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What do men want?Gentlemen: What do you want in a women—is it the bustin'-out-all-over look, or do you prefer a more sedate attire? Do you like aggressive women or do you want to make the first move? What does your ideal women do that is seductive, sexy, arousing? What about women in bed? Do you want them to take charge, or do you want to be the dominant one? Describe your ideal woman—in and out of bed.

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From Rob
A very smart woman who is physically active and adventurous in travel and sport etc - I do not mean sex here, we will get to that part. She should be confident and secure in herself, her life and her sexuality. She should be funny and love to laugh.

She should also be determined to live out her dreams and to help other to do the same. She should be full of life at any age and recognize the age is only a number and we define who we are by what we do not by how long we have been on the planet.
Sexually she should be adventurous and confident. Physically fit is important, not stereotypical beauty criteria lite large breasts, I do not like them anyhow. Sexually experienced is really important. She should know what she likes and be willing to explore more. Personally I like loose pussy and do not think that a tight one is any thing special. It just means it has never really had any experience.

From James
I have been wanting my wife to be more adventursome and daring. She has been very hesitant and mostly will only have sex in the bedroom. Every once in awhile she has shown the adventursome I desire. Once we were at a movie in the park during a summer and she started to run her hand up my thigh, under my shorts and started to rub my cock getting it nice and hard. On the drive home, she was so horny she started to give me a blow job. I stopped at a park and we jumped out and found a spot in the park, got naked, and started to give oral to each other and then started to fuck. We got run out of the park by the sprinklers when they came on and we made a run for the car naked. What an exciting experience to have her so daring.

From Vinayak
I love sex with strongly built, fair complexion, smiling face, little fleshy woman. I believe sex will be more pleasurable with fat woman as I can touch bigger area to touch & fondle, more warmth for my body parts. In short, sex will be pleasure with a fat woman. In addition if she is lactating, then I will be in heaven .

From Charles
What do I want in a woman? I think what I want most is just love. Good looks go with age and it takes a very special woman to make you look past these things to see her true inner beauty. Everything else about a woman, is just left up to fate, the things she dresses in, brand of cigarette she smokes, her favorite drink, it all comes down to how good she makes you feel and how much you are willing to give up just to be with her.

From Lonesome Star
The only thing a women needs is a working brain. But through the years I have find out that a real big clitoris is what excites me more then anything. I simply adore big ones. But it's so hard to find.

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