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From Kelcalman
I like porn and I feel no guilt when I'm enjoying it. Today's porn is nothing like the sweet hairy pussy seventies. Porn back then was excellent and it made you want to fuck all day long. I have a problem with today's porn. Although I love to see the sex act between adults in a regular situation, I can't get with the raping, choking, slapping, and spanking of women. I'm not violent and I hate to see sex with violence, which has become way to common. It is not a turn on for me.

From William Scape
I really think we can do without the choking, excessive slapping a woman on her ass and the excessive moaning and groaning, and hair pulling. Some actors don't know when to shut up. Guys, this is a porn movie not a talk show: keep it down, we don't need to hear you. I've had to sit there and listen to"what's your name? where do you live? how big are your tits? how much money do I have to pay you for....

I don't like the POV porn, I'm a traditionalist so I'd like to see the whole set rather than just one body part. I like one on one scenes, I HATE gang bangs, double penetrations or bukkake scenes, I refuse to watch those.I prefer to see more foreplay and kissing too.

Vivid Video and Wicked Pictures are my favorite studios, they do a good job of sticking with what works. Most of my movies at home are from them because of the quality they put into them, that's what will keep me buying their product.

From Rose
For me, porn isn't even slightly sexy if it isn't done "artistically." And that means good acting (acting that doesn't look and sound like acting), good and appropriate music that isn't too loud, good cinematography (fades and soft focus and cuts that don't look like they were made with a bent hacksaw), and a plausible story line. Not asking for much, am I? In other words, I want a porn movie that is made with the same expertise as a Spielberg or Hitchcock film.

The one thing I find most disconcerting is when the woman, being fucked six ways from Sunday, is in the throes of ecstasy and she looks into the camera.  That takes me right out of the movie.  It's like she's looking at the audience and saying, "Are you watching?  How am I doing?  Are you randy yet, baby?

From Chockie
My problem with porn today is that it has become more and more explicit and shocking and less erotic. Very often the backgrounds are just empty rooms with a sheet draped over a love-seat or sofa. There is no impression of a real setting. There is no ambience and the lighting and high-resolution don't leave much to the imagination. Even the dialogue is either poorly written or non-existent. And they try to make the content more and more depraved and filthy (like girls eating semen off of plates, from their ass, etc) This is not erotic, even to many males. And frankly, it's a little monotonous. I also tire of shaved vulvas, fake tans, tattoos and navel rings.The girls of old porn looked more natural and softer (love a full bush on a vulva)

From Anonymous
What's with the shoes in bed?  How many women wear heels to fuck?  How many men find it a turn-on? All I can think of is ripped sheets....

From Anonymous
I have been reading all these comments and would agree with  most of the criticisms of porn movies .  Finding good porn movies is not easy  If porn stars were good at acting they wouldn't be doing porn.  Good actors might not be able to maintain an erection. 

I think German porn is the most unsexy I have seen; either like sexual gymnastics or with women who looked like the most sleezey tarts, with frightful hairdos, high heels, suspenders and stockings.  Certain directors and actors make better films; the French make good films, with a storyline and often some humour.  I agree that some of the best real turn on scenes I have seen were in non porno films or television (After 9pm ).

Porno is porno and you cannot expect to have the emotional love scenes and the raw sex.  I agree with those who prefer amateur sex films, with the neighbours wife, the milkman calls or the girl next door; people like ourselves as they really are, women with flesh that wobbles. 

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