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My first time was probably a little later than most guys. I was half way through my junior year of college. I had been dating my girlfriend for a couple months. We were in her dorm room. I didn't ' ask if she was a virgin and didn't volunteer that I was until later. I loved kissing her, especially her breasts. By the time we had all of our clothes off, I was so turned on. She took my cock and guided me into her. I couldn't believe how warm and wet she was. The feeling just overwhelmed me and I came after just a couple strokes. It was a little embarrassing, but she was really nice about it.

When I told her later that it was my first time, she said she wished I would have told her because she could have made it better. A few weeks later, I found out what she meant. She masturbated me to an orgasm first. Then when I got hard again, she got on top of me. She started really slow, and gradually built up until I came with a lot more intensity. I felt her suddenly tighten around my cock. When looked at her, she was a little sweaty and were breathing was just getting back to normal. That 'a when I realized she had come just after I did.

It was a much more satisfying experience for both of us. We dated the rest of that year before splitting up. My first time was more memorable for how understanding my girlfriend was than it was the actual experience itself. I will always be grateful to her for that; as well as showing me how great sex could be the second time we did it.

From Another Male Perspective
Just thought people might be interested in another guy's first time experience - thanks to the first one for breaking the ice. The woman I got it together with was eleven years older than me and very dominant. I just didn't feel like I had any way out. Let me put it like this: I didn't have to fake orgasms, but I did have to fake enjoyment. (I'd say a lot of porn actors do the same; it can't be that much fun having sex in a brightly-lit studio, especially when there's a bunch of guys standing around.) What baffles me is how I got involved with her. I guess I was pretty insecure; a lot of guys are in their teens. 

From Liz
So many women say how they bled the first time they had sex, and it hurt at first and the hymen broke and all that jazz. I never bled or felt pain when I first had sex. The only time I feel discomfort is when a guy goes in before I'm wet enough. So I guess I'm just different. Either I never had a hymen, or mine is just really stretchy. Or maybe I broke it by accident as a child, and I just don't remember—although I think I would remember something like that.

From Sheila b
Well well well. Losing my virginity was hell. My first time was at my sister's graduation party (at the time I was 16 and still a virgin). The boy I was mooning over (he was 18) for the past couple of years was finally paying attention to me. So I started playing big girl by drinking and dancing and flirting with older guys (much older guys). Anyway, it was nearing time for my curfew so I went on the porch to get my bearings together and low and behold this boy decides to come out as well. I was 16 so I was extremely naive he started saying how he always liked me and I'm different from all those other girls. And we started kissing and lifting my skirt. 

Conveniently the porch was connected to a bedroom (now how did he know that) we stripped and he kissed my breast and went lower on me. It felt good. But when it came down to the actual penetration it felt as if I was punched in the gut. And I seriously thought having my period was bad but that was terrible. He pulled out just before he came. And then he toppled right over me and a few minutes later went to sleep. I was up and decided to push him off of me. My mistake he woke up again and this time when I said no I have to go he laughed held my hands over my head and did it again. 

When school started again I noticed the whole foot ball team was making a pass at me (strange isn't it that before they never noticed me) and every time I looked the boy in the eye he smiled and looked away. But that was my story.

From Bernie
I lost my virginity at age 17. My girlfriend was 19. She was a virgin too. It was in the front seat of my Ford Pinto. I know those of you who  remember that vehicle are wondering how that happened. It was on desolate dead end street of a housing development under construction. I think it hurt her a little but not for long. Subsequent sessions were much better. I didn't last very long. As I ejaculated a pall washed over me as the words of my parents telling my sex was bad echoed in my head. Hormones were stronger then my parents words though.

Sex for me and sex for her were different. I was a young man with raging hormones, yes, but a plan for my future. The future included college and career. Was I in love and did my future include her? I hadn't thought out the relationship that far. I was sincerely in love at the moment. She had apparently thought about the relationship and her career. Her career was me. I think the moment we had sex, she felt like we were going to together forever. The reality was neither of us were mature enough to know what we wanted forever. We were together about six or eight more months before I graduated and headed off to college. I broke it off before I left for college. It ended badly. I didn't miss her and still don't.

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