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From Dennis
I'm a fairly well endowed man, (8 and 1/4 of an inch). Now the pleasure it gives me is enormous while I don't think it does much good for girls other than visual stimulation, if any. I rarely go all the way in except for anal. But I will say it provides me with a little confidence in first pulling it out cause I usually get a comment like your big or wow or something, but not always by the way ladies pretend it's big even if it isn't. It's a huge confidence booster to hear someone say you're so big. I mean I knew I was well endowed in high school because it used to get comments in the locker room but I was embarrassed and thought I was a freak, so it all in perspective.

From Liz
Six months ago I would have answered quickly that foreplay was definitely most critical for me.  I've had sex with a variety of sizes - some too big for certain positions, some too small for certain positions.  In any case, the foreplay was always critical and there was no sense that a bigger cock could replace this element.  I married a man of reasonable size but extraordinary talent.

After being married for several years however, and getting hornier every day, I had a surprising experience as I cheated for the first time last fall.  I had been getting close to a friend and we finally crossed the line and started kissing, and he kept saying how that we wouldn't be able to stop if we started making out.  In that moment, I thought, no way - I'm not having sex with you - I can definitely stop.  Then as we rubbed against each other, he pulled out the hugest dick I had ever seen.  And I WANTED it.  I had him inside me in seconds, and it was unbelievable.  And we've continued to have sex for months - never with any foreplay to speak of.  For a cock that size, now (this was different when I was younger), just knowing that it's there enough to drive me wild instantly.

From Alabaster
I want foreplay.  I don't care how big you are, your size alone is not going to make me beg for your cock.  However, your skill in using your MIND (the most erotic organ), hands, mouth, and afore mentioned cock should make me beg :) I do have certain preferences though.  For length, I prefer an "average" man (5.5 - 6.5 inches).  If his cock is much longer than that it bottoms out and becomes uncomfortable or even downright painful when he presses deep.  Also, that length seems to hit my G-spot just right.  For width, I like 2-3 inches in diameter (5-6 inches circ).  My pussy is tight and becomes increasingly tighter the more aroused I get so anything thicker, even with copious lube, is uncomfortable for me.  My ass is even tighter so I definitely don't want anything bigger in there!

From Anonymous Male
Now that I'm older, I am embarrassingly lacking in the endowment department. When I met my current girlfriend, I mentioned this to her early in our relationship. She has accepted me as I am. I make up for it through foreplay. She pleases me by wearing the sexy clothing and heels she knows excites me. Then through the use of some consensual light bondage, role-playing and my slow and soft teasing touch, my girlfriend achieves climax every time. I enjoy pleasing her.

From Candyheart
I'd take foreplay over a large penis size anytime.  But have to admit that with the right amount of foreplay, a long hard dick (seven, eight, nine inches is very desirable) with two inches in girth and a slightly larger fat mushroom shaped head.  Also, hard long tongue and a greedy mouth that enjoys sucking a fat clit and sucking wet pussy.

From Sarah
I think it's a sad commentary on US society that men figure their worth via their penis size. So much so that men are willing to watch a big dick fucked their girlfriends, wives, lovers. Very sad indeed. Think of it this way: women, or men who want to play with big dicks, can simply buy one. It's call a dildo - any size shape color you want. However, a smart, witty man with a keen sense of what makes a good lover, and is a joy to be with, is damn hard to fine, impossible to buy.

I'll take a good guy who is a good lover over a dick-head any day. And when I desire a big dick, I simply introduce a big dildo into play, and have the best of both worlds.

Come on guys, stop measuring your worth via your penis. Measure your worth as a lover by careing more about pleasing your lover, than about the size of your dick.

From Mary
A long penis is not much fun, and a women really can't do much with it - too long to grind, too long to suck it comfortably, and it looks snake like, not at all attrative. It's all about the girth. A thick, short penis is perfection, that along with a man who knows what he's doing is truly heaven on earth when it comes to sexual satisfaction.

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