Losing Your Virginity
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From Jenny
I feel very lucky, when I read some horror stories of the other women here. I lost my virginity at 16, and my boyfriend was 9 years older, experienced and very gentle and patient. He gave me time to accomodate to his penis. I was not scared and was able to relax and to trust him completly. I think this very important. When you are all tense, it must hurt bad.

It hurt only a little bit for a short moment and minimal bleeding, but it was overpowered with the pleasure he gave me. I loved feeling him inside, so it was a very good experience.

From No Pain, Much Gain!
Ladies, ladies ladies. Do not ever have sex if you are not ready, and truly in the mood.

After discussing my personal experience with that of my best friends, I concluded that being mentally and emotionally prepared for sex is the only way to have a pleasurable—at least non-painful—first experience.

I lost my virginity during a one-night-stand with a sexy, confident, experienced and satisfying man. It was the 2nd semester of my freshman year in college and he was the best friend of my friend's boyfriend. We never talked again, needless to say that evening remains one of my most enjoyable sexual experiences (it's been about 1.5yrs and I've definitely had more experiences).

I had received oral sex and been fingered, but no one was like this man. He was approximately four years my senior (22), and very smooth. He put the moves on me like you wouldn't believe, which brings me to an important point: Foreplay is key—good foreplay! He planted deep, wet kisses on my neck veeeery slowly and did not neglect to use his tongue.

He did not know I was a virgin, but continued to take his time because, of course, he was trying to put the moves on me to get me in the mood. To make a long story short, I was extremely aroused before he went below the border. By the time he started fingering me, I was so wet and so open, I could hardly feel his fingers, and believe me—my pussy was tight (well hell..it still is).

He took his time, and by the time his penis finally entered me, my mind was reeling! As soon as he entered and began thrusting, I felt like my head was going to explode. I can honestly say that I've never had such a (near) orgasmic experience since then (kind of sad, I know, but I've still had good experiences).

LADIES, PLEASE LEARN THIS LESSON: When you are mentally and emotionally prepared, have been fingered enough to enjoy the experience (and preferably broken your hymen), and have decided to engage in sexual intercourse with a (skilled) partner you are comfortable with—or hell, if you know that you just want some dick—then, and ONLY then, will you be able to experience a painless first experience.

I had tried before, with someone I loved, but it hurt so badly because I didn't know if he truly cared; my emotions, and the lack of his, got in the way. Emotions are a wonderful thing; in that case they prevented me from being mentally comfortable enough to losen my muscles. While I was not emotionally connected to the man I lost my virginity to, I was in the mood. 

It's not about simply wanting to have sex, or thinking you're ready; you must feel it. That isn't the case with everyone, but it was for me. I knew it was right, even though my partner was not "Mr. Right". At the end of the day, if you have to convince yourself to have sex, or your partner must, it is not the right time. Love or not, you may be inexperienced, but you will be ready when it is time.

I hope this helps ladies. Just hold out until the time is right. It won't hurt if you wait until it's right, I promise.

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