Younger / Older Relationships

It's complicated...or is it?

Relationships with age disparity are frequently mocked with snickering remarks. Often wealth and physical attractiveness are seen as more relevant then love. Sexually, it's noted that older people tend to have lower sex drives, and younger people tend to be sexually inexperienced. But, what is the reality? Do you have experience with younger/older relationships, and if so what is the reality—the good, bad, and ugly?

Men reach their sexual peak at eighteen. Women reach theirs at thirty-five. Do you get the feeling that God is playing a practical joke?  —Rita Rudner

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From Ken
My first sexual experience was with a woman 9 years older than I. This woman taught me many things. My first experience started when myself and two other friends decided to stay at another friend's house for the weekend, his parents had gone away. The only stipulation, his married, older sister would be there to make sure nothing out of the ordinary happened. We were all pleasently surprised when the very first evening she informed us that she was going to teach us the fine art of strip poker. The game lasted until all had lost their clothes by then it was after one in the morning. We all gathered our belonging and went to separate bedrooms to sleep. I had showered, and masturbated and lay on top of the sheets on that summer night, thinking about the sister and her adventurous spirit.

That's when I heard the door open. It was quietly closed and locked. I glanced at the shadow by the door, it was the sister and I lay still on my stomach, my legs spread apart wondering what would happen next. That's when I felt her crawl onto the bed and up between my legs. And that's when I felt for the first time a woman's tongue explore me. As I said before, she taught me many things and many ways that I have carried into my adult years. One of the best...multiple orgasms by both parties can bring you to enjoy a beautiful sunrise together..so yes, the experience of an older partner can be very rewarding.

From Eric
A few years ago I was the younger man involved with an older woman.  I was 19, she was 32.  We each pursued the other. This pairing was not planned.  We were not trying to be "hip".  It simply was two people who shared much in common, shared similar views on life, and happened to be extremely physically attracted to each other.  We did not allow a minor issue such as age get in the way.

People sometimes make assumptions about relationships such as ours. " It's about money".  Nope.  We were BOTH broke at the time.  I always paid on dates, and never asked for any monetary assistance.  "It's about sex".  Well, mostly no.  I'll admit, the sex part of our relationship was off the hook!  She had no inhibitions, loved to fuck anytime, any place , and was extremely generous when it came to complimenting me in regards to my body and my sexual ability.  She made me feel like a regular "Don Juan".  Is that so wrong?  Believe me, I more than returned the favor in that regard.  She was out of sight in between the sheets.

I just find older women more attractive for various reasons.  I'm currently involved with a girl of similar age, but I definitely would date an older woman again based on past experience.

From Anonymous
Don't! Do not go with a younger guy! I'm now 33 and she's 40. She's beautiful, and still looks great. But she wants marriage, she wants children and she feels time is going by - she fears it's too late, more and more... But I'm not ready to marry her - but please don't say that I'm not ready because I don't love her. I love her, but... it's early my job, my career - I cannot marry now later yes - but she says she has no time!

From Mary
Amazing that no one has mentioned the issue that is surely foremost in younger/older long term commitments. So your guy is 15 or so years younger, that means when you're 65 and those wrinkles and aging issues start creeping up, your guy is 50 and in his prime. Uh oh, it's hard enough growing older, but standing next to a younger man looking oh so fabulous, it does make it difficult to feel self-confident and attractive when you're looking like his mother rather then his lover or wife. A fling with a younger guy - sure, why not. But a long term commitment, better think long and hard about that. 

From Jane
In porn, we hear a lot about MILF (Mothers I'd Love to Fuck), and Cougars (older women staking young men). But there's little about older men and young women, and too often it borders illegal lines of child porn - old men lusting after pre-teens. However, in real life, it's the experienced older men that rocks, sexual and financially. I'm dating a man 20 years my senior. He thinks I'm wonderful, he treats me like a goddess, he's financial secure, and sexually he pays more attention to my sexual satisfaction than to his dick. What more could a women want?

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