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From Sexman
The woman of my dreams wears slightly revealing clothes, and have a "so I'm in love with a geek! big whoop! wanna fight bout it?" kind of attitude. (for the record, I'm a geek. big whoop, wanna fight about it?) anyway,  she would make the first move because I like surprises in love. As far as dominant or submissive goes, I like it kinda in-between. Looks aren't the only thing I look for, but they're a definite plus. I also want someone compatible, that sees me for who I am. Lastly I want someone REALLY horny!

From Joe
That answer is a woman with a long tongue who knows how to deep throat a cock and loves the taste of cum. She should have long nipples, but small aureoles and breasts that are just big enough to fully envelope my cock when it is between them. She should have a shaved pussy with a pronounced mons, a clit that gets big enough to protrude from her lips when excited, a very tight pussy that gets slippery enough to squeeze my cock into even though it is very tight.

She should love being eaten and scream when she comes. She should moan when penetrated because of the pain/pleasure of her stretching. Sometimes, when she's really excited, she should pull my cock out of her and redirect it to her ass. This should be a very very tight fit, and the head of my cock, after much effort should pop in as she groans. Her anus should be so tight it pinches my cock head. After a long slow effort of insertion she should be very hot and soft inside and she should love the feel of me squirting into her butt. She should enjoy watching me come and love to fuck me with her finger(s) to massage my prostate and make me shoot harder. She should be exploratory and occasionally bring home another man or woman for us to share.

From nlj
Ideal woman - Anais Nin. On the outside short, quiet, mousy, prim. On the inside a feverish imagination that never sleeps. Particularly partial to the librarian peeking over their glasses scene you see in movies.

From Jvstin
1. Imagination Imagination Imagination. Be creative! Be unexpected! Even be outrageous! Keep me off guard, and my heart will follow you wherever you go.

2. Passive is bad. Don't meekly accept or decline my suggestions on what to do, where to go, what to see...from the movies to the bedroom. I hate people who do not think for themselves, who abdicate any desire to make the relationship a two way street.

3. Don't be Shy about your body. Sleeping naked together under warm comforters is incredibly erotic...just bare skin and body heat...

4. Physical Types. I'd be a liar if I said I didn't prefer certain things in women over others. So, to be blunt, while Gentlemen prefer Blondes, Jvstin jumps for Redheads. My favorite shade being somewhere between fire engine and a auburn...long hair is far as pubic hair, I am undecided. I admit that shaved means I am better able to use my mouth and hands there... A hint of cleavage is good in dress...but having it hang out is just tacky...perhaps because my fantasy woman does NOT have 50" breasts...long legs though, shown off, do make my mouth water...

From Phil
My wife has challenged me to write this and if you run it she'll read and promise to do her best to meet my wishes. Well, first, as I'm in my fifties when it comes to looks I can't do better than my wife, I love her heaps. She's same age as me, is slim, sexy and very attractive, very Jamie Lee Curtis. I wish she would wear nail varnish all the time, not just when we go out. I wish she'd wear a bit more make up during the day, not just when we're out. I wish she'd wear seamed stockings more often during the day, not just when we're out in the evenings, she's worn them a few times during the day and knows how she's impressed the men she works with. I wish she'd wear her ankle chain, she did for a long time but stopped a few months back. I love the new panties she's just bought (shorties?) in black and red lace but hopes she get some more like it. 

I hope she continues to suck me off and I'd like to say 'thanks' to her for some memorable bj's over the years and for swallowing every last drop of my cum every time. Last, I'd like her to stop shouting at me every time I suggest we have a MMF threesome, she should calm down and just consider without yelling and screaming what great fun it could be for both of us.

From Tom
I'm looking for a girl who's cute, breast size don't matter; I do prefer small ones I can cup and gently squeeze with my hands, nipples I can find. Not too overweight, nice firm butt. Likes to kiss. I've only been with 2 girls whose kiss caused fireworks and I love to kiss and caress her all over. I want a girl with the confidence to say, "This is what turns me on." A clit I can find. Have a little confidence girls I'm not the most attractive guy myself but I do like me and who I am.

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