Big Dicks vs Competent Foreplay

Your preference...be honest!

I would like to hear about how important a man's phallic length is. Every adult film I've seen has the macho studs sporting cocks of equestrian proportions, and it sure LOOKS like the women or men enjoy having every orifice filled by them. In the real world, however, how does a big dick rate compared with your partner being competent in foreplay?

Would your personal preference be to have a horse-hung mate, but you'll settle for other things in lieu? If so, what rates higher for you in that instance? Your feedback could be most enlightening. —Phlyon Zawahl

Men ought to be more conscious of their bodies as an object of delight. —Germaine Greer

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From OldNavyDude
Since I was molested as a child, I have had anal fetish. It was the size of his cock that blew my young mind. Now, I have a hard time wanting anything less than 10" to 12". Even as I write this, my ass becomes wet. it opens up and begs me to fill it up and ram it hard.

Perhaps it is something more deep seated, but when I do let a guy take me, All I do it suck him hard, taste a little precum for the turn-on and apply some baby-oil, the gel type, it is WONDERFUL!!! The I have him lie on his back I get on so I can control the action. Even though I know it's going to hurt, I just take it all.

I have scared my lovers with my screams of pain. Once with a  dude with a beefy mushroom head, I passed out and bled just a little.

Big dicks or foreplay? Big, BIGGER, HUGE!!!!! and don't be gentle either. No pain, no pleasure.

From Mary
Thick is vastly more important than long, for most every woman I've ever talked with about this. Long enough to hit the g-spot, which most men have is good, and long enough to just hit the cervix without pummeling it is nice. There's also this, I've found that a big dick is usually a little softer (I guess because the blood has more area to fill?) and that's nice--it feels generally more like being filled and less like being stabbed. As for foreplay, different women like different kinds of touch, so a guy who has "competent foreplay" with one woman may be totally turning another off with the same techniques. For me, the biggest turn on ever is a man who just genuinely gets off on my pleasure. That man can fuck me with his hand, his mouth, his cock or a dildo, for all I care, and it will be great, regardless, because he'll pay attention and experiment with the tools at hand until he finds what works on me.

From Selena
Checked in to see if Anon had posted contact info for her ex, the fabulously hung Tony.  [see Anonymous' entry below] Disappointed that she did not but not surprised.  Get the feeling that eventually her craving for that big one will get the better of her and she'll figure out a way to get back together with him.

As to 'Guy' and some of the others here: Yes foreplay is very important.  Yes a talentless man is not going to get a woman going no matter what. But I seldom meet a man who is so clueless that he can't figure out when his technique is annoying/hurting/doing nothing for me, esp if I bother to tell him what I like and don't like. 

It is men who put so much importance on size which is why some men try to make themselves feel better by suggesting that being well-hung is some sort of handicap.  It's not.  And while men do put more importance on it, there is a sizeable minority of woman who do too, like me and Anon. Sorry, but other things being equal, even near equal, a long fat one is more fulfilling, more exciting and way more likely to get me off.

From Guy
I have had two middle aged lady lovers whose husbands were hugely endowed.  From when they had had their children, neither of them had sex with their husbands again, even though it meant suffering sexual frustration .

Many men think that having a huge cock makes them god's gift to a woman.  A man with a big dick needs to spend a long time on foreplay to make sure their wife or lover is really turned on, opened up and lubricated; cunnilingus is a good opener.

Many big men think it is enough to shove it straight in  which can cause women a lot of pain and little or no pleasure.

I am not well endowed, but because of that I have made sure of learning from women all the arts of pleasuring a woman.

I have no doubt that there are many women who crave a big dick that fills them right up, but I'm sure may not be so happy to suffer a lot of pain on entry, or have their ovaries battered. Big men must be very patient and gentle.

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