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From Kelane
I love a woman who's nice to others as well as to me. She should be outgoing, not beautiful, I certainly don't need that, but sure of herself and her sexuality and strong in mind and heart. Now to the matter at hand. She must be very hairy, with the scent of a hot, juicy, and dripping wet edible pussy. Mmmm good! She can't be afraid to explore with me. And she must not be afraid to react loudly to the best pussy eating she has ever had. I truly love women and if given the chance I would rather be in the company of women for the rest of my life.

From Kay
I want a woman with a great, big, well-exercised brain; one who likes to talk and to read; who challenges me and is able, with her education and verbal ability, to put up a good argument if she doesn't agree with what I say. Hell, I expect *male* friends to be like that, too; why should I expect anything less from my woman? If I say something stupid, I want her to be brave enough to laugh in my face and call me a fool. If there's one thing I hate, it's a ditz who gives me a pretty smile and says yes, yes, yes, no matter what I say. That's a crashing bore.

A streak of sarcasm is very appealing to me, mostly because I have a rather large one myself; also, a sense of the absurd and ridiculous that can allow her to laugh at the bizarreness of life on this planet. A sense of humor goes without saying, and that includes being able to laugh in bed. I want her to be my best friend as well as my lover. Friendship is crucial.

From David
Ideally, even if she's shy, she's confident, but not cocky, in her sexual attractiveness. Her heels aren't ridiculous stilettos. Even if she doesn't think she'll be the hottest woman in the place, she wants me to feel that I'm with the hottest woman in the place. Physically, she's not skinny. She's big-boned, literally -- broad shoulders and hips, long legs for her height. That frame is covered with curvaceous flesh with at least some muscle, even if covered by some flab.

Sexually, she goes with her feel. She can be seductive or forceful, passively receiving pleasure or aggressively demanding it in a certain way. She likes receiving oral sex, but doesn't care one way or the other about giving it. She's multi-orgasmic and capable of great intensity during sex. At times, her intensity and depth make me shudder and wonder if I'm man enough for her. But I don't want to turn any of herself down. I want to become a better man for her.

From Peter
The perfect woman...well...assuming I am her perfect man... which makes sense because we would need to meld together in a special way. She would be smart and knowledgeable (not the same thing). She would probably have the same politics and ideas about religion that I have. She would love sex and would suggest things she would like to do that were a bit off the wall. She would have an incredibly sharp sense of humor. 

I like a woman with small breasts and nice curves. A great butt is a plus. But I would forgo that part to get the smarts and humor parts I mentioned. It would be so very nice if she was willing to try new things and situations sexually and otherwise. I would love to be able to talk to a woman who points out other women and compare notes about what she or I would like to do with that other woman. I would like her to look at men and think out loud about what it would be like to get fucked by him. I would want a woman who actively seeks to act out her fantasies and mine as much as can reasonably be attained.

From Jason
The things that turn me on about a woman are perhaps the things that are hardest to define. The first thing that attracts me is that sexy, confident quality. I dated an overweight woman a while back who "had a pretty face" and all of that, but was just so sexy because she was so confident and assured of her sexuality. I just stopped seeing a more conventional attractive girl because being with her just didn't make me feel like I wanted to pursue her physically, even though in other ways, we were quite compatible. So it's really attitude that matters.

For the most part, men don't care about birthmarks, or stretch marks, or the perfectly defined calf. We're even shallower than you think when it comes to looks, because what matters most to the men I know, and to me, is the right attitude, an eagerness to explore and share your body and the desire to find pleasure. In other words, we want you to come, too. If you figure out how to do that and decide to pursue it with a partner, that's the sexiest and most attractive thing you can do.

From Bill Travers
I want a slut. I want someone who is into porn like me, drinks, has an open mind and is totally open to sex. I'm always finding these "nice" girls, who are great, but my ideal woman is a woman who is willing to go to the mall with me in a mini-skirt and NO panties! A woman who not only hands me a beer when I come home from work, but one who will have one with me. I want to come in all of her holes and her to be open-minded about sex with others. Swallowing my cum and creampies. Her feet hves to be "model perfect", clean and well manicured.

Sounds like a whore huh? Well, yea, almost. I've had many prostitutes and they are a turn-on. Most men would agree. Any time a fine-looking woman is walking down the street in a 'mini' and 'fuck-me' shoes, men will break their neck to look at her. If a woman is out of shape - she will not get the nod. Plain and simple. She really needs pretty and slutty.

From Anonymous
Seriously - some of us men want a Stepford wife. Hands down. We want a woman who will do the things we want her to do - and not nag the hell out of us every time we turn around. No - I do NOT mean a slave, don't get me wrong. As far as sex, I personally want everything. Sex at work, sex in mommy's house and car, and sex with her sister.

From Mike
A woman who is a man! Don't get me wrong, by this I mean just mentally. She's strong, feminine, bossy, submissive. Sexy? ...and how; she'll take me as and when and I love it! She's smart and sexy and above all, as dirty as me...fantastic! Make no mistake, there's no substitute for a sexually strong and TOTALLY uninhibited woman!

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