When Porn Isn't Sexy

What are they doing wrong?

I would like others' views on When Porn Isn't Sexy—words of advice to porn makers on what they are doing wrong.

I'm personally turned off by the extreme close-ups. I want the camera people to back off so that I can see the limbs and muscles and curves of the performers. Turn off the constant groaning, especially by the woman when the man has pulled out for the trite pop shot. She's getting off because he's jerking off on her back or her face? And, for Pete's sake, get those hands out of the way. I don't want to see a woman clutching her tits; I want to see those glorious tits. I don't want to see her rubbing her clit; I want to see her mound and her navel and especially her spasming abdomen. I could go on, but you get the idea.

So, what do you think?  Is there anything about porn that you find to be a total turn-off?  Conversely, is there anything about porn that you find to be a turn-on?  And what could the porn film industry do to create better movies? —Anonymous

Pornography is the attempt to insult sex, to do dirt on it. —D. H. Lawrence

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From William Scape
I REALLY think we can do without the choking, excessive slapping a woman on her ass and the excessive moaning and groaning, hair pulling is okay if done tastefully.

Some actors don't know when to shut up. Guys, this is a porn movie not a talk show: keep it down, we don't need to hear you. I've had to sit there and listen to"what's your name? where do you live? how big are your tits? how much money do I have to pay you for....

I don't like the POV porn, I'm a traditionalist so I'd like to see the whole set rather than just one body part. I like one on one scenes, I HATE gang bangs, double penetrations or bukkake scenes, I refuse to watch those.I prefer to see more foreplay and kissing too.

Vivid Video and Wicked Pictures are my favorite studios, They do a good job of sticking with what works. Most of my movies at home are from them because of the quality they put into them, that's what will keep me buying their product.

From Chockie
My problem with porn today is that it has become more and more explicit and shocking and less erotic. Very often the backgrounds are just empty rooms with a sheet draped over a love-seat or sofa. There is no impression of a real setting. There is no ambience and the lighting and high-resolution don't leave much to the imagination.

Even the dialogue today is either poorly written or non-existent. And they try to make the content more and more depraved and filthy (like girls eating semen off of plates, from their ass, etc) This is not erotic, even to many males. And frankly, it's a little monotonous.

I find 70s and 80s porn far more erotic and entertaining. And there is sometimes even a plot. I also tire of shaved vulvas, fake tans, tattoos and navel rings.The girls of old porn looked more natural and softer (love a full bush on a vulva)

From Bobkit
The movie Theresa and Isabelle is the first sex film I watched in SF CA.  I was 16 at the time.  The movie is romantic, erotic, and very sexy.  I have been interested in lesbianism since my sister and her girlfriend, my other sisters, and my cousin were all bi.  The film does not show a lot of nudity and no "Oh fuck me with your big dick." etc.  I would have liked to seen some more nudity but that really didn't take away from the sensual.  If porn could move to more erotica instead of what they put out now they would make a lot of people happy.  However they make a lot of money doing nothing and they are boring.  I'm a guy.

I've seen my sisters fucking and I've seen girls having sex and I've never heard the noise that comes from porno.  The sex I've seen and enjoyed was/is fun and all, but why do the porno producers have to goof it up?  My wife prefers to watch women and guys in more realistic settings such as modeling and other stuff

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