Forced Fantasies

One of our featured gallery stories sparked the most heated debate about forced fantasies. The story was an explicit description of a rape fantasy. Some felt that the story fell within the prohibited range of what is deemed acceptable, in that it contains scenes of anal rape. Others felt that it was a good portrayal of a masturbatory fantasy. We are interested in what you have to say about forced fantasies.  —Lybbe

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From Mary
I've thought a lot about rape fantasies because I have them, even though I've worked with rape victims and been confronted with the ugly reality which I would never want. So, I ask myself, what gives?

The conclusion I've reached is that it's all about ambivalence. There are things about men and sex I like and things I don't. When I'm feeling really conflicted, "yes" or "no" both feel like the wrong choice because I want it but I don't, and either way, some part of me is going to be left out. Whatever choice I make is only owning half of my ambivalence. With a rape fantasy, I get to own both parts of me, I can get fucked and say "no" both.

This is actually a little like a real life situation I find incredibly erotic, when a guy sort of gets in my space and puts his hands on me without asking. Not in a boorish or insensitive way, he'd totally back off if I said "no." But he doesn't actually ask, so I don't have to say "yes," either.  It's like I don't have to decide, because he's doing all the work. I get to be all of me, the part that wants it and the part that doesn't. And, just like in a rape fantasy, I often find that I really like it.

I hasten to say that this is completely different from actual rape, in which there is an un-ambivalent "no," which is being ignored.

And I also add that there are times when I'm really clear about what I want or don't, and I'm very good at saying "yes" or "no" when that's the case. Sadly, not every woman is.

From Fiona
One fantasy I have that has served me well, though I wish I knew why, was that I am in charge of administering a punishment to two bullies after they've been tugged for tormenting some of the other children. Sometimes, in my fantasy, I'm a headmistress, other times, it's vague. Perhaps I'm in the constabulary or some other government service where there is a strict hierarchy.

Regardless, the punishment is to be off the books and is invariably a bare-arsed thrashing.

It involves two young men, to keep it clear I'll call them A and B. I'm going to thrash A but tell his conspirator, B, that he can make it easy on A. B kneels and the sooner he can bring off A with his mouth, the shorter the whipping will be.

Sometimes the idea is that we stop to tickle their balls in case the hard-ons get lost or I show them my breasts.

Eventually, A is forced to come in his friend's mouth while he gets walloped. Sometimes I'm administering the punishment 'in my head' and other times I'm a third-party observer. Sometimes I'm in the heads of the boys being punished. What ever, it makes me wet my pants.

When it's B's turn to get his licking, I reverse the order and have him bum A. Reluctantly, he spears his friend and the punishment begins. Not so hard in either case that the erections are lost. We taunt A and ask him to flex his rectum to help bring off B.

From Leo9
I have had to deal with the difference between fantasy and reality the hard way, in a court of law.

Some ten years ago, for complicated reasons, the police took an interest in a website I ran about my BDSM life.  It became pretty clear that they imagined they had found some kind of rapists' club: and when they finally had to accept that everything I described was consensual and legal, they had to scratch around to charge me with something or look like fools.  (The same reason the Spanner men were charged, if you recall that far back - the police in that case thought they were onto a snuff ring!)

So they charged me with Obscene Publications (UK law) for some rape-and-torture stories I'd written.  The magistrate who first looked at it simply went "Disgusting, guilty!"  But the Appeal Court judge actually considered the meaning of the Act - "Tending to deprave and corrupt" - and ruled that, since the stories were all clearly fantasy and flagged as such, nobody would think I was realistically advocating such behaviour.  Therefore they would not influence people to behave badly, therefore even though he found them distasteful himself, he couldn't say that they would "tend to deprave and corrupt".  Case dismissed.

From Emma T
I'll echo the comments below and say that I'm another woman who enjoys male rape fantasies. [see Malmuirie's entry below] My own particular take involves Viagra rape. In my fantasies, an unsuspecting victim is given that drug and cannot stop his erections.

Delicious variations include the faithful married man tied down so that I or my fantasy substitute can have my/her fun with the victim, or a straight male forced  into penetrating other men because the drug keeps him hard irrespective of his actual hetero preferences.

That last one is really hot.

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