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Masturbation on the slyHow many of us (male or female) have done the hand shag and thought we were along - but weren't. Or perhaps we were lying next to our significant other and thought they were asleep? And did they wake up or ever mention they knew you were doing it?

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From Dave
I've done this a few times. I was once with a girlfriend, we had sex, she fell asleep & for some reason I got horny again & very quietly masturbated right next to her, being very quiet & trying not to shake the bed with my hand/arm movements. We were both very open with each other about our masturbation, so the next day I mentioned I'd gotten off again & was rather embarrassed when she said, yeah, I knew you did! I thought I was being completely discreet! She actually felt a little bad, thinking she had not satisfied me enough & that's why I felt the need to masturbate. I told her, no, just the opposite - I felt very satisfied but as I lay there thinking about it, just got horny again & wanted to get off & thought she was asleep.

From Cheryl
In my marriage I masturbated regularly early on, even though my husband could get me off multiple times. I've made myself come after sex, or just late at night when I could not sleep. I would masturbate quietly while my husband slept next to me. Now, after 25 years, neither of us is embarrassed to masturbate in front of each other; although my husband does it more often (in private and with me) than I am inclined to do.

From Oxartes
Eek, this is embarrassing. Y'all be the judge if this qualifies. A couple of years back, we came home late and went to bed. I was horny. Mrs. Oxartes knew this but was really zonked. She apologized, rolled over and was out. I didn't want to wait. I saw her nice round derriere (Mmm...) and, as lightly as I could, rubbed my cock against it. I didn't want to wake her so I took my time. When I let fly, I rolled over onto my back. I've done this several times since. I don't know whether Mrs. Oxartes knows or not. If she does, she hasn't let on.
From Anonymous
Of course I have. Yes, of course he would awaken. Sometimes he would join in, sometimes help, sometimes watch, sometimes politely pretend to be sleeping. Thankfully, I have never been associated (for long) with someone who took offence.

From Bernie
My wife and I have both masturbated beside one another in bed while each thought the other was asleep. It's really the only sex we get these days. I'll look over and see one hand massaging a nipple and the other working her clit under the covers several nights a week. That gets me rock hard and I must of course stroke myself and fondle my sack. Never to orgasm, I'd rather avoid explaining the mess. Do I ever offer to join her? I'd love nothing better then to bury my face in her pussy and lick and suck her clit until she writhed in orgasm but those days are a distant fading fast memory.

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