Big Dicks vs Competent Foreplay
Your preference...be honest!

I would like to hear about how important a man's phallic length is. Every adult film I've seen has the macho studs sporting cocks of equestrian proportions, and it sure LOOKS like the women or men enjoy having every orifice filled by them. In the real world, however, how does a big dick rate compared with your partner being competent in foreplay? 

Would your personal preference be to have a horse-hung mate, but you'll settle for other things in lieu? If so, what rates higher for you in that instance? Your feedback could be most enlightening. —Phlyon Zawahl

Men ought to be more conscious of their bodies as an object of delight.  —Germaine Greer

For plenty of foreplay and big dicks...

• Playgirl - Every month for 30 years Playgirl has delivered a first-rate adult magazine for those craving hot, well-hung, naked men. Now we can enjoy the same excellent adult entertainment from Playgirl online. You can count on Playgirl.com to update content weekly with exclusive couple and solo male movies, and high resolution photos of the most gorgeous men in all their splendid hot naked glory. Satisfy all your sexual curiosities and fantasies, from food foreplay to sexual health, with Playgirl.

• For The Girls - Ladies, stop trawling through male oriented sites and check out the real deal. Sex positive, feminist, and with attitude to spare, For the Girls provides a smart, sophisticated approach to women's sexuality with plenty of fiction, advice, articles, e-zines, audio clips, videos, and hot hardcore sex without all that 'cum sluts' and 'horny whore' jazz.

• Hetero Male Porn Stars - For too long the average porn stud has been short, balding, fat and hairy. Thankfully there's a new batch of gorgeous straight men who have made their mark in porn. This site celebrates the best of the new wave of good looking male porn stars—these guys are hot, buffed, and very well hung. Hetero Male Porn Stars showcases the hottest scenes from their best films, all completely downloadable...the films, not the guys. Pity, that.

From Lars
This is a very interesting and important topic and I am glad to hear all the women saying the truth, even though its their own truth. There are some men lucky enough to be having a large penis. I belong to those guys that are below average, my penis is just under 5 inches and I do admit that I have always been envy on guys who has a large penis.

Both men and women are making fun of men who has a small penis, I don't think it's by intention to hurt guys like me, but it does, I really wish I had a large penis, but I do accept that it's small. I have had women that have been honest about it and left me because of it too. I also know that I have never been able to satisfy a women sexually through intercourse. These are facts to me, I don't wont women to say size doesn't matter, just to make me feel better, if they enjoy it, then they should go for it. I am sure I would if I was one of them. I am single and I am sure that my lack of size is one of the reasons. I am sure there are  women out there that would be ok with my size, I just have to find her.

So does size matters, yes it does to most women and foreplay too.

From Al
Our friend J has one of the biggest cocks my wife and I have ever seen.  Fully erect it is 12 inches long, limp it goes no smaller than 8.  But it isn't that thick, about 3 inches all the way along but has a massive head which my wife can just about get in her mouth although after a very long suck her jaw becomes painful.

Pussy or anus J's 12 inches does it for my wife and she is soon yelling out in ecstasy as he goes to work.  I've had J in my anus a few times and it was always a pretty awesome experience, nowadays preferring to suck him off, my mouth being larger than my wife's so no problems with the size of J's head.

From Geena
Does size matter? Yes, but so does foreplay and love in sex. My husband has a standard length cock but when aroused can reach 8 inches since I pay attention in our lovemaking to every part of his body, not just his cock, balls or anus, I kiss and lick his mouth, neck, chest, legs and buttocks, and that is how I get him aroused. He has the same respect for me and while he likes sucking my pussy, clit, breasts and nipples, his lips and hands are elsewhere on my body. By the time he enters me we are both fully aroused and enjoy an intense physical fuck.

On the few occasions we have had threesomes I make it a point of personal pride to arouse both husband and our guest, making sure both men are fully ready, full length and fat, hubby at 8 inches our guest probably at 10 inches, before they take me in a double penetration, or our guest in my pussy or anus, hubby in my mouth.

From K
A big dick is a must for me. I love to feel "filled" up in both my kitty, mouth and ass (occasionally). My current boyfriend is about 8 1/2 inches with nice girth and a curve. Anyone can learn foreplay, but you can't learn having a big cock.

From Anonymous
My wife and I are doing some MMF on occasions and she likes the feel of another cock. Mine is of average length and girth but our latest friend is massive!  She has been used to my normal cock for years but now if we do a 3 way she insists on a huge cock,..can't blame her,..I can't fill her up like a big dick can, and I must admit that I get turned on watching her take all that meat in.

She loves for me to be under her eating her sloppy creampie while he drives that monster in and out,..and I must admit that from that prospective I find it awesome too. We had tried a couple other people who were my size or slightly smaller but she didn't enjoy it near as much, nor did I. Since we have started letting the other guys have my ass as well, I'm now hooked on a big cock with lots of cum as bad as she is!

So yes, for us a BIG COCK is important!

From Lady Love
It's holding, caressing, and sensual kissing that tickles the clit and starts the vagina flowing with love juice. A man has to have passion for sex with his partner, he's got to want to absorb her into his mouth with oral sex. He's got to make love to her clit. He's got to want his nipples sucked as much as she wants him to suck hers.

A man has to want to give lovemaking the time it deserves. The woman, in turn, has to want everything he has to offer, and look forward to taking any part of his body into her orifices. Believe me, if a man leaves a woman feeling sexy, satisfied and loved, she'll love his cock just based on his ability to please her.

For me, the goal is to fit my man's cock like a glove, no man can resist a tight pussy, so girls, do your kegel exercises. Do not masturbate with anything larger than your man's dick, or you will stretch out. Allow your man to feel your vagina tighten up on his cock, while he's inside you, he will respond back with some great contractions of his own. And there's nothing like falling asleep staying connected. Slow down and love each other. Good Luck! 

From Veronica
I have to agree with Josephine, although I don't know how she got two of them inside at once. One is more than enough for me.

Honestly, I never thought much about it until a girl friend told me about how her well endowed lover was pleasing her.

I'm a 48 y.o. widow of 5 years and got back into the dating game about 3 years ago. I have 3 kids and I noticed that after the last one that intercourse wasn't as intense as in the early years, though even then I never was able to achieve orgasm from intercourse.

Boy what a difference with my current boyfriend/lover. He is very well endowed, about 8in. long and 5 and a half around. ( yes we measured ). When I first saw his erect penis it was very exciting and such a turn on to handle and suck it, though I can't begin to get all of it in my mouth.

Intercourse is a new exciting experience. As other women have said, there's no substitute for that "full feeling", the friction and stretching that I now get. His thickness is stimulating my clit and the extra friction is apparently rubbing my G spot, or whatever is happening.I also love the pulsing feeling at the back of my vagina. I'm now experiencing multiple orgasms from intercourse, and some incredible final ones. Of course it doesn't hurt that he's a handsome, well built guy and very romantic too. Also, and very important, he is very patient, always waiting until I'm very wet and ready ( It doesn't take long! ). We also use lube.

I've read that a minority of women experience intercourse orgasms. I wonder if they're the ones with well endowed lovers?

Page:   1  |  2  |  3  |  4  |  5 
___________________

Interested in this topic? Share your thoughts with us.

  E-mail this page

Copyright © 1996 and on, Erotica Readers Association, Inc.
All Rights Reserved World Wide. Reproduction in whole or in part in any form or
medium without express written permission is prohibited.