The Art of Role Playing

Who are you in bed?

Damon asks:  What are some of the role playing scenarios that turn you on? 

"The role seemed to demand that I keep myself worked up to fever pitch, so I took on the actual attributes of the horrible vampire, Dracula."  —Bela Lugosi

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From Anonymous
I just have to say that this topic has the perfect time.  My husband and I have been happily married nearly eighteen years, and although we have enjoyed great intimacy and I will just say it, SEX, lately it has felt a little too routine.  So the other night I worked up the nerve to share a fantasy I have with him.  But I told him that while I described my fantasy I wanted us to act it out.  Whew!  I had never seen him get soo hard so fast.  It was great! 

I was very nervous, after 17 years go figure. But, the next morning he told me that he had dreamed about the fantasy and then we enjoyed each other and had great sex in the shower,  then that night he asked me to tell him about it again, and whew... he was so hard and of course I was thrilled. Twice in one day! 

From Cat
I love playing many roles. I think when we do it is really a part of us that we've kept hidden. I could never do it without knowing and trusting the other person. I've played submission but I much rather be in charge. I believe that's because I am more timid in my real life. Being a young schoolgirl is always lots of fun. And a teacher makes it fun to teach the ABC's. I've played a lingerie saleswomen putting on a show of my new products. That gave me an excuse to go buy some new stuff. I've been a woman at a bar and been picked up. What was such a riot about this is someone else tried to pick me up!There are more but this is a good list. But lately the most and best fun I have is being myself.

From Lexi
This is partially in reference to Todd's comment. [see Todd's entry on page 2]That was intriguing. It has given me a wonderful idea to discuss with my fiance about a little "gaming" session.

But onto my own story. My fiance and I are very loving, very open people most of the time. But we do have one thing we've never shared with anyone else. Oh, we've told people about it and smiled whenever we discuss doing it again but it's rather personal for us. We like to role play a little bit on the animalistic side.

We don't go as far as to donning furry costumes and having sex like that but we play with the idea of what it would be like if we were animals who were sexually attracted to each other. He raises wolves when he's home and not fighting (I love my military man) and I've always loved Florida panthers (they're a type of cougar, not a panther contrary to their name.) We crawl around and growl and make little noises and act like the animals we're love so much. We both know that these two different species would of course never interact like this, but we just like to play. To us, it lets us express our need to be slightly uncivilized.

From Ace
Role playing can definitely increase the excitement in your sex life.  My girlfriend and I had a good laugh the first time we tried it and it seemed at tad strange.  After that, however, we tried to be more serious about, planning the story, writing a script, dressing the parts, and choosing the right atmosphere. 

The next try was fantastic.  My girlfriend dressed in a cheerleader uniform, knee highs, pig tails, and glasses.  I was the coach who was getting ready to throw her off the squad for a team violation (pick one...we used poor grades) and she needed to give me a reason not to do so.  She gave me many reasons. 

This started a whole new game for us.  My girlfriend always wanted me to think of the scenario, but after two times she actually admitted her fantasy and we did that.  Now she is a lot more open with what she wants and that makes it a lot more exciting for both of us.

From Stacy
My role playing desire is one that I'm afraid my husband will never do. I want him to treat me like he's a vampire and I'm the victim.  No blood letting...but the biting and the absolute submissiveness of being completely under his control would turn me on (at least, I'm pretty sure it would) more than anything yet.  I fantaszie about it all the time.

From Anonymous
One evening while enjoying an after-glow cuddle my husband talked about a long standing fantasy of his, groping and caressing waitresses. We giggled about it at the time, but the next time we went out to dinner his fantasy took hold and aroused me no end. I asked him if he'd like to play it out at home, and his jaw about dropped to the floor, but he said yes!  And the game was on. A few days later I set the table with cloth, nice dishes, and wore a black skirt and white blouse as would a waitress in a nice restaurant. He sat down for dinner.  I walked up with a pad in hand and asked if he'd like a cocktail before dinner. We both ended up laughing, feeling silly.

We talked about it, and thought it was because it wasn't planned. So we set a day aside, planned the entire scene out like a script in a play and committed ourselves to playing the role of waitress and customer. We bought table linen, moved the table into the living room, set it to look like a beautiful table setting with flowers and all. We exited the room, changed into our 'costumes' and played the script, eventually the play took on a life of its own. I served an appetizer.  He ran his hand under my skirt, caressing my ass. I refilled his wine glass, he reached down my blouse, teased my nipple. In the kitchen I removed my panties and served dinner. He reached under my skirt and damn near fainted, his face flushed as he played with my pussy, and we had wild sex on the table. Unbelievable.

We've played waitress/customer roles maybe a half-dozen times since, drawing the scene out, longer play, different touches, reactions, and it's still amazingly sexy. One side effect is that eating out has taken on a whole new meaning for us, it's impossible not to experience a heightened sexual awareness during dinner.

From Anonymous
My partner came home from a shopping spree, and gave me a fashion show as usual which she knows I enjoy. I love seeing her so excited about the things she buys. One outfit was a short plaid skirt, with knee length socks to match. I got an instant hard-on, and I mean from soft to hard in what seemed like a blink, not something that happens very often at my age. My partner asked what's wrong, must have been the look on my face. I told her with braids and blouse, she'd look like a sexy-as-sin school girl.

To make a long story short, she showed up one day at my door in the same outfit, but decked out with her blouse buttons opened seductively, and no underwear, not even panties. God help me, I swear I was mindless with lust and we played out a coy school girl and strict teacher game that including spanking and blow job that damn near killed me with pleasure.

Never in a million would I have thought I'd be turned on by such a thing, never even fantasized the girl/teacher scene while masturbating. Partner willing, we will do it again soon I hope.

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