Younger / Older Relationships

What are the Expectations?

Okay...so it finally happened. I met a guy and after a few dates, I finally managed to put a stop to the re-growth of my virginity.

This fella is only 34 - ten years younger than me. He's been married, had a typical number of lovers and seems open-minded and aware enough. The foreplay was great, but he was very passive once we got around to actually doing the deed.

This really troubled me, so I mentioned it to an online friend who happens to be male, and he said face it... as this guy is so much younger than me, it's inevitable that he's going to expect me to take charge and be the aggressive one.

So, I'll put it out to you all. Is it inevitable (or at least fairly predictable) that a guy 10 years my junior will expect an older woman to take charge?  And what about younger women and older men, what are the expectations?  —Anonymous

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From Iris
First of all, I want to say that I love hearing everyone's stories and experiences and preferences. I really enjoy the sexy honesty that people show on this site!

The past six months I've been in a relationship with a man 11 years older than I am (I'm 28, he's 39). When I met him, I wasn't sure how old he was and thought he was a few years younger. By the time I found out how old he was, I was too smitten for his age to affect how I felt about him. I don't know whether it would have changed anything to know his age.  I felt instantly like I'd met someone who already knew me; almost as though we were siblings (minus the intensity of our sexual attraction). I know that it sounds strange to describe it that way, but I have a level of comfort and love for him that I only have with family members.

From Franco
I like women of all ages. She could be 20, 25, my age, which is 40, or older. But I must say that throughout my life, I have always found women of older age to be very attractive and sexy. Now when I say older, I certainly don't mean that any age is "old." When I was 21, I was involved with a woman who was 36. At 21, 36 to me was so much older. We were parked in her car one day, and our fooling around led to me getting my first ever blow job. When she took my cock in her mouth and started doing her thing, that was the best. I didn't know that could feel so good. And she knew exactly what she was doing and how to please.

When I was 28, I was involved with a woman who was 48. She was so hot and attractive. And her tits had to be entertained for hours. They were big, and I sucked, and licked and kissed them. And she would suck my dick in such ways that I was speechless. And it was a pleasure to eat that yummy pussy of hers. And when she would come, I would drink up those pussy juices. Again, yummy. And of course the fucking. Oh what a feeling it was to fuck her hard and fast. And when she got on top of me and fucked me, we went on for hours.

I'm 40 now, and I find women in their 50's to be very sexy. And I hope that I would be lucky enough to make love to a sexy woman in her 60's. There is a woman I have recently met, she could be 60 something. I don't really know her, but she is hot, and boy would I love to just fuck her pussy, um hmmm.

There is just no such thing as being "too old". Women of all ages are sexy and know how to please. But sometimes it can be hard to find a woman in her 50's or 60's who want to be with a much younger guy. What do women think? Are there women in their 50's, 60s who would want to be with men in their 40's (or other ages for other men who might be asking).

From Anonymous
I'm 22 yrs old and my husband is 44. In spite of the age difference I enjoy having sex with him. He never lets me wear bra when at home. He loves to see my nipples pointing out ready to be sucked.He loves watching me skip topless.We have sex at least 2 times a day. I'm glad that my husband has satisfied my sexually.

From Anonymous
I have been with a large amount of girls/women that are younger than me and only a couple that are my age/older. I recently married my 18 year old wife. I met her on the day following her 17th birthday. There is something about a younger woman's skin that drive's me crazy.

With all my older women I was able to go and go until I was ready to come. With younger women I almost feel I am going to explode before I get inside. I spend a lot of time going down on my wife and have even came on myself while eating her out several times. The smoothness and tightness of young skin is the greatest feeling in the world.

From Anonymous
I lost my virginity when I was 21 to a 54 old woman. She was so sensitive and hot. She taught me the lust of sex and we had much pleasure. Even I am married now with a wife 5 years older than I, I still have encounters with older women. It's fun and good for my wife and our lust

From Alfred
In 1995 my wife and I retired early in our fifties and relocated from the UK to the Algarve. We lived initially in a hillside village but moved closer to the coast. It was much hotter and I suggested to my wife that as she had a slim figure and shapely legs she should start wearing mini skirts. At first she was very reluctant feeling she was too old for short skirts. But I was very keen and she cautiously bought two from a local shop.

Six months later she had a full wardrobe of mini skirts and a group of very keen young men, all Portuguese locals working in bars, clubs and restaurants, who were only too pleased to take her sailing, windsurfing, hang gliding, nude sunbathing as well as the non-tourist night clubs.

That summer my golfing handicap improved considerably and thanks to her experiences with her young men, my wife became a very horny lady and our own sex life entered a very torrid and satisfying period that continues today.

From Robert in Euless
Wow, I cannot believe I haven't responded to this topic sooner. Thanks to all those that have posted their experiences before me. It was an absolute pleasure to read each and every one. Older/younger has always been very important to the development of my own sexual choices.

Through elementary school my girlfriends were of my own age or younger. Early on, I discovered that I much preferred older women for my exploration. Although I lost my virginity at 14 to a slightly younger woman, I fooled around frequently with older women: my sister's friends, the young college women at the neighborhood pool during the summertime (located on a college campus) and cheerleaders attending the national cheerleading camp held on that site each summer. When I was 14-15, the average age of my sexual partners was 20-24. When I was 20-24, the average age of my sexual partners was 35-55. I did date the occasion female that was my age or younger, but only until something older and better came along.

I remember all of them with fond memories and am now engaged to a woman that while only 6 months older than me (I'm 42 now), they prepared me very well for someone only slightly older, but of far less sexual experience. They gave me the training and confidence to bring a brighter day to someone nearer my own age, but with very limited sexual experience. She had one partner from a young age before marrying someone 11 years her senior, then following her divorce had only a handful of partners around her some age before we met. What a combination--she's now coming into her sexual peak, but she has a slightly younger partner with a wealth of experience.

From Lyle
With ageing grizzlies like me and my wife looking slim, healthy and being very active, specially being as sexually active at 60 as we were at 30, we have both had younger people wanting to experience sex with us.  It's almost as if by having sex with us we will pass on to them some magic element that will keep them young, active and sexy through their years getting older.

So far, the sex we've had has been very enjoyable. For her part, my wife says that with most of the younger men she has partnered she has felt very much like a sex therapist, each of her young men learning much from her, and the experiences fortunately being of great benefit in our own lovemaking.

From Tim
My first blowjob was by a woman probably 20 years older than me. I was 16 at the time, my mom wasn't home and her friend came over to swim in our pool. I always though she was very sexy and she always flirted with me when my mom wasn't watching. She wore very revealing swimsuits and I couldn't help but get an erection.

I saw her glancing at my bulge and she came over and laid down beside me and started rubbing it. One thing lead to another and she took care of the situation. I was in HEAVEN! She made it perfectly clear that it was our secret and I never told anyone until now.

I had sex with her only a few times and she had to move for her job. I lived every boy's fantasy with her and I think about her often. I think the encounters with her strengenthen my confidence with women and I really think its a good thing for most boys if they have similar experiences.

From Anonymous
I met a man age 39 and I am 48...we both were looking for intimacy at the time we met and he is quite mature for his age. I feel because I was naive and he was more knowledgeable in sexual pleasures, we have been able to connect mentally and sexually. (opposites do attract)

I do agree that after a certain age (and maturity does count) when two people come together and find overwhelming chemistry, personality connection and can satisfy the desires mentally and sexually between each other they are a team and age is no longer a factor. We are good friends with benefits and I know we will be there for each other thru whatever changes occur in our lives.

He has taught me things of a new generation that I needed to know to be completely sexually satisfied. I have showed him the nurturing attention that he has not received in his love or sex life that he longed for.

Although neither of us plans a serious commitment other than friendship it surely was not something either of us will regret. We both share in each others wants and common views on sex, we are both compatible in personality and share in each others personal lives from afar...this has been something for us both that has been nothing but pleasurable and satisfying in many ways. We have made a bond between each other that possibly neither of us will ever share with anyone else in our lives. It is inspiring to have such a person in your life and although sex without commitment to some may not sound proper, it has enhanced both of our lives as individuals. It has given us both memories that we will alone share forever.

I personally believe the difference in age has helped this type of relationship work. Don't know that it could last this way as long as we live but I do know that we will always be connected and always be friends even after the benefits end.

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