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Relationships with age disparity are frequently mocked with snickering remarks. Often wealth and physical attractiveness are seen as more relevant then love. Sexually, it's noted that older people tend to have lower sex drives, and younger people tend to be sexually inexperienced. But, what is the reality? Do you have experience with younger/older relationships, and if so what is the reality—the good, bad, and ugly?

Men reach their sexual peak at eighteen. Women reach theirs at thirty-five. Do you get the feeling that God is playing a practical joke?  —Rita Rudner

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From Jack
I was not quite 18 years old when I had an affair with a co worker who was 21 years older than me and could put most 20 year old women to shame in the looks department. She was married and would not leave her husband so after 2 years,she broke it off. I still dream of her after 14 years! I am sure that is the reason that I am only interested in much older women. GOD, I miss her!

From Steve
I met my first wife at work. She was 42 and I was a not very experienced 26. I helped her move to the beach and when I was done I did not leave.  She proceeded to be the best lover I ever had. She knew how to please a man. She knew how to tell a man what she liked. She had oral skills that I have never seen since.

Our problem was her daughter who was only 7 years younger than I. Moved in with us as she was getting a divorce.   Caused our sex to decrease and things like having to be quiet in bed during sex and not being able to walk around naked or in my underwear in MY house pissed me off as I was very young and stubborn.  We got divorced when she was 48 and I was 32.  I miss her to this day. I got married again to a woman 3 years older than I.  Sex wasn't 1/2 as good. 

I settled and my advice to anyone would be NEVER settle.  It was only 6 years, but the best 6 of my life.

From Around The Bend
When I was 22 I got involved with a woman 44. She was wonderful, she was fantastic in bed and to me in every way. She also had a kid about 18 months younger than I living with her and everytime I selpt over, I kept fantasizing about the two of them. I wanted kids and I was falling in love with the daughter. One night in bed I called her by her daughters name as we were making love. That was pretty much the end of it. If we were closer in age, it might have worked out. No, I never did it with the daughter. I loved her mom too much. It was just a bad situation to be in.

Think twice. I would fuck an older woman and have since I was forty. They are the best lovers. I just don't want a mom.

From Anonymous
Don't! Do not go with a younger guy! I'm now 33 and she's 40. She's beautiful, and still looks great. But she wants marriage, she wants children and she feels time is going by - she fears it's too late, more and more... But I'm not ready to marry her - but please don't say that I'm not ready because I don't love her. I love her, but... it's early, my job, my career - I cannot marry now later yes - but she says she has no time!

From Ruby Red
An older man takes great delight in making his woman satisfied emotionally and sexually, my  lover is 64 and we can go 12 hours at a time. When you are younger it's about fuck 'em and leave 'em, then making babies, then experimenting with your sexuality and then getting divorced and going through the change and finding a man that can truly make love, satisfying every need  you have and fulfilling your desires without question. I cannot imagine having a toyboy 14 years younger, dragging him back from the pub to do that, oh and not forgetting maybe interrupting the football match too!

From June
Younger men fear rejection by females their own age. They reckon an older woman will not be so quick to rush to judgement or rejection. So, the more relevant question is - 'are older women easy?' I will own up, I probably am. I'm 52 this year and while I have my looks and figure (and sex drive) if the guy is good looking, great company and non-threatening, I will probably go to bed with him on a first date. 

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