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From Emma
Speaking as a college student honestly, if he had a killer body, a decent face, and was polite enough I felt like he was at least not disgusted by me and wouldn't act like a bastard afterwards, I would jump him.

From Debra
The short list is...

Personality: good sense of humor, and intelligence.
Looks: Lovely eyes, and a sexy smile.

Longer list... I love a guy who has good hair no matter the length, especially if he's tried out various lengths/styles, and manages to look hot. Facial hair looks good, but not on all men... I like a beard/mustache on rugged-looking/acting men, as long as it's not reminiscent of ZZ TOP. 

I like manly men, who are confident and just know they can please a woman. When he can goof off and have fun, but then turn around and be serious; that's sexy. 

I also like beautiful, strong hands, sexy shoulders and back, and a good stomach, even if it's not a six-pack. In fact, I have little interest in muscles, but some are okay, as long as he doesn't look as though he lives at the gym. I want him to have better things to do! 

He has to like animals and children, and care about the whole world, and not just HIS world. A guy who just looks like he's searingly sexual, is a turn-on. One who's curious and experimental, like me, and not boring. Quite frankly, a Gemini man! Just gimme a Gemini!

From Trixie
Chemistry - electricity - a touch is like 10,000 volts. Whispers naughty things, caresses gently and then builds as my my hunger increases. Understands that giving pleasure begets pleasure just as surely as love begets love. Lays cuddling me after the crescendo, making me feel loved and safe - floating in a sea of tranquility.

From Meri
Chemistry. It's either there or it's not. If it's there, it's so strong and in your face, it's like getting sucker- punched and by the time you actually do it, you're lucky if you can wait to get it behind closed doors. It doesn't take long to decide this. There's that magnetic pull, that magic, from second one. If it's real, your body knows almost before it gets to your mind. I don't think I've ever looked at someone I knew I wouldn't sleep with and changed my mind. If it doesn't work, it doesn't.

From Belinda
I can't speak for others but when I've had a half glass too much wine, it's cold and raining outside and I'm inside next to a log fire and talking about sex, I'm ready!

From Pat
Being willing is usually a state of mind that depends very much on the attitude of one's partner. If he or she is overanxious, and fumbles the offering, it's usually a signal that it lacks the finesse to be worthwhile. If he or she is too nonchalant, it tends to signal lack of interest to trigger merely an objective of the moment, and not really interested in "making love," but just having sex; it could be with anyone.

Most people prefer to have the experience, however casual, fit the situation and the person, show some skill in the fine art of appreciating the opportunity, albeit a difficult tightrope to walk, and often, too bothersome for many guys, a built in precaution for women.


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