What Do You Prefer?

The tried & true, or new experiences

When given the choice during sex between doing something old (a favorite technique, the usual routine, whatever) or something new (never tried it before, new position, new location, etc.), which would you prefer?  You know the sure thing will ring your bell but you've done it so often it's become routine, while the new thing might be fun and exciting but might leave you without the big payoff.

So which do you choose?  Tried and true, or exciting but risky? —Helen

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From Mansa
My favorite is missionary position, him on top with my legs wrapped around his waist.The penetration and the sensation is much better. However this position is too challenging for him due to his weight and stamina problem. I also enjoyed sitting astride in his lap. I am about 10-11 inches shorter than him and when I sit in his lap, my breasts are at his face level, with nipples right at his lips.

As I slide on his organ in me, I have better control of pace and we both love it when he sucks my breast. The orgasm really lasts long. As an added bonus, I do not have to get off him right after orgasm, and he keeps sucking while I wrap my arms around his neck to pull him close while we recover from the activity. And he does not get tired in this position.

From Dianne
Nothing like a good spanking to get me ready! I don't want it to be rough but a good playful spank and when I'm getting it doggie style, slap my ass a few times. This is fantastic!

From DMH
My lover and I practice a mixture of new and old.  One of us will propose a fantasy and then we discuss the pros and cons.  We fine tune the fantasy until it is something we both find arousing and something we want to turn in to a real experience.  Sometimes it works perfectly and it becomes part of our repertoire.  Other times, it is not nearly as good in reality as it was in our minds.  If that happens, we just continue with our love making and start working on a new fantasy. 

Our love making is always varied.  We usually start by pronouncing how we want to have our orgasms.  She may say she wants me to make her come by inserting my fingers into her pussy and pressing against her G-spot while massaging her clitoris with my thumb.  I may say I want her to take me deep into her mouth and make me come against the back of your throat. 

Sometimes we ask each other to decide how we will come.  I like that method because it lets me know what turns her on.  We almost always start with oral sex, but we have a variety of techniques that we both enjoy and we usually mix many of them into one session.  When we have reached that point of no return, we usually announce we are ready. After she has had her fill of orgasms, she makes me very happy.

Recently, I posed the question, What would you do if we were at a motel and having failed to close the curtains properly, you noticed that someone was watching us make love?  I expected her to say scream or at least get up and close the curtains.  Instead, she said she would let them watch.  We discussed this idea over several months before we finally decided to get a motel room and see if we really had the guts to try our fantasy. 

After checking into the motel, I had her sit on the bed naked and I went outside to see just exactly how exposed we would be if someone walked by.  It was good news and bad.  Because of the sun light and the kind of glass in the window, a person walking by could see very little when looking into the room.  While that was disappointing, it also gave us the courage to leave the curtain open a good two feet and begin our love making.  I think both of us still thought there was a chance that someone might be able to see in the room.  That thought made our experience arousing.  Although several people walked by, no one stopped to stare so we assumed they could not see in.  We both found the experience exciting and will probably try again in the near future, and, at a different motel.

From Doug
I was married for 33 years.  Things just didn't work out well sexually between us.  Neither of us was pleased with our sexual relationship.  We were unable to ever repeat a successful and wondrous sexual experience, and they were few and far apart.

A new girlfriend changed everything.  It wasn't just because she was new. That would have stopped being the case years ago.  We have been together for 9 years now. Sex is great and getting better.  The things we learn that work well, we can repeat and improve on.  And yet things are always changing.  We have had to reach certain physical accommodations on both sides due to injuries and age.  Things keep getting better. We try to add a little something different each time, to go deeper into the mystical, to go deeper into feeling each other.

Because of the way we join my orgasm lasts as long as hers does, some minutes.  She is getting better and better at keeping me in the zone with her.  A five minute orgasm with her and under her control is incredibly good and intense.  It's so incredibly intense I don't know how to describe it but I know how to cooperate with her in doing it.  A simultaneous extended orgasm which we each try to keep going longer and longer.  A cooperation and a contest of ecstasy.

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