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From Avg. Joe
My wife and I have been together for going on 15 years, married 11.  I have always had a bit of a complex and admittedly a fascination with big dicks, although I'm the furthest thing from gay or bi-curious.  I measure 6" x 5", both can gain about 3/8" when at peak arousal.  These numbers put me above average supposedly, but like most men of average endowment, wish I was packing some more meat.  I am, I honestly believe it too, the only man my wife has been with.  Our sex has been very fulfilling, in that I get more aroused and personally get off more on trying to make her have more and more enjoyable sex all the time through drawn out foreplay and masterful oral.

I have (which I am becoming to believe was a mistake) introduced a realistic toy of 7" x 6" into our play on occasion.  She did not like it until recently, when I took extra effort to make sure she was at peak arousal.  With a bit of lube, she has had the most tremendous orgasms ever and squirted for the first time...   I derive tremendous pleasure from the fact that she explodes with it, but at the same time, it has given me a complex.

My fear now, which I am trying hard not to let shut me down, is that she will want the real thing with a good man pushing...  So yeah, no doubt, more of a good thing seems to be a better thing.  I'm hoping our love, trust, respect and dedication to making the best of what we have together will be enough.  I am at fault, but her eyes (and vag) have been opened to bigger and possibly better things... Hopefully, it won't ever cause too much insecurity in me, or case infidelity in her.  I don't think I can share her, but am admittedly scared for the first time ever.

From Delilah
I am a 30 year old woman living on the east coast. Based on my experience, taking the lovers that I have enjoyed who had not just competent but superior foreplay and technique, I have to say, sorry gentlemen, size matters!

First of all, the size and foreplay ingredients cannot be completely separated. My current b/f is my biggest (by far) and just watching that long, fat cock sway, plump up and become rigid is a huge turn on. I love to touch it, wrap my fingers around it (they don't touch when he's hard) and feel its mass and weight. He will sometimes slap my butt or thighs with it and the meaty smacking sound it makes is unbelievable. True arousal occurs between the ears, not the legs, so those sights and sounds add very much to my pleasure.

And yes I was a little frightened of it at first. But he took his time, massaged me, relaxed me, ate me and lubed me. The sensation of being so filled - girth and depth - was way beyond anything I've ever experienced. I don't always come from penetration but the first orgasm came quickly and was shattering. And he wasn't even all the way in! Since then, I've happily become very adept at taking every fat inch. So for me - other things being equal - the bigger, the better.

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