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From Anonymous
I am 48 now I met my partner 5 years ago, she is now 23yrs. When we first met there was some carry on and everyone was wondering. We are serious I have not been happier. When we met she pulled all the strings and was the instigator. I am happy now, at first I thought this was one of those fantasy girls and she was grave digging, it turns out I am not the cradle snatcher after all. Our families accept us and my children middle teens enjoy her company. More in common music and computers. I am happy all the time, she is mature beyond her years and is a great home body. 

Our sex life has always been great, when we first met it was unreal. I couldn't quite believe I had actually gone out with someone 25 yrs my junior. She had just finished high school and was starting university the next year. I had a brief doubt when I had to go to her 21st with all her friends but they all liked me and had later insisted I wasn't as old as I said. I am sexually active and have a great sex life with her. 

From Anonymous
Why would an older woman want to seduce a younger man? I'm surprised that question is even being asked. Younger men are in their sexual prime and appreciate older women simply because older women are not "silly." We know what we want and that's not whether they have a car to take us to the Mall. We have our own car, our own homes, our careers, etc. We aren't hung up on, "will you love me tomorrow?"

Some men my age have erectile dysfunction, a bad attitude about women their age, pot bellyies, high blood pressure, poor hygiene, and the list could go on. They are the ones who want a young, stick thin girl! I'm just stating facts folks, based on my experiences. I have seduced two younger men and the sex was incredible and they were sooo appreciative. One when I was 33 and he was 21 and the latest, he's 23. He's got a beautiful body and an open mind.

From Ken
My first sexual experience was with a woman 9 years older than I. This woman taught me many things. My first experience started when myself and two other friends decided to stay at another friend's house for the weekend, his parents had gone away. The only stipulation, his married, older sister would be there to make sure nothing out of the ordinary happened. We were all pleasently surprised when the very first evening she informed us that she was going to teach us the fine art of strip poker. The game lasted until all had lost their clothes by then it was after one in the morning. We all gathered our belonging and went to separate bedrooms to sleep. I had showered, and masturbated and lay on top of the sheets on that summer night, thinking about the sister and her adventurous spirit.

That's when I heard the door open. It was quietly closed and locked. I glanced at the shadow by the door, it was the sister and I lay still on my stomach, my legs spread apart wondering what would happen next. That's when I felt her crawl onto the bed and up between my legs. And that's when I felt for the first time a woman's tongue explore me. As I said before, she taught me many things and many ways that I have carried into my adult years. One of the best...multiple orgasms by both parties can bring you to enjoy a beautiful sunrise yes, the experience of an older partner can be very rewarding.

From Eric
A few years ago I was the younger man involved with an older woman.  I was 19, she was 32.  We each pursued the other. This pairing was not planned.  We were not trying to be "hip".  It simply was two people who shared much in common, shared similar views on life, and happened to be extremely physically attracted to each other.  We did not allow a minor issue such as age get in the way.

People sometimes make assumptions about relationships such as ours. " It's about money".  Nope.  We were BOTH broke at the time.  I always paid on dates, and never asked for any monetary assistance.  "It's about sex".  Well, mostly no.  I'll admit, the sex part of our relationship was off the hook!  She had no inhibitions, loved to fuck anytime, any place , and was extremely generous when it came to complimenting me in regards to my body and my sexual ability.  She made me feel like a regular "Don Juan".  Is that so wrong?  Believe me, I more than returned the favor in that regard.  She was out of sight in between the sheets.

I just find older women more attractive for various reasons.  I'm currently involved with a girl of similar age, but I definitely would date an older woman again based on past experience.

From Dangerous Bill
Why would an older woman seduce a younger man? Let me reword that for you: Why wouldn't an older woman want a young, virile, muscular man with hair who doesn't need Viagra and who is more likely to adapt himself to her needs? A lot of older men come with pot bellies (blush), wrinkles, stodgy attitudes, a TV habit, no hair, and limp noodles. Women, on the other hand, are more likely to keep their weight down, exercise, read Cosmo and other sex manuals, and mix socially. Some hormone replacement therapies turn middle aged women into sex machines (ask my wife the Warrior Queen).

Plus, there are more widows than widowers as time goes on. In Green Valley, a senior development near Tucson, the over-fifty women are renowned for participating in obsessive exercising, dieting, belly dance lessons, and all those other good things, as part of the fierce competition for the relatively small number of available men.

I know that all the way from pubescent youth to my current geezer-hood, I've appreciated women of all ages. In fact, women from their forties on up are vastly more interesting and experienced than bubbly teenagers or career-bound twenties.

From Tim
My first blowjob was by a woman probably 20 years older than me. I was 16 at the time, my mom wasn't home and her friend came over to swim in our pool. I always though she was very sexy and she always flirted with me when my mom wasn't watching. She wore very revealing swimsuits and I couldn't help but get an erection. I saw her glancing at my bulge and she came over and laid down beside me and started rubbing it. One thing lead to another and she took care of the situation. I was in HEAVEN! She made it perfectly clear that it was our secret and I never told anyone until now.

I had sex with her only a few times and she had to move for her job. I lived every boy's fantasy with her and I think about her often. I think the encounters with her strengenthen my confidence with women and I really think its a good thing for most boys if they have similar experiences.

From Anonymous
At the moment I'm dating a guy 17 years younger than me. Did I have to seduce him? No way! He was the one who chased me and didn't want to give up. He's not ugly, he's not a geek (well, a little, in a very sweet cute way), actually he's so good looking he takes my breath away. His body is a divine work of art. If you ask him why he is with me, he'll just laugh. He's used to these questions and doesn't give a s*it, though we look really good together and no eyebrows are raised. The chemistry is so evident it can't be hidden. Just know, not every woman in her forties is a fat slob who sits home all day. Many are cool, sexy, intelligent, amazing women.

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