What Attracts Women Sexually?
Hint, it's not length...

For the ladies (I already know guys' answers): What attracts women sexually? What makes you willing? What flips the switch in your head to say 'I do not want to go to bed with this person' to 'let us go have wild monkey sex and make the beast with two backs.'   —Bad Dog

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From Scarlett Begonias
1. gentleman 2. tall 3. protector 4. dark skin  5.sense of humor  6. not addicted to anything (drugs, booze, other women, porn)  7. ok around family. 

From Nervicula
I was attracted to my current man by 1) his voice, deep and booming, 2) his height, I like them tall and/or thick, 3) his eyes that sparkle when he smiles, and 4) his caramel skin.  But, what he says many times turns me off completely. If he decides what I want to watch on TV is stupid, he gets nothing from me that day.

From Anonymous
Thank God we are all attracted by different things but for me there are some must haves. A really nice voice that makes me start thinking about sex immediately is lovely. Eyes are very important, a guy who has eyes that look right at me and make me want to just want to swim in those liquid pools of warmth makes me very hot.

Then there is the way that he moves. Men who have abrupt jerky ways of walking or moving are likely to carry that into the bed; no thanks. I like a man who moves with confidence, with cadence in his stride.

Of course there are the usual other things, nice tight ass, tall, (I'm 5/7) long slender legs and NOT FAT! When you get up to fifty, a bit of a belly is pretty much the norm so you can overlook that if the rest is all right but blubber is not attractive in either gender. Try to remember that when you are criticizing women.

A man with a sense of humor is a sexy man. period. A man who is interested in someone other than himself is also a turn on. Intelligent, well read, active, open minded: these qualities are very important also to me. Sex begins in the head.

From Helen
We are all in our sixties now, and while I don't know the full detail of our friends' sex lives, in the discussion with them around our dining table recently all the wives agreed that if we met a man at a party, above all we wanted one who was non-threatening, kind, gentle, not aggressive, preferably mid-thirties, good-looking, intelligent but not a show-off, nor dull, certainly solvent, his own place, and, yes, we all wanted him to have a big cock and be outstanding in bed. We weren't worried if he was married since we weren't looking for a husband, and we didn't appear to worry about his wife, we wanted a partner for theatre and concerts, not a life-long companion. 

So, in our ideal world, if we could chose our man, we wanted more than a fuck-buddy but nothing as big a commitment as marriage. Our men looked aghast, probably worried about what we wives might be getting up to while they are busy at work.

From Kate
I've always had a thing for fragile intellectuals, musicians, poets and philosophers. I realize with a certain amount of vexation that my ideal man may have been dead for quite some time. I speak of Voltaire, smart, witty, a tireless crusader against injustice, temperamental enough to be interesting, frail good looks and yet (from what I've read) an insatiable sex drive (well he was French). I wish his main girlfriend Emille had kept a more detailed diary! 

Not that I've given up hope for the current age mind. But Voltaire is the epitome of my ideal.

From Cathy
The 1st thing that comes to mind for me is a man that has defined muscles in his arms. I see myself holding on to them as he looks down at me. I like nice beards. Nails that are taken care of along with look neat. This is weird but it's something my father said to me. Shoes need to be polished. A man can be dressed in a suit but scoffed shoes will ruin it. My Dad felt if your shoes weren't good probably neither was the rest of you. I found most of the time it's true. 

I like long hair, mine is short. Though it's not visual a persons scent can get me crazy. I once smelled my girlfriends perfume in a store and followed it to see who it belonged to. I guess the whole visual package must agree with me. Then I can daydream about what it would be like to be with them.

From Melissa
A confident man will make my panties drop in a heartbeat. A man who oozes confidence by the way he stands, the way he talks, the way he touches me, and oh my god, by the way he looks at me. A confident man will look at you straight in the eyes. His gaze almost never leaves you.

Though I have a some bad news for you men. I think with confidence either you have it or not. It comes naturally and is not something you can fake.

From G
knows how to flirt
highly intellectual
has good sense of humour
KNOWS everything
can do tongue and lot of suckin
likes experimenting
looks/size/muscles don't matter much

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