So then as I was about to come, I would tell her and she would finish me off with her hand. Well it's just not the same is it? Now in my mid 40's the BJs are like hens teeth and when they do happen she will at times swallow with no complaint. Go figure!

From Blair
I never swallowed but my boyfriend requested it recently. I tried. Twice. I gagged--I'll bet that wasn't attractive!! The smell alone is repulsive, and the consistency is worse. He tastes very bitter. I love my boyfriend and I want to drive him wild but I just can't bring myself to grosses me out!.

From Anonymous
My girlfriend and I would give each other massages with a fragrant body lotion. Once, when she was doing my front, she leaned over and kissed my cock. As she leaned back, I put my hand on the back of her head, where she liked to be touched, and I think she took the move as a signal that I wanted more. She leaned over and took my swollen head  into her mouth. I almost bucked off the sofa at experiencing for the first time a pair of lips and a soft, warm mouth closing around my tumescence. She looked up at me as if to ask if what she was doing was okay, and I just touched her head again. When her lips slid down my rod, it was too much for me, and I warned her that was I coming and tried to push her away, but she just squinted her disapproval and continued to suck. I came so hard, I thought my balls would come out through my dick.

When I had stopped convulsing, she slid her lips off while suctioning every drop. She then spit into a tissue and proceeded to apologize. I couldn't believe it, and I told her that she had given me the most pleasurable and erotic experience I had ever had, that I worshipped her for allowing me to come in her mouth, and that she should never again apologize. She got really adept at deep throat, and I gladly supplied the tissues. 

From Phledge
I've cheerfully fellated the men with whom I've been involved, but it wasn't until my most recent encounter that I actually had one come in my mouth. I swallowed because I wasn't sure what else to do, and, more importantly, I was RELIEVED that I hadn't been doing it "wrong" all these years. Now that I've swallowed, and I know that I'm doing it right, and I know that, really, the stuff tastes rather like runny nose, I think I'll spit.

From Jolie
Neither! I would make a terrible prostitute because I HATE the taste of semen. I forced myself to swallow it with my first boyfriend (I was 17) because I was too afraid to tell him that I didn't like the taste. I have to say that sometimes I had to run to the bathroom. I just couldn't do it. As I got older, I was honest about it. And, it really hasn't been a problem with any man I've been with since. They don't come in my mouth, and it's been cool. No problem. My husband is completely understanding, too.

From Matt
Having her spit ruins it for me for one simple reason; it makes me feel selfish as though she's doing something she really doesn't want to do because she thinks I expect it or something. Whatever the case, it makes me feel really awful and ruins the act for me. It might be partly because I'm from the old school...I enjoy having sex but I LOVE making love and if someone is doing something she doesn't really want to do, it doesn't feel like love...obligation would be a better word. 

From Mike
I don't care if they swallow or spit. I'm just happy to get a BJ. Either way they are going to get a big thank you from me that starts with long slow kiss. Then it's their turn for some oral manipulation.

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