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Greek Satyr with fantastic cock and ballsI would like to hear about how important a man's phallic length is. Every adult film I've seen has the macho studs sporting cocks of equestrian proportions, and it sure LOOKS like the women or men enjoy having every orifice filled by them. In the real world, however, how does a big dick rate compared with your partner being competent in foreplay? Would your personal preference be a horse-hung mate, but you'll settle for other things in lieu? If so, what rates higher for you in that instance? Your feedback could be most enlightening. —Phlyon Zawahl

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From Sizes
I will say that guys with really big cocks scares me. It don't scare themselves from what they got cause the society's perceptions is that larger is better, prettier and more usefull in sexual intercourses. I do think that there is just a few ones girls how honestly can admit that big cocks feels good. To the rest of us it is pain. About the foreplay: if it is right performed and I mean right we don't need a horse cock to satisfy our sexual lust. I feel sorry for guys with an idea that size is everything.

From Bubbles
Hey frds, have slept with few men ... most of them small in size and I have not been happy with the experience. With years I have realized that definately an average size is fine, anything 6inchs and above, but the most important is the thickness that really matters the most. The circumfrance can really make a woman feel ecstasy and it can sustain most of the positions as it fills the vagina well and does not spill out were as thin penis have major limitations for positions as they pup out very easily.

I love a thick and a long cock, but nothng bigger than 7 inches please as the sizes above give tremendous pain during and after the intercourse.

From Dennis
I'm a fairly well endowed man, (8 and 1/4 of an inch). Now the pleasure it gives me is enormous while I don't think it does much good for girls other than visual stimulation, if any. I rarely go all the way in except for anal. But I will say it provides me with a little confidence in first pulling it out cause I usually get a comment like your big or wow or something, but not always by the way ladies pretend it's big even if it isn't. It's a huge confidence booster to hear someone say you're so big. I mean I knew I was well endowed in high school because it used to get comments in the locker room but I was embarrassed and thought I was a freak, so it all in perspective.

From Zanne
I was a very early masturbator, and I've been doing Kegel exercises for many years. So I have a super tight pussy and although size doesn't really matter it's nice to have a healthy sized one. I get my most intense orgasms orally, so it's all about the foreplay for me. Men who love to give oral and can do it well are few and far in-between. And even though I've had more than my share of cunnilingus devotees, I am greedy and can never get enough.

Guys, read the book: She Comes First. You will never have a problem with a woman sexually again. No matter how big or how small your dick is.

From Lars
This is a very interesting and important topic and I am glad to hear all the women saying the truth, even though its their own truth. There are some men lucky enough to be having a large penis. I belong to those guys that are below average, my penis is just under 5 inches and I do admit that I have always been envy on guys who has a large penis.

Both men and women are making fun of men who has a small penis, I don't think it's by intention to hurt guys like me, but it does, I really wish I had a large penis, but I do accept that it's small. I have had women that have been honest about it and left me because of it too. I also know that I have never been able to satisfy a women sexually through intercourse. These are facts to me, I don't want women to say size doesn't matter, just to make me feel better, if they enjoy it, then they should go for it. I am sure I would if I was one of them.

I am single and I am sure that my lack of size is one of the reasons. I am sure there are  women out there that would be ok with my size, I just have to find her. So does size matters, yes it does to most women and foreplay too.

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