Porn Movies
Enjoyment or Discomfort?

Does watching porn movies make you feel uncomfortable or unattractive, or do porn movies tweak your sexual imagination and heighten arousal? Most porn stars are very attractive and I'm wondering what kind of effect that has. Do you find yourself wondering if your stomach is flat enough or your cock big enough? Does watching porn make you question your techniques? Or does it give you pure enjoyment and the urge to act it out with your partner?     —Megan Murphy

The difference between pornography and erotica is lighting.  —Gloria Leonard

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From Rocket Man
My wife is the grand-daughter of a fundamentalist preacher. Somehow, I managed to introduce her to the classic porn movies of the 1980's and she got hooked. Neither one of us really care for the more modern ones for the old ones actually had a story.

From Jennifer
I have been with my boyfriend for some time now. Since we have been together he has guided me to new sexual heights by teaching me to enjoy things I had never experimented with before. 99% of them have brought me a lot of pleasure. Then he talked me into watching porn with him. We went to the video store and rented it together. We went home and it started with watching and touching. But before long he insisted that I give him oral gratification while he watched. For some reason I kept getting him just almost there. I'd get him close then he would lose it. After 45 minutes I just couldn't do it anymore. My jaw was locking, my lips were sore and slightly grated from my own teeth. 

He was frustrated. I was frustrated. He got very angry and we had a huge fight afterwards. I vowed never to watch porn with him again. I can't even think about it without getting angry to this day. I cannot bear to see it when he brings it into the house.

He recently obtained one of those Girls Gone Wild videos and wants me to watch with him and give him oral while he watches again. But I just can't. The last experience with it ruined me for couple porn watching forever I'm afraid. If things had gone well maybe I wouldn't feel this way about it.

From Kevin
For me, porn is fantasy. And it is not so much about the actual bodies in the film, it's imagining me and my wife doing those things (whether it's straight sex, group, anal, oral, etc.). Most (if not all) of my fantasies involve my wife in some fashion or another...I like to imagine her doing those things to me and vice versa. It has to do with positions, camera angles, etc. I like to picture some of the angles being of us, etc. and then, there are the days where I'm just looking for a release (if she's out of town or something) and I just want to look at some hard, nasty fast fucking to get the deed done!

From Anonymous
I'm a married female, and I enjoy looking at porn with my husband, it turns both of us on very much. I know that he looks at porn online (alone) too, and I do too occasionally (but not as much as him!). One thing that I want to point out, and anyone here can correct me if they think I've got it wrong, is that I don't think my husband is actually lusting after the specific females that he sees. I think he generally gets a huge turn-on from the act itself, and not so much from a particular female, therefore I don't feel jealous. 

Also, guess who reaps the benefit of him being so hot and horny? ME! Does it bother me that he gets that way from watching others? No. If he were continuously visiting a website dedicated to ONE female, I might have a problem with it. If I go to a porn website, I could honestly care less about the males pictured, what turns me on is the act itself, and imagining doing that with my husband. Make sense?

From Abracadabra
I think that most people misconstrue the real reason for porn movies. Porn movies are not made for the purpose of showing off the male or female body. It is made for the purpose of showing people what sex can be without any inhibitions. One should watch a porn movie for it is. Not watch and then compare oneself with the actors. Like any other movie you see you do not watch the movie and then feel inadequate as a person do you?

From Ghost Rider
Ladies, if you are one who feels inadequate because your other half sits around watching porn movies and making comments about the woman in the movie, keep in mind that this is someone's fantasy. Also, your other half is probably immature and has his head inserted where it doesn't belong for going on in front of you this way. While you might not have a figure like Brittany Speers, keep in mind that most likely the other half isn't equipped like John Holms either, or built like a professional wrestler. 

Blow his mind. Take your camcorder, set it up in the bedroom, and entice the boob away from the porn film, into the bedroom and give him some of the most mind blowing sex you can imagine. The next time he goes to plug in a porn tape or dvd to watch, pull your tape out and tell him you have one you want him to watch. Sit down and watch it with him. Both of you will see that your film is a lot better than a tape of fantasy. 

Remember, these women and men in these porn movies are being paid to make these films and show about as much emotions as a log. Any emotions that is gotten across to the viewer is so phony you could scrape it off with a shovel. Ladies, whatever you do, don't be a withdrawn cold stuffed shirt with your man. With him pull out the stops. Remember, he is your man. Anything goes. Never worry about him watching the porn or meeting some one else. As the saying I've always heard goes "Be his lady every where you go, but be his whore in bed." He won't have time to fantasize about professionals in movies. He will be too involved keeping the fire put out in his own bedroom. 

Have fun because you know he's busting his britches to get home to you. Also ladies remember not to leave the tape laying around so Junior won't get it.

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