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From Buttercup
My husband, 78 years old, likes to place the heel of his hand on my pubic bone and gently pats my Tater (as he calls it) for sustained periods of time. I just love it, particularly when we are in bed ready for sleep. It is a great way to fall asleep. In the morning I am really fired up and ready to go.

He does not incorporate this with his foreplay when we have romance, he uses a soft circular movement until I lubricate. Once he gets near my bud I am ready to explode and coax him into other foreplay to sustain the feeling before he enters me. When he has entered it is only a few minutes before I go into orbit. Unfortunately for both of us I am so vocal that it causes him to climax. Well, we both consider that the feeling is more important than how long we last.

From M
I am a believer that the whole of a woman's body is an erogenous zone, and I am sure that my wife will agree. she loves foreplay as I do, and she lets me spend hours pleasing her all over. When I do eventually move my hands to her vagina, I spend a lot of time teasing her all around that area before even opening her lips.

Gents you will find that this usually will get women well lubricated, and just doing it lightly will have her in pure ecstasy. Intercourse is just the icing on the cake for my wife after I play with her. I just wish she would be more giving to do the same to me other than grab my cock and wank me.

From ElectricSoftJoy
I'm usually so starved (really, ladies, we are affected like that), that I'm figuring how to slow down and enjoy everything. Besides my own desire, however, I'm deeply concerned and actively sensing what she wants and enjoys. If she doesn't want to be there or is uncomfortable, what's the point? None worthwhile!

From Anonymous
I enjoy licking and fondling a lady's clit and nipples. Also the back of her smooth thighs are delicious too. I enjoy finding a lady preferable 18 to 21 yrs old. I hold her close to me. I gently reach up under her short skirt and into her panties with my fingers. I slowly fondle and slowly and deeply the moist, achy flesh while her toes flutter in her sandal flats. Her thighs tremble from such sensations. I lick and kiss her nipples very slowly and hear her moan for more and more and more till nearly passed out from orgasmic delight.

From Desiree
Mary - you got the right thing going. [see Mary's entry below] My husband is a bit lame on the foreplay and kissing. I hate the way he sucks my breasts and I don't allow him to do much deep kissing with me. He's an "insert finger here" type of guy no matter how little other foreplay we've had or how dry I am. He rarely touches me anywhere other than my "snatch. However, I love him madly and once I am aroused, he can bring me to ecstasy with his cock and mouth.

With my lover on the other hand, we can kiss all night long and I am weak in the knees. When he suckles and licks my nipple, I can nearly orgasm. When he touches me, he touches my whole body and soul. I'm soaked just from the way he looks at me and his words. Every minute is foreplay! I'm incredibly happy with both situations (and I gather I'm pretty lucky too!).

My husband's lover loves the way he performs foreplay with her - rough, to the point, lots of kissing - she has many, many orgasms during this (so sometimes there is a little bit of animosity at home - "but she likes the way I do that...")

Here's the kicker -he also complains that his lover is inattentive with foreplay and a dud at oral and manual stimulation. So much so, that he rarely gets hard with her. I guess we all have different needs - some women like the "jam it in" approach - I'm not one of them (most of the time).

One more thing, women need to be slow, generous lovers too when the time calls for it. I'm sure men enjoy long, luxurious licks and touches all over their bodies too. And they don't want to have their cock plunged into someone's mouth without a little soft caressing and teasing first (or maybe they do!!).

From Mary
I'm in a unique position where I am able to compare two males' approaches at the same time. My husband is more like the males you have described. About 5-10 min of foreplay on a good day, and most of that is either sucking my nipples or playing with my clit...with no preliminaries. My lover, on the other hand, is just the opposite. He does understand that the whole body is an erogenous zone. We tend to spend at least an hour on foreplay when we get the chance. He plays with pressure points as well. For anyone who has never done this, I highly recommend Accupressure for Lovers. It is a great book with very good diagrams to show you where all the lovely spots are hiding. It also tells you how to most effectively stimulate each spot and in what order to achieve the maximum benefit.

[Accupressure for Lovers is available at Amazon.com / Amazon UK]

But, to be fair, his wife does not like that much foreplay. She is very focused on the main erogenous zones and then on to intercourse. She tends to get annoyed at her husband because he takes too long. She and my husband get along great. When she and I play, she tends to get annoyed with me, too, if I take time to explore all her erogenous zones. The closest I have been able to come with her is full body massage, but that tends to bore her, too. Her husband and I have started to double team her...

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