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From Guy
I may be past the age for benefitting from cockrings now at 78yrs . I bought a copper one many years ago that circled my whole scrotum, supposedly to create a mild electric current. I didn't really achieve anything from it.

After a heart attack earlier this year and now taking medicine that prevents the use of Viagra; I bought a penis pump and silicone cockring. The pump creates a lovely erection, but sadly it subsides as soon as the vacuum is released. The cockring does create a really hard erection with maximum girth and swollen head. Unfortunately it causes a minor bruising, where a small amount of blood escapes in just one spot under the skin.  I tried using it for sex, but in the missionary position my cock deflated. I think it may be good with my wife riding me on top, will try that next time .

From Eric
They really work.  It can be uncomfortable to wear them at first, but I got used to that pretty quick.  The only problem now, is it makes my dick to big for my current girlfriend. 

From Ralph
My wife and I tried the Tri-O jelly cock ring with vibrating bullet on my shaft for her and another bullet with around my balls. WOW! I slipped on my sheer silk bikini with my balls jutting out pushing against the thin fabric.  After stripping me naked she proceed to rub herself against my bulging sac riding me while circling my nipples. I was able to keep the ring the whole time as most times you have to rip the ring off to come.  She kept  calling my cock enormous.

From Eric
I recently rediscovered cock rings.  I had some buried away in my dresser drawer, and I broke them out for the first time in a while.  I had forgotten how pleasurable oral sex was when wearing one.  I use what's probably the most basic variety.  They are called "Nitrile Cock Ring".  I like them because they are very flexible with a snug fit, but not so constricting where they become uncomfortable. I can slide them on pretty easily, although I do wait until I'm fully erect.

Once on, and I feel like I'm sporting a steel pipe! My head swells up to probably twice it's normal size and is extremely sensitive to the tongue. Since the type I use are stretchy and flexible, it doesn't hinder ejaculation in the least. Most of my experience with the rings is for use during oral, but I am definitely going to utilize them in the future during intercourse.

From Concrete69
I bought the silicone tie type cock rings and love them. It helps keep my cock like concrete and makes sex greater than ever. My wife loves it and it makes me feel like I'm in my  twenties again. Definitely recommend them!

From Bob
I'm surprised no one has mentioned that just wearing cock rings for the walk-around feeling is worth the investment! I bought chrome-plated rings from a hardware store, intending to wear them simply as a jewelry item in a very special place. But I have since wanted heavier and bulkier rings simply to add to the feeling of presence down there. Weight swinging around down there is foreplay! Trouble is, now I have to think about how to keep them on when "Fred" shrinks when I'm out and about. A cock ring clanging across the floor while I'm shopping at K-Mart just doesn't seem so sexy!

From Cecily
I bought my husband a flexible cock ring with clit vibrator for Valentine's Day. Boy, do these ever rock! This one was super flexible, fitting around his balls and cock and gave him the hard-on of the century.  When he slipped his cock into my pussy, it was like granite and he lasted a long time. The extra clit stimulation was glorious. I like a nice deep fuck, but the way he and I align doesn't usually give me much clit action. I asked him to vary his stroking, since I like full-length strokes where he almost totally pulls out, but quickly plunges back in. On those strokes, the cock ring's clit stimulator hit the mark each and every time. As he gets closer to coming, he and I like him to fill me up nice and deep, so at that point my clit was getting almost 100% vibration which sent me through the roof. When he finally came, I felt him ejaculate against my cervix since his head was super engorged. Loved it! Afterwards, he stayed in me a while with the clit vibrator bringing me to the moon yet again. We've repeated this experience several times since, with similar results. A real lady pleaser!

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