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Greek Satyr with fantastic cock and ballsI would like to hear about how important a man's phallic length is. Every adult film I've seen has the macho studs sporting cocks of equestrian proportions, and it sure LOOKS like the women or men enjoy having every orifice filled by them. In the real world, however, how does a big dick rate compared with your partner being competent in foreplay? Would your personal preference be a horse-hung mate, but you'll settle for other things in lieu? If so, what rates higher for you in that instance? Your feedback could be most enlightening. —Phlyon Zawahl

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From Anon
I've been with a total of 9 men.  One was small, but he and one of the larger men were the best lovers I've had.  They knew how to get me ready with their mouths and tongues.

One of the larger ones was the worst.  He went for penetration before I was fully lubricated and aroused and it was uncomfortable, even slightly painful and it wasn't my first time having sex.

That said, some of the larger men were able to bring me to orgasm while penetrating me.  There is something to be said for that feeling of being completely filled and the pressure as he pumps in and out.

A medium sized man was also one of the best.  He tried various positions, knew what to do.  In a scissors type position, he managed clit stimulation and deep penetration which brought me to the most intense orgasm of my life.  I couldn't even speak for a few moments after because I was so intensely experiencing it. 

Knowing what to do is a must, but size does help too.

From Anonymous
Not the size? Why continue this lie? Seriously? I'm sure if you were met with a penis the size and girth of the larger crayola markers, you'd be completely unthrilled. As a woman, I can not lie. Size matters to us, just as much as tightness and boob size matters to men. We all lie to each other on this subject and lie to ourselves about it as well. If a man has a half inch girth, no matter how he uses it, that thing won't do anything at all. Be honest.

I've been met with the Crayola Marker dick, and OMG, if it wasn't for actually having feelings for the man, I would have run away as fast as I could, Good thing he wasn't a permanent part of my life.

From Sizes
I will say that guys with really big cocks scares me. It don't scare themselves from what they got cause the society's perceptions is that larger is better, prettier and more usefull in sexual intercourses. I do think that there is just a few ones girls how honestly can admit that big cocks feels good. To the rest of us it is pain. About the foreplay: if it is right performed and I mean right we don't need a horse cock to satisfy our sexual lust. I feel sorry for guys with an idea that size is everything.

From Bubbles
Hey frds, have slept with few men ... most of them small in size and I have not been happy with the experience. With years I have realized that definately an average size is fine, anything 6inchs and above, but the most important is the thickness that really matters the most. The circumfrance can really make a woman feel ecstasy and it can sustain most of the positions as it fills the vagina well and does not spill out were as thin penis have major limitations for positions as they pup out very easily.

I love a thick and a long cock, but nothng bigger than 7 inches please as the sizes above give tremendous pain during and after the intercourse.

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