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imageWhen given the choice during sex between doing something old (a favorite technique, the usual routine, whatever) or something new (never tried it before, new position, new location, etc.), which would you prefer?  You know the sure thing will ring your bell but you've done it so often it's become routine, while the new thing might be fun and exciting but might leave you without the big payoff.

So which do you choose?  Tried and true, or exciting but risky? —Helen

"I read so many bad things about sex that I had to give up reading" —Anonymous


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From Jim
My wife has told me during sex that she wants me to dominate her. She enjoys light restraint, but not pain.

From Jeff
The feeling of penetration is something I treasure.  With my wife, we've had fewer occasions when we're both up to it.  It feels reassuring, confirming, just _right_ to have my penis inside her, and it starts wearing at me when it's been too long.

This morning was one of those times to treasure.  It ended up being a quickie -- they mostly are these days.  Very soon the stimulation of entering her was too much for me to hold back, so different than when I touch myself -- quicker and more powerful for me to reach climax even than when I might be in a hurry to masturbate.  Which is why we almost always work together to get her off first manually.  Today it was just perfect, warm wet softness around me, and I could tell I wouldn't last, it was one, two, three, a jolt of pleasure and a spreading wave of warmth across my body, then trying to hold my rhythm to bring her more pleasure till I couldn't any more.

Being welcomed inside her body by my wife, or by my lover, is a tangible vote of confidence and re-affirmation that I carry with me after every time I enter her.

Position and angle matter for stimulation.  Kneeling rear entry always works.  Missionary requires some pillow adjustment; without pillows, with my wife, it still mostly works, but with my lover, the angle just doesn't work for me.

One of my best memories was when my girlfriend (later my wife) and I tried anal intercourse.  It was such a beautiful surprise when she came when I was inside her -- a surprise for her, too -- so much so that I treasure the memory.  When I'm inside her for vaginal intercourse and she comes, I feel so happy.  I love watching her face and hearing her, feeling her move and tighten on my penis.

I have penetrated other men and been penetrated by them, but the excitement there seems more mental, more in the crossing-boundaries sense than the charge of physical and emotional affirmation I get with women.  But there's a different sort of affirmation there, kind of a closeness, a "hey look it's working!" feeling I guess, that I feel penetrating another man.  Never gotten to actually come that way, though.

From Mansa
My favorite is missionary position, him on top with my legs wrapped around his waist.The penetration and the sensation is much better. However this position is too challenging for him due to his weight and stamina problem. I also enjoyed sitting astride in his lap. I am about 10-11 inches shorter than him and when I sit in his lap, my breasts are at his face level, with nipples right at his lips.

As I slide on his organ in me, I have better control of pace and we both love it when he sucks my breast. The orgasm really lasts long. As an added bonus, I do not have to get off him right after orgasm, and he keeps sucking while I wrap my arms around his neck to pull him close while we recover from the activity. And he does not get tired in this position.

From Dianne
Nothing like a good spanking to get me ready! I don't want it to be rough but a good playful spank and when I'm getting it doggie style, slap my ass a few times. This is fantastic!

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