Sympathy Fuck
Nasty or Noble?

Has anyone here ever been pressured into giving someone a sympathy fuck? How did it happen? What was it like? Who was it with, an ex-boyfriend, a stranger, a friend’s dorky cousin who just couldn’t get laid to save his life? And how did it feel compared to sex with someone you actually wanted?

I believe in being warm-hearted. I believe especially in fucking with a warm heart.    —Lady Chatterley's Lover

We don't need no stinkin' sympathy here...

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From Dennis
My friend's wife had been having an affair for a couple of years and she told him that she wanted a divorce. She still cared for him but wanted to be with the other man. She told him that they could have one last night together before she left. They went out to dinner and after they returned home she said that she would give him one last night of sex with everything. He said that she performed the very best that she had ever been. He said that it was the first time she had given him oral, vaginal and anal all in the same night. After that night he said he was really sorry that she was leaving.

From Ruth
This is going to sound awful but I experienced a sympathy fuck with my brother-in-law following the death of his wife. Between jobs I was able to spend some sympathy time with him before he returned to work. It started as a few days a week, mainly shopping, me cooking some lunch, listening to him tell me about his wife, him always breaking up in tears, me comforting him. To get him out of his depressed state I suggested visiting museums and going to see a movie or two.

It was after one of these visits, preparing an early evening meal for him before I left for my own home and husband, he began to cry, I lent over him to comfort him. I was wearing a lose fitting shirtwaister and my bra was fully on show as I lent forward. He undid one then a second button. I froze with fear. No, I didn't want this I said to myself but did nothing to stop him. I felt a marvellous feeling as he bit then sucked my nipple through my bra, doing nothing as I felt his hands go round to unclip my bra. My nipples were very erect as he sucked them.

I then saw him unzip his pants, pull out his penis and I stroked it up to full size, dropping down to suck him. After a few minutes he placed me across the dining table, pulled my pantyhose and panties away and I almost begged him to enter me. He took ages to climax and I must have sounded like a slut but this was one very good, enjoyable, satisfying fuck with a wonderful feeling of ecstasy as I felt the warmth of his cum inside me.

I left feeling very guilty, saying that it wouldn't happen again. It didn't. It was only a sympathy fuck but one that left me feeling unhappy about myself.

From Tony
I was in a bar when I saw a middle aged female sitting at the bar all by herself drinking a martini. So I kinda felt sorry for her and started talking to her. We ended up taking about sex in school and how young the kids do it these days. She was drunk by this time.

She unveiled her whole life story and how nobody wanted to fuck her because she is little overweight and ugly. I felt sorry for her. I ended up going to her house and we had good sex. And found out that she was a virgin. It was a good experience. You feel like you did something good.

From Irish Tim
I am an expert on this subject as every fuck I have had with my wife in the past 20yrs is a sympathy one as far as she is concerned. She has changed from being a normal sexual partner to a total disinterest in sex. When I get totally frustrated she will remove pajamas and knickers and say the 'magic' words "stick it in and be quick". 

Can you imagine trying to come in two minuets at 60yrs of age? It's some rush. If I haven't climaxed she will pull away leaving me to masturbate myself on her arse.

That's not even a sympathy fuck but its the best I can do.

From RJ
I don't know if this is a female only topic but I've had a time or two I've given a sympathy fuck. The one that comes to mind first came about after a lady friend asked me to have lunch with her. She had some things she wanted to get my perspective on. I knew her husband had a girl on the side and she knew it. It was straining their relationship and she had told me she couldn't bring herself to divorce him. (He made big bucks). She told me their sex life was not good. Her vagina had never recovered after the birth of her second child and she was so loose she had to get him off by hand as he fucked her or get him off orally. He could not ejaculate without the additional stimulation of her hands around his cock. I listened and nodded as she told me this, unbelieving that a woman would share such intimate details with an almost casual friend.

She knew that I usually went home at lunchtime and a few days later as I ate lunch she rang my doorbell. I was annoyed to be interrupted but when I looked in her eyes I saw a lost person if ever there was one. She entered as I opened the door and began to kiss me. I pulled back and asked her if she knew what she was about. She didn't say anything but she kissed me harder and reached into my pants. I really thought the whole thing was inconvenient and yes I was married too. I decided she must be getting even with Jim and what the hell I might as well be the instrument of her revenge. We fell right down on the floor and got to it. I pulled her dress up (she wore no panties) and began to eat her pussy shedding clothes as I went along. When she started pulling at my ears I finally put my cock in her. She began to shiver all over and started whispering lewdness to me. "You are so much bigger than Jim and I love your cock in me," etc. We rolled around frolicking for about an hour until she had at least 2 intense orgasms and I had to get back to work.

We continued our trysts for about a year until her husband got another job in another area. The night she left I met her at her house. It was empty of furniture and we fucked on the carpet in the living room. She said "Thank you for everything. I'll always love your cock" We kept in touch for a long time but then.. Well, All good things end.

From Midnightbones
I can honestly say that a sympathy shag is just as unique as the shag'er/shag'ee. I've never, nor do I think I would ever give a sympathy shag or a noble shag, until it feels right. I consider shagging a type of close, erotic, romantic activity. I share myself, be it physical, mental, emotional with someone whom I care about and not feel sorry for, or noble for.

From Monikka
There was this guy my friend introduced me to. There was a week of the getting to know you phase, I went out with him for about 2 weeks after, then a week convincing him that there was no way we had a future together; he was passive-aggressive, and was tentative in lovemaking, almost too gentle. During the last week he tried to get me to have sex with him, and there was that same tentative approach. I was just exasperated, thinking here he was, allegedly trying to convince me to stay with him with passionless unhot sex! 

So I took his hands off me, grabbed the front of his shirt and almost threw him up against the wall. I started to kiss him, then pinned his hands (which had began to wander again) against the wall. I continued (damn, no time for details, have to leave here in 2 min or I'll be really late!) doing him pretty much the same way, then left afterwards. 

I think I just wanted him to see what I meant, and words didn't cut it. We never were together after that, but from what I've heard, even 10 years later, he wants to marry me. Geez! if he had learned anything, he'd be happily married to someone else!

From Cat
I have had the opportunity through my life to do give a sypathy fuck a few times. It was the most pleasurable thing I ever did. It was not just the fact that it was fun but because I helped out a few men who were having problems with erection. I'm a patient woman and knowing that erection problems for men can be devastating I went on a crusade to help. 

Taking everything into account I pulled out my book of knowledge and used all the magic I could. I love touching and to start slowly, added things as I went along that they hadn't experienced. Sometimes it was quicker than they thought possible others took more imagination. But I didn't give up until they were released and knew that nothing was impossible. I never saw it as a sympathy fuck but a gift from me that I also enjoyed.

From Ginger
I have worked in a brothel. Many of those fucks are kind of pity fucks though you get paid.

The incredibly obese always chose me because I was the least slim girl I guess. You could hardly find the penis for the fat. Much of it was tucked up under their rolls so only a bit poked out. I got on top. They were so embarrassed and sad and looked away and said not a word.

I enjoyed being affectionate and friendly to them and giving them some pleasure though I couldn't get them to relax and stop feeling shame.

From KennyL
Sympathy fuck! a few years ago I had an accident and was confined to a wheelchair, lower limbs paralysis. Feeling very sorry for myself, no sex, no future. A nurse kinda wanted to find out how much or little was available or so she said at the time. A frustrating time to start but turned into an enjoyable night.

Some time later I found out this was a sympathy/therapy fuck. Amazing what you can do when you try. Imagine using a hypodermic to inject into the penis to achieve erection, that nearly put me off for life, who had sympathy for who?

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