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From Sarah
This is a very funny web site, I am 34 and work as a floor manager for a bank. When I was younger I would always point the thing away, had a semi bad experience in a guy's car in my 20's where my head was held down!! Do not do that guys! Unfortunately went out with that one for another couple months. And in my recent yrs I have dated quite a few younger guys through work circles and have to say the ones below 28 kinda are quite demanding emptying their stalks in my mouth.

From Bob
Swallowing? Never minded if she did or she didn't. Spitting is kind of cold and perfunctory, though. What makes me (gloriously) crazy is when she lets it all drool out of the corners of her mouth while she flashes a big grin, and makes a nice sticky mess ... wherever. Sigh Okay, so I'm a slob ... sue me.

From Tim
Ok ladies, I can't say I don't appreciate your willingness to swallow, or how much you enjoy it. But, there are plenty of us men who don't think it's the be-all-end-all of sexual thrills. So a girl swallows, so big deal. The real big deal is her enthusiams for the deed, and in particular her arousal, meaning her participation in love making. The point is, swallowing is not a big deal ladies, so if you don't like to, then simply don't and that's fine.

From Linda
Swallow or spit... Who cares as long as the woman isn't forced to doing something she doesn't want to do. If you get offended for her spitting it out it's really your problem. Would you be happier forcing her to swallow and making her resent you and maybe never give you head ever again? Isn't she supposed to enjoy it too? The more she enjoys it the better the sex.

From Anonymous
When I first started having oral sex as a teenager I thought that it would be disgusting to have a guy come in my mouth so I always made them tell me when they were about to come. It was all very clumsy and sometimes I would end up getting it my hair or elsewhere.  Eventually I tried swallowing with one boyfriend and hated the taste and the consistency.  It was very salty and made me feel sick. Years later I wanted to do something special for a man I was very much in love with.  I swallowed and it was wonderful.  His semen was so sweet and delicious. The look of pure pleasure on his face is something I will never forget. 

From Anonymous
I absolutely love going down on a guy and get so turned on knowing that he is getting off on what I am doing to him. However, I am not a big fan of swallowing. If my guy comes in my mouth I usually let it seep out of my mouth in the few seconds right after he comes while I gently continue to suck his cock and bring him down from his high. I think that this is almost just as sensual of an act as swallowing, just in a different way - while I am not ingesting the cum, I am still taking it into my mouth and continuing to enjoy all of him, including the cum. Am I totally wrong? I almost see it as a turn on to "play" in his juices.

From Miriam
I began my current relationship about a year ago, after a year or so of no sex.  The first time I gave my new man a blow job it was an amazing experience.. But after I had blown my new man, I got the most violent stomach pains, bent over with it.  His cum must have been particularly rich in something we couldn't figure, or it was toxic!  He was very considerate and dug out an old hot water bottle and put me to bed for an hour or so.  I told myself I had to get used to his cum so went down on him later that evening but this time it wasn't on an empty tummy and the cramps lasted just a few minutes.  Today we have a '69' two or three times a week and just enjoy him comming in my mouth, swallowing it all but each time there is still a tingle in my tummy, but no real pain.

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