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From Dave
I've used a variety of cock rings for years. The pressure they create heightens my orgasms. Lately I've come to prefer a simple adjustable leather strap around my cock and balls. Masturbation is more intense and my wife likes to have the strap hit her clit during intercourse. The extra pressure on my balls makes it fantastic. For safety sake, I loosen it frequently to let some blood circulate. With some lube and a little common sense I can maintain an erection for several hours. The resulting orgasm is more like an explosion.

From Daniel
Yes, cock rings are beneficial. The notion that "she" must be willing to have you use one certainly adds to the passion and orgasms. We use a vibrating one called the "clit flicker". The "clit flicker" has a protrusion that looks like a small tongue. The "tongue" hits her clitoris and helps bring her to more intense orgasms. She says the vibrations are great for her during intercourse. The vibrations also help stimulate my penis and my orgasms are also much more intense. This "clit flicker" at first looks huge and cumbersome. But, after several times and learning to use baby oil or lubrication, we learned how to use it properly. We will definitely try more "vibrating" cock rings. Do we use it all the time? No. But when those times occur when we would like to be a little bit more passionate and need some extra sexual release the "clit flicker" helps. 

As one woman stated "a good tongue is the best," my wife hardily agrees but the use of cock rings certainly add an additional bit of spice when one is desired. The wrong one might be torture but the right one is certainly a very good tool.

From Don
Adding my experience here. I've used cock rings for years and have been assured by doctors and nurse practitioners that such is totally safe. (I can imagine that if worn tightly for hours they could be a problem, but, I chuckling, recall the Viagra ads that say an erection lasting four hours is a problem. Like don't we wish!) The only functional ones I have found are described all through this string, i.e., ones that go around the base of the cock and under the balls. Adjustable Cock Rings work best for me. Although I have also used steel rings. Steel rings are on there until one gets soft enough the 're-thread' ones balls back through them, which even after orgasm can be several minutes. I have successfully used leather rings adjustable via a series of snaps, and rings adjustable via velcro links. The velcro ones are vastly superior IF their design is such that the rougher velcro does not irritate your partner, or self (rough velcro under shaved balls can be distracting as hell). 

As indicated throughout this string: Good Cock Rings really enhance an erection and help keep it a long, long time. With 50mg of Viagra the erections can be stupendous! Said erectile enhancement extends to the head which can get ever so full. The key word is 'good'. Do not be afraid to shop around and try out many. They are inexpensive. If you can swallow any homophobia you have I have learned that men running gay bookstore/sex shops are knowledgeable consultants. No they will not 'hit' on you. They are there to sell a product not to find sex partners. 

For the record I have had rings on with an erection for up to at least an hour and a half. More than enough for almost any sexual activity I can imagine. One thing one might expect when rings are tight is what is called a 'retrograde ejaculation'. It results from the ring stopping, or diminishing the flow of sperm as your orgasm spasms. Instead the sperm backs up into your bladder, to be voided the next time you pee. Not a concern, unless you want to display a big manly load. If the latter is the case, use an adjustable ring, and get it off as you start to skim that cum.

From Brutus
I have used many styles of cock rings for about 15 years (I am 64), usually for 20-40 minutes at a time; which is the typical time range suggested by my medical folk. The only pain or discomfort I have had was in the beginning when one got wound up in my pubic hair; I stared shaving. I have only used them during sex (intercourse/oral/anal) and loping my mule; never wearing one around during the day as some previously noted (I would be interested in any insight on wearing one thru the day. Do you wear them much looser?).

In using cock rings I have found them to provide harder, longer lasting erections and an increased sensual feeling to touch of any kind on my cock. I use the standard rubber or silicon shaft ring, double rings, ball & cock ring, various ones with clit and pucker string stimulators and combinations of the foregoing. Obviously the ones I lean to the most are the ones with a combination of the best fit, best feel for my wife and lest complicated to get on. A long time ago I started carrying a Ringo (cheap shaft type ring) in my pocket in case my wife and I are somewhere we have the chance to have spontaneous sex outside or in an interesting location.

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