Losing Your Virginity
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From Berlin
My first time was amazing. I am 18 but at the time I was 17. The guy I lost my virginity to was 22 at the time. I have known him for 3 years now, we live in different cities but I go visit him a whole lot!

He is tall, hot and very experienced. The first time we had sex, I was a bit drunk, but that was part of the plan. I went out with some friends before hand and we drank a bit too much. After that, my friend and I went to his place because her boyfriend was going to be there and she knew I had a huge crush on Danny. I was looking forward to that all night and when we finally got to his place I got a little scared. I wasn't sure I want to lose my virginity to him because I knew his girl friend very well (we were best friends our freshman year but when she found out that I had a crush on the same guy she did, she stopped talking to me) that really didn't matter to me that much but it was playing in my head the whole night. 

When we got to his place we sat down to watch a movie and my friend asked if i could go get her a soda from the kitchen so i got up and Danny followed. It was really weird for me because he just came up to me without saying any thing and began to touch me and kiss my neck. I just let things happen, after a while I didn’t eve notice that I was naked in his kitchen! To begin with, I had never been fingered or tried oral so when his huge cock started to come into me, I grabbed his shoulders as hard as I could and he realized I was a virgin. After that, he became much more gentile and he came inside me really slowly. I can’t say I enjoyed him inside of me but I loved the fact that I lost my virginity to my dream boy.

From Anonymous
Ok I'm 22 and I'm ready to have sex, but not just yet. My guy recently told me he can't take my virginity...why is that? When I told him that I am virgin he was happy that I was and that I didn't lose to some random guy and that I care about myself and what not. 

But what I'm asking and hope someone can help me, is that, can you change a guy's mind about that? Can you make him be the one to help you lose it? I'm not just going to lose it to some random guy then go back to him so we can have sex. If anyone can help me please do. I would love to hear your advice.

Plus isn't it true that guys are always in the mood to have sex so it doesn't even matter if a girl is a virgin or not?

From Lilya
I lost my virginity when I was in college. I had been going out with my boyfriend for a month and I was completely smitten with him.

After the first time we had sex I felt a little sore and stretched the next day. The second time we got really into it and he pushed in much deeper than the first time. It was only slightly sore but I did bleed this time. I was more embarrassed than anything else as I hadn't told him that I was a virgin. He was so considerate, understanding and sweet to me. I was terribly worried about pain the following day but there wasn't any.

I know it does seem to be a cliché to say that you should wait for someone you love but it really feels great when it is with someone you trust as I'm still with him and our sex life is now spectacular.

From Amanda Leigh
I lost my virginity in September of 2005 to my best friend of a year. Ever since, we have been even more closer and possibly even going out now. I have loved my best friend since September of 2004 when I first laid eyes on him in class. For the past year we were doing nothing but foreplay and teasing each other. In September of this year I went to his house we drank like always and instead of giving him an every day gift for our 1 year anniversary my gift to him was me, twice.

I think that if something were to happen to our relationship I don't believe that I would ever regret losing it to him, I love him he is my best friend and the greatest lover (not that I have anything to compare it too)

From Meg
I've read a lot of the entries on here and I can say that my experience last night was neither the romance novel, orgasmic experience, but it wasn't horrible either. For some background, I was sexually assaulted when I was 14 by a guy who I had always thought of as a brother. From that time on I was always really nervous about anything sexual, and all of my boyfriends before this one never got past "first base" because I just didn't feel mentally comfortable enough with them.

The guy I gave my virginity to last night is 22, I'll be 19. I have known this guy for about two months now. I never thought I'd be in a relationship where I'd be willing to have sex after only a few months. I never really had any truly romantic ideals when it came to my first time. I'm honestly surprised I escaped my hometown as a virgin, not many kids do, and a lot of the girls are victims of date rape, but never admit to that fact because that town frowns on controversy.

Well, anyways back to last night. For a few weeks my boyfriend had been asking for sex, but every time I said no, and thankfully he'd listen to me which I appreciate more than I can express in words. A few days ago I decided that I was ready to give him my virginity, and it just so happens that it's his birthday soon, so he got me as his birthday present. When he first tried to enter me it hurt so bad that I cried out. He then fingered me to try to make it hurt less, which it helped. It still hurt SO bad, but he was a sweety the whole time and kept asking me if I was okay, and if I was SURE I was okay.

I think that part of what made it hurt so much is that he is rather well endowed. There were a few times when I could tell that in the future it will be quite enjoyable, but those were quickly replaced by the pain again. When he was done he pulled me into a hug and we fell asleep that way. We had sex again this morning and it hurt even worse than last night, but he once again kept asking me if i was really okay.

I had to go to work so I couldn't spend much time with him, but I can say that I am still quite sore. I can also say that I did bleed, but neither of us noticed until we were done, and it wasn't that much, but I am still bleeding a very small amount.

Overall I can say I enjoyed my experience because he was so nice to me the whole time. Right now I honestly don't know where this relationship is going, but I can say that I won't regret last night. He does care about me and that means a lot to me. Even if this relationship doesn't last I will always know that when I gave my virginity to him, I was mentally prepared and it was my choice.

My first sexual experience was a very negative one, but thankfully that guy did not take my virginity, and I'm glad that the guy who did let it be my choice 100%.

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