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From T
He's dark skinned black man, broad shouldered with a sexy smile.  He has brains, character and he takes good care of his family.  I'm very attracted to him.  Just about everything about him turns me on. And to add to it all, he's a pro at eating my pussy!

From Acapella
What do I want? I want a man who is strong, commanding yet loving and caring. A man who will run his fingers through my hair and grab a hold of it. A man who will tease me, gently thrusting into me slowly, making me beg for more, gently playing with my vagina. A man who will spank me. A man who will lick me to the point of orgasm and then stop, teasing me again. A man who has cool eyes as he guides my head to his crotch. A man who takes my well being into account before doing anything. A man who will think of all kinky ways to punish me and use me and please me.

From Anonymous
On a non-sexual level, I suppose that I want all of the things any human wants—love, respect, security, fun, happiness, excitement. I like a man who thinks of me as his friend, who trusts and depends upon my earnest advice and wise counsel, as I depend upon his. I want all of the paradoxes of masculinity exposed—strength vs vulnerability—and enjoyed for what they say about his complexity, his intelligence and his heart. I want a spirited conversation, a good laugh and tender comfort when I'm feeling low. And I give the same in return.

Sexually speaking, I want a man who measures his masculinity by how well he pleases a woman, not how he competes with other men. I want a man who takes as much interest in my pleasure as he does in his own, one who equates his own ego in his ability to make a woman come like no other. I love to watch him come, I want him to love watching me too.

From Anonymous
Let's see...I want a man who is a man. To every letter of the word. Not that I am weak or incapable, but I love to know that my man can protect me and that he has the power and the attitude to take what he wants in bed. Nothing turns me OFF more then some one who is not confident in bed. Not to say that I always need to be ravaged, or "taken." But I will say that it gets me off knowing that ultimately he could have full control over me. I guess it must go back to the whole primal, raw, instinct thing. Because outside of the bedroom I would be pissed if a man tried to overbear me.

From Ebony
Honestly, I have always been attracted and extremely turned on by Asian men from Korea, China, Burma, Laos, Thailand, Indonesia, Japan or Vietnam. I love the dark sexy mysterious almond shaped eyes, silky jet black hair and smooth skin. Short, average or tall in height. Slim, medium or muscular build. Ones with accents or without accents- Doesn't matter. Asian men are HOT!

They make really great lovers and are really soooo good at foreplay, especially with licking the pussy and hitting all the erogenous zones on target! It's not so much the sex but the passion of their intense, dark eyes. I think that's so hot. I love being able to have intelligent conversations with men who can truly appreciate women for who we really are. An Asian man with a very ambitious personality is a definite turn on for me.

From Cat
In looks I like a man who is clean. That has taken care of his teeth. Curly hair, long or short. A disarming smile. Funny and sees my funny side. I like to see a man dressed to the 9's but he can't walk around like that all the time, so, running shorts and a muscle tee shirt. Of course this means a nice body. My favorite thing is arms with muscles. A man that doesn't drive like a maniac, doesn't overdrink and NO drugs. Romantic and that has many meanings to me.

A man (this is a big one) that could spent a week-end with NO electronics! Likes cats. Can cook even if only 1 dish. Can spend a evening on the sofa only kissing. Really knows how to give a massage. Who believes in some of my passions. That doesn't eat in bed. Make me laugh in or out of bed. Who can like and love me. Will make me feel like the sexist woman ever. And will let me do the same to him because he is. I've only had men in my life that have bits and pieces of this list. I would be surprised to find it all. But wouldn't it be nice? He'd be so happy to have me. I would give the same back to him.

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