Same-Sex Curiosity
Did you ever? Would you ever?

Here's a couple of same-sex sites to explore:

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From Jim
Now married for 30 years (cradle snatched) and when I think back to when I was growing up I guess I always knew that men attracted me. As a student I only had girlfriends and only really discovered by accident the arousal that could come from seeing or being with another man. The first time it happened was purely accidental and I rushed home scared. I masturbated, though, and had probably one of the most intense orgasms of my life. Certainly when I came I deserved an Olympic Medal for distance reached!

I had my first (rather modest) sexual contact with a man not long after we had our second baby. The way I rationalise(d) it to myself is that my wife was too pre-occupied with the baby. The truth? Men are attractive as are women—but differently so. Sex with men is an amazing combination of rough and smooth, soft and hard. 

I remember being with an artist in Switzerland once and he said to me that I would be 'fine' until I fell in love with another man. I thought the idea ridiculous. It happened and turned my world and, for a time, my wife's and family's upside down. It was a curious time of life (just turned 40) and now I'm ten years older but, if I'm honest, no wiser and would love to be able to bridge my bisexuality more comfortably than I do. 

Nothing would be better for me than to run my tongue up and over my wife's clit while my buddy moved in and out of her. My tongue would roll over them both as he glided and occasionally when he pulled out I'd be waiting to catch him in my mouth before returning him to my wife and starting all over again...

From Anselmo
I am 53 years old and never had any sex experience with a man. I have been married twice and have great sex with women. I would love, anyhow, to have a sex experience with a man. To hold his dick and suck it till it comes. I do not enjoy the view or contact with a man's body but I am intrigued and curious about eating a nice penis.

From Meri
To be completely honest, no. I have absolutely no interest in being with another woman. I have nothing against those who do. I've got plenty of my own interests that create that 'spark' that just can't be ignored until what my needs are fulfilled and if that occurs for other people with same-sex curiosity, then more power to them. 

If I had the slightest craving for it I would, without a doubt, give it a try; life is too short not to go for what you want or to deny yourself sexually. I guess I just have a deep appreciation of men and what they have to offer and that's enough. Whatever everyone's doing out there tonight, and whomever you're doing it with, cheers!

From Anonymous
I met her in the women's locker room at a gym and couldn't take my eyes off her. I had never before been with another women although have thought about it a lot. I knew if any one would get me to go ahead with my curiosity it would be her.

You talk about reaching out and touching someone, her body trapped my mind and eyes. She had hair all the way down to her waist, her breast were huge with extremely large nipples that made mine ache at the thought of our breast touching. She was pretty and I so wanted to be with her.

She kept looking at me and I thought she was wondering why I kept looking like a lost puppy, but later learned she was hoping too. We left the gym and went for lunch and then to my home. There we explored one another and had a fantastic time for several hours, then she left to get her kids from school. We have since become friends and get together at least once or twice a month and I look forward to each meeting.

From Kenny
I'm a 35 yr old married male and lucky to have a great wife who is smart as well as a sexy Italian with a nice round ass, 34c breasts and amazing green eyes. A recurring fantasy of mine is to share her with another man. I'd love taking her out to a nice restaurant and then spend the night in a classy hotel. As we arrive to the hotel I have a 30 yr old well-hung stud waiting in the room for us lying naked on the bed. 

At first she'd be freaked out but after me and him reassuring her she gives in. At first sitting back watching her suck his huge cock then undressing and joining them. Her looking up at us going back and forth sucking us. Then spending the rest of the night exploring every fantasy imaginable.

From Anonymous
I am a female that has only been with men. I have always been interested in being with a woman, but never have had the chance. I would never want to be with a female that's a good friend, and where I live there isn't much opportunity to venture out to find a female.

 Most men's fantasy is to have two women, but I would want to be with a women privately—no boyfriend around! I think all women are beautiful and hope some day to have an experience with one.

From Gene
I am male, 50, and have never had sex with a man, but I would like to try it. I have had thought about it a lot, and I want to see what it is like to hold a hard cock. I'm divorced with two children, and the thought of HIV is pretty scary. But I still would like to have a man, or rather let a man have me. I would like to 69 with a man and let him fuck me. I have used dildos on myself and I like the feeling, and I would like to know what it is like to have a warm hard cock in my ass that is attached to a man. I want to try it all.

From Blue
I am a happily married man who is also happens to be bisexual.

Before I met my wife, I enjoyed physical relationships with both men and women. For me, sex with a man fills a different set of physical and emotional needs and desires than sex with a woman. A man giving me head makes me feels different than a woman giving me head, even though both the man and the woman are performing the same act. Likewise, I can kiss a man and a woman the same way—yet touching a man's lips strikes a different chord inside me than touching a woman's. I love having sex with a woman as much as I love having sex with a man—but it is different in more subtle ways than the obvious physical ones.

Interestingly, as a young man I had always considered myself open minded regarding sexual orientation—after all, I'd slept with two guys before I first had sex with a woman. Yet it was not until my mid-20's when I developed a crush on a guy that I finally faced the reality of my bisexuality. Strange as it may sound, taking a guy's penis into my mouth was no big deal, but wanting to hold hands on the beach and buy him flowers and romantic cards rocked my entire world.

Ironically, it was my wife who helped me come to grips with and become more comfortable with being bi. Out of respect for her and our commitment to one another, she has been my sole sexual partner since we first began dating a decade ago, and I have no intention of cheating on her with either a man or a woman. But I can say that if (God forbid) we should someday no longer be together, I don't think I'd hesitate if an eligible guy walked by who looked like he needed a nice bouquet.

From Gram
All those old taboos about men indulging in sex with each other have long disappeared and while there will always be a large number of men determinedly hetero, a growing number will be actively bi curious to the point of experiencing and enjoying mutual masturbation, oral or penetrative sex at frequent, if not regular, intervals. 

The erosion of these old phony barriers has a lot to do with the growth of happily and successfully married couples seeking extra-marital experiences (swinging) where fiercely hetero husbands have been brought into contact with bi husbands where the hetero hubby, supported by their wives, have been pleasantly surprised and fully satisfied by being fellated by bi hubbies. 

The fiercely hetero male may never fellate another male but he will almost certainly continue to enjoy other men sucking him off while less rigidly mind-set males, perhaps seeking their feminine side, will wish to expand their male-on-male sexual experiences from being sucked to sucking and, invariably, on to receiving and providing penetrative anal sex, all within the context of swinging - the bi-curious husband accompanied by his wife, who is almost certainly to have become bi curious herself, the two of them meeting with and successfully experiencing the full sexual activity range with couples (i e bi husband), and threesomes with bi single men.

From Anonymous
I am not attracted to men. I do not look at them, do not see one that I wish to be with. I do however think about sucking a guy's tool from time to time. Or at least letting him suck mine.

From Krinna 
I'm 39, single, straight, with long term boyfriends. I had had many friends in my professional life who were swingers, never interested. However, a friend brought over his new bride from Switzerland for dinner one night. Her jet black, waist-length hair and her startling blue eyes caught my attention. She didn't speak much English, but, she traipsed after me all evening. 

After dinner and much wine it started out with my boyfriend and her husband doing her, it ended up with her wanting me. I agreed. Though I'm not into women I still see those blue eyes.

From John
I had my first gay experience when I was young. The whole thing was planned by my guy friend sleeping over. We were laying on the floor together before going to sleep. We laid on top of each other with our clothes on, rubbing legs and crotches. This really turned me on, and it turned him on too, because I could feel his erection. We then stuck our hands into each other's pants, rubbing each other's boners through our underwear. And then, I accidentally stuck my hand into his underwear, directly touching his package. He then says awkwardly, "John, what were you touching?" "Oh, I don't know", I said sheepishly. But then we both rubbed each others cocks that night and we enjoyed it.

During the later part of high school, I looked around at the other guys in the locker room in PE. I always enjoyed looking at guys who were trim, fit, and muscular, clad in only their boxers for a moment. Sometimes I even took a shower to really get a look at these guys while at the same time, turning myself on by exposing my whole body. I felt so dirty doing this, but it was fun.

Nowadays, I look at gay porn, cyber with guys, and still fantasize about getting intimate with a guy, even though girls are really what I'm looking for. Guys would be fun from time to time!

From Candy
Even when I was younger, I think I always felt that 'gay' and 'bisexual' were dumb terms, because in my mind, you don't respond to gender only, but to sexuality. Even now, I feel that bisexuality (with preferences, even never acted upon) is more natural than homo- or heterosexuality. To say, "I haven't found another man/woman who turns me on, and it's not really my thing." is fine to me. I just like open-mindedness.

That said, I often look at other women. Maybe it's because it isn't a very explicit, taboo topic for me, but thinking of being with another woman doesn't do much for me unless it's someone specific. I'd let it happen if the situation came about naturally, but I wouldn't go seeking it. I find mostly I like thinking about breasts - I would sometimes like to freeze the world around me and really explore a woman's body.

Much more potent and arousing is the idea of two men together, preferably not gay, even though I don't know why it should matter. Bisexual men always feature in my fantasies, as do M/M/F threesomes. It's just a hot idea, and yet, surprisingly, I don't always go straight for oral or anal. Sometimes I'd just like to watch a very steamy man-man makeout session with a bit of groping. 

From Adele
Since the age of 14 when I shared my first ever sexual experience with a woman I have always been attracted to the female body.

Me and my boyfriend regularly have threesomes with a friend of mine. She is absolutely stunning and very adventurous. I love nothing better than watching her moan while my boyfriend fucks her. The next morning my boyfriend always leaves us shower together on my demand so I can have her all to myself.

From Anonymous
I am married but constantly have thoughts of having gay sex. I want to meet a gay couple for a threesome and get fucked in the ass (and vice versa) without condoms and really experience what it is like to be gay. I have fantasized about this for years. The problem is finding a couple that I can trust - and not have to worry about diseases.

I like to dress up like a pretty boy at times and I get turned on by looking gay. I wear a speedo and I also get turned on when I see or hear gay men talk. The thought of deep kissing a gay male gets me going. I could see myself engaged in foreplay for a lot longer time with gay men then with a girl.

I hope to experience it one day....

From Anonymous
In a gym locker room I noticed another guy and kept staring at the bulge in his underwear. After awhile he did the same and things went from there. We met later and now I'm not curious any more. It was fun, although I won't hunt for a repeat but won't turn one down either.

From Mike
I am in my 50s and have recently become curious what it would feel like to suck on a cock. However I have absolutely no interest in another man. In fact I don't find men sexually attractive at all. My desire is restricted completely to the penis. I simply want to know the feeling of having one in my mouth. To this end I have found myself intrigued with Transsexuals. I have never encountered one, as far as I know, but they have begun to dominate my fantasy world. I guess it is because I would still be with someone who is female in appearance.

I'm not sure what will come of all this. But if I were ever to have the chance to meet one of these ladies I feel I would jump at the opportunity. I wish I knew where to find these ladies, other than the internet.

From Alexander
I think of myself as definitely heterosexual (but not homophobic) - I choose women over men to watch, talk to, be with, been married forever. Not directly attracted to men at all. We have a male friend who joins us from time to time, has done over the years. We don't actively avoid contact, and have held the others cock when putting it into into my wife for example.

During a recent visit, he was still soft after coming into her and I bent down and took his cock in my mouth. He rapidly became very hard and pulled away, quickly pushed hard into my willing watching wife and came almost immediately. I don't want to kiss him at all, but I realise I would love to both give and receive anal sex with him. It may yet happen as my wife would love to watch that - after we've both come inside her - of course!

From Anonymous
I am a divorced woman of 43 who definitely fantasizes about having erotic sex with another woman. I usually fantasize while masturbating. Some of the thoughts on my mind are positions like 69 and also in the shower with another woman. I would love to feel another woman lick me to orgasm and I do the same to her.

From John
I have fantasized for years about taking a guy's cock in my mouth. I will practice on a realistic dildo we have at home. I have dreamed about being held down or tied over something and screwed from behind. My wife gets very horny from my imaginary stories; we fantasize about me bringing a guy home to put on a show for her. 

I seem to be too timid to act on this, though. At a video arcade I will get a raging erection knowing I'm being watched, but can't quite bring myself to act. Maybe someday. At any rate the stories in my imagination are pretty graphic and lots of fun.

From Nikida Jene
I guess I am bi-curious. My fantasies always start out MF, but usually end up MFF and I think I would really like another woman in my muff.

From Rocky
A few months after I had discovered the joys of masturbation I invited a classmate over for some joyous research! I had shared a few of my secrets with him and I think he was turned on by my honesty and by my naivety at the same time. It turned out that he was much more experienced in his method and his knowledge and that led to some wonderful moments together. But, I absolutely knew that I loved women with a passion so I discouraged his visits after a few brief weeks.

I have always been attracted to women who are bi-sexual although I've often not known that about them until I got to know and trust them. I'm not really interested in same sex relationships with other males but I would certainly entertain the possibility of being with a women who wanted to include another man or woman in the relationship. The key for me would be knowing and genuinely liking the others who I'd share my body and my self with.

From Anonymous
I'm a 23 married female. I had my first female/female experience when I was 15. It was however with my boyfriend in the room, we was playing truth/dare, and he dared us to. We did it, and I enjoyed every minute of it, she did too. After that experience I had sex with more girls than boys until I graduated college. Now I'm married to a wonderful man, but I still enjoy a woman's touch every now and then, and he is absolutely cool with that.

From Meri
I don't necessarily get off on movies unless they're movies intended specifically for that reason. But as far as the mainstream goes, Unfaithful was pretty good. Another one to try is In the Cut with Mark Ruffalo and Meg Ryan (try the uncut directors edition). Shows a little more than your average film. It was written and produced by women and has some good dialogue which is actually sensual without being sappy. Not a bad lesson for inexperienced boys who are wondering what we like.

From Subboy
I'm a 45 year old male. I'm interested in bodybuilding and workout 5-6 times a week. I have had some same sex thoughts but it is usually with a really good looking guy and with another woman. She would "force" me to suck his cock. I also would like to lick his ass.

From Darci
I've always enjoyed looking at other women but thought nothing of it until my ex-husband turned me on to porn. I discovered that lesbian porn really turns me on and have fantasized about making love to another woman for some time now. In my early twenties, I wrote a lesbian erotic piece and got so turned on that I had to finish myself off before I even finished the story.

I've often wondered if I'd be brave enough should the opportunity present itself. I suppose if the circumstances were right that I'd find the courage. I think it would be highly erotic to feel the softness of another woman's lips on mine, to experience the feel of someone else's nipples hardening beneath my touch.

To touch, taste, and see another woman's naked body remains, for the moment, only a fantasy.

From Marilyn M
I grew up with crushes on boys, but I fell face first into a mad crush with a girl when I was 21. I would've done anything for her. She was not only stunningly beautiful but sweet and fun, too. She was so feminine that she made me feel butch. One night I slept over, in her bed, and thought I would die. Eventually, I talked her into letting me kiss her and got to cop a feel of her gorgeous breast. Alas, she was not interested, but I wouldn't really have known what to do then, anyway. 

Since then, I've appreciated the beauty of femme women and even kissed a few but have not been lucky enough to have a real relationship. I am with a wonderful man now who is not sexually experienced, but he is very enthusiastic and willing to learn. He is currently studying a book about how to give oral sex that I gave him. I still wonder about what I am missing, though.

From Anton
I'm a straight male in a heterosexual relationship, and I would say mmf is the stronger fantasy for us both. However, we would probably more readily try ffm, though it really pales in comparison with mmf. I think it's because it may prove to be, shall we say, less stressful. 

But the thought of having my woman pleasured by me and another guy totally blows me away. We have talked about it and fantasized quite a lot, and I would love her to find someone to share her with me. I picture her in various positions -- from the front and the rear, a dick in both holes, on her knees alternating between two dicks, and all the rest. She smiles so damn lustily when I tell her all this. Fantasies are wonderful, but they need to come true, sooner or later. Maybe soon!

From Jeff
I've walked around with nothing on in front of another man a couple of times, and even though I feel I'm not gay, I wanted them to see me and make a suggestion. It's never happened. I didn't have the guts to show off an erection either, which probably didn't help, but I was just too scared I guess.

I did have a conversation with another guy at a bar one evening, and told him I loved to masturbate. He said he did too, and he gave me his card. He seemed straight too, but I've thought about what it would be like to watch him get off, and have him watch me get off. I'd consider rubbing his penis for him and watch his expression as he shot his cum. Wow.

From Jay
Actually, I experienced an MMF situation more than once, but one will always remain with me. I'd gotten off work late, and came home to an apartment of visitors from out of town, all drinking wine. Nothing had yet happened, but you could cut the tension in the room with a butter knife. Without much delay, I was kissing my girlfriend passionately, and when her friend came over to us, I pulled her head down to us, kissed her and then they kissed. I was delighted by the tenderness.

Later, as I saw my girlfriend being licked by one of the guys, I masturbated him a bit, and he immediately responded with a moan of pleasure. I tasted his dick briefly and sometimes wish I'd kept it up.

A few months later, another guy who'd been there was sleeping in the same room as I was, and I, almost deftly, pulled down his underwear and sucked him to orgasm as my girlfriend watched. She was upset and I wonder to this day if maybe I'm gay. But it sure was fun!

From Cat
There I was being naively unaware that same sex was an option and thinking I just didn't like it very much when I met the woman that decided to broaden my horizons.

My God, did she. As soon as I had shared an all too short holiday with her I became a 'babe magnet' as she put it and suddenly I realised what I was missing or in the case of men - what I wasn't missing. I am definitely lesbian now, but for a while I went back to men. One of the other contributors says it made the straight sex better. Well, my males partners agree with her. They said I was a better partner, but now alas, I realised what I was missing. Now I wouldn't return if I were offered it on a plate (I know for a fact as I have been - by one of my best male friends).

From Anonymous
I have not been in a 3-some, but my ex-girlfriend and I seriously discussed both types. I was and remain far more interested in a FFM than the other. Although I agree that for her, I am surprised that she wasn't most interested and that she didn't set up the MFM. That was to be set up with her other (also ex-) boyfriend. Partly I was interested in watching and some participation to watch her unbelievable thrill.  The 3-some was to be arranged such that they'd begin and I would later have some sex with her then have anal sex and then he'd join. I couldn't help but be excited at the possibility for her, though I have no interests whatsoever in he and I ever touching.

These 3-somes, with 2 women and me still seem like they'd have been the most fun ... at least for me. Like me, she still has not participated in a 3-some, but (for some reason!?) also thinks the FFM would've been the greatest.

From Anonymous
I've thought about having sex with another man often and probably just oral. I've viewed pictures of two men in a 69 position and must admit that I became intrigued. Haven't tried it yet and if the situation ever presents itself I'd have to wonder. The thought of both of us nude and hard doing each other creates an awesome mental vision.

From Anonymous
I have to admit the curiosity has grown over the years. I think what I like is the fantasy and sensual aspects of sex with another man but not in reality. I think about how it would feel to suck a cock and feel him come in my mouth. Or to either fuck or be fucked in the ass. But when I see other guys at the beach in their thongs they never appeal to me physically.

Maybe in the right place, right time, especially if it were a mfm encounter. But I am not incline to lie or cheat to my wife. I don't think in a 1000 years she would ever want a threesome and I have to admit it will probably never happen.

From Ghost Rider
Sorry people, I'm broad minded on a lot of things but this just isn't one of them. I have to agree with Andrew "Dice" Clay and one of the tapes that he made. In reference to guys and guys. Just can't see looking at a hairy ass and thinking "Yes man, I've just got to have that." Nor can I see playing the rump ranger. Smoking the phony bologna just isn't my cup of tea. Especially when there is all of those nice vagina's out there just whispering "Eat Me, Eat Me." Who in their right mind can say no to a delicacy of this quality. 

There is no comparison when you are trying to make a man's ass match up to a woman's ass. A woman is softer, rounded, and smoother than a man. She is more desirable sexually than a man to other men in my opinion.

From M
I think The House Of Flying Daggers is a gorgeous movie. The love story is so wonderful and everything is visually very pleasing. The love scenes are not too graphic, but they're very sensual. The eye-kissing is pretty romantic and at the same time very animalistic.

From Jake
I have long been curious (and long fantasized) but not enough to do anything about it. Finally in my late forties I decided I had to find out what being with a guy was like. I made an Internet search which lasted 8 months because I was being careful and picky. 

Finally I found another married guy who was also careful but bi. We met at a restaurant - I was excited but very nervous. We shared three glasses of wine. I liked him, I was ready. We went to his hotel room (he was on business travel). We took off our clothes, got in his bed and began to kiss, carress and hug. We sucked each other, it was very pleasureable. I wasn't sure I could actually "Do" anything - whether my fantasy would maybe not translate to reality, but it did. After a while I came, as did he. 

I'm glad I tried it - but funny - I'm not fantasizing about guys as much. The experience was worth it, but I think I'm closer to the hetero side than bi.

From Anonymous
No I haven't, yes I want to I cant wait until the day I have a huge hard cock in my mouth! O my god, I have always imagined it..

From Doug Campbell
The first time it happened, I wasn't sure if I wanted to go along with it. I was with a couple, taking her doggy-style while hubby licked her clit. After some time, he suggested that I withdraw so that he could taste his wife's juices on my cock. I was too aroused to spend much time debating with myself whether or not to comply, and just did it. It felt good, and even better the next time, once I had crossed "the barrier". 

I now consider myself bisexual, yet would step over any number of guys to get at a lady. However, I would also step over a number of ladies (not sure how many though!) to get to a couple. Mmm!

From Anonymous
Although it has never happened, if it felt right I would jump at the chance to have sex with a another man. I would love to give them oral and be taken anally by a well hung man. My fantasy is to be used by a group of men. I'll probably always think women are beautiful but a well muscled man is very hot.

From Anonymous
Right after I became separated a friend came over one evening and revealed he was in fact bisexual. He also told me he was particularly good at giving oral sex. At first I was not interested but later I have to admit I was. I thought about it and even wanted to screw him anally. I never got the nerve to actually let him do either. I later remarried.

From Phillip
In the right situation, at the right time, with the right person....yes. (sounds like fantasy doesn't it?)

I've had one same sex relationship quite some time ago with my best friend at the time who came out to me as bisexual and expressed his interest in the two of us being together. It took several months of internal questioning, doubt, denial and then erotic curiosity before I finally decided to be honest and admit that I was interested too. We ended up sleeping together maybe a dozen times or more. Each time was slightly more relaxed and more erotic. It got to the point where I had no hesitation about initiating sex with him. Calm, relaxed, mutual, erotic and passionate. However, since that time my sexual relationships have been exclusively with women.

I would always have described myself as heterosexual and still do. I find women so much more interesting physically, sexually and emotionally. But I have to admit to having fantasies still about same sex relations. There have been over the years, on very rare occasion, maybe two or three times, when I've seen or met someone and thought... "Here's someone I wouldn't mind being sexual with, I wonder if he feels the same way I do?..." but I've not acted on it to this point.

A short time ago a girlfriend of mine expressed a fantasy of hers about watching and participating with two bisexual males (which I think is a rather rare female fantasy) and wanted to know if I would be interested. (she knows about this part of my sexual history).

My answer?.. In the right situation, at the right time, with the right person....yes.

From Espirit du stylo
My lover has an incredible and very unique gift. Doctors have told her that she is 1 in 10,000 people who responds to touch in a very interesting way. A light scratch/touch causes red streaks that stay for up to ten minutes at a time on her body. My lover loves the touch sensation. Being a nationally certified massage therapist she is incredibly sensitive to touch in the giving and especially the receiving. 

For me, a very giving fellow, the MMF threesome is the more excitable; as it would be xxtremely xxciting to watch her respond, rather orgasmically, the incredible touch sensation. She is also a red head, and 4' 11" and has a beautifully white complexion. Even though she is quite small, she can take a rather large cock. 

Again, I believe the MMF, especially with a black man would be incredibly erotic from the touch, the color contrast, and the fucking of a large cock. Hmmm—I'm hard just imagining the scenario.

From Dave
Same sex? Would I ever? The answer is yes to both questions. I am a 56 year old married male who had always fantisized about being with another man ever since I was in high school. I wondered what it was like to touch another man's erect penis, feel it's hardness, see what it tasted like and see how it felt inserted in my anus, feel the warm sperm dribble out once my friend had unloaded deep inside me. Yes I have tried it. I would do it again, if given the chance but I am not gay and told my friend so before we started our encounter.

From Anonymous
I just came back from vacation and had the opportunity to have a same sex experience. In fact I had a MMM with a second opportunity to have a MM. I have to admit I was open to such an experience and don't regret it. But I must admit, that although it was fun but frankly I prefer the touch and smell of a woman. The feeling isn't not quite right with a man.

I do think that given the circumstances if you have an opportunity and are open minded you should try it. This way you learn what you don't want as well as what you do!

From Anonymous
I can say that my wife and myself have been there and done that many times over both with another female and male. As for me I kinda like when there is another male doing her.

She loves the fact that having two guys doing everything and anything to her without pain is a great turn on. The one time I can remember was the time we both put our cocks in her pussy at the same time. That drove her nuts and let let me tell you the sheet didn't have a dry spot on it.

For all you girls who want to do this, be open with your lover and express just what it is that you want and you might just get your wish. Good luck and have fun

From a bi-guy
I'm a 50 yr old divorced male and I had my first encounter with another boy at age 13. I started the whole idea while talking about oral sex one day. I offered to give him oral sex and at first he wouldn't accept my offer. We talked about it and after much discussion he finally said "ok". His biggest fear was that I wanted him to give me oral back after I was done. He was much relieved when I told him that if he wanted to I'd let him, but I was more interested in doing him. We laughed and I went down on him and we both loved it! 

That was the end of my bisexuality until I got divorced 25 years later. I am now a happy bisexual man and enjoy both sexes immensely, but I am more into sex with men due to the fact that my first sexual experience was with another male. I encourage everyone to explore your bisexual urges because you can never be truly happy if keep your fantasies in your mind only. Be free and explore your desires.

From Beau
I don't see the point of drawing hard lines with respect to sexual preference. If something turns me on, I will try it without guilt.

I had a steady "blow-buddy" in high school, but that was 10 years ago. I enjoyed hooking up with him very much. I mostly went down on him, although he eventually developed quite a taste for my cock. I enjoyed sucking dick because it made me feel feminine and beautiful. My penis was mostly limp during these encounters. I used to tell my blow-buddy I was his girlfriend, and he would laugh and deny it. He said "Beau, you're not a woman."

Having read my last paragraph, one might think that I am a flaming "bottom" gay man. But I actually make quite a hobby of chasing women. I just enjoy sex and I love breaking the inherent tension I find in any non-sexual relationship (regardless of what sex(es) are involved). It really annoys me to have a relationship of any kind with someone but not have sex. Even more than sex, I enjoy the first sexual kiss with a woman (or man, I suppose) and I think that barrier and how it is breached is an interesting mystery.

Overall, my theory is that I am a very horny heterosexual and my longing for the opposite sex sometimes becomes so intense that I want to adopt a female role.

From Anonymous
Yes I would. I'm a 28 year old male and I tried it once before. It was great. I'm not gay and I have a girlfriend but I'm definitely bi. I got to parade around the house in little thong underwear and wear stockings and thigh highs. I loved it. 

I loved the oral sex, I love it with women, but with a cock it was more exciting. Even when he came time to blow, I wasn't going to let it get on me, but I was so into it I swallowed some, and let him put in on my face. Kissing him was a little weird, I prefer women when it comes to kissing, but I still got really horny. Putting our penis together and masturbating together was also really erotic. 

We met a couple of times, nothing serious, but every time was truly amazing, I still dream about it. Being touched by another man, while wearing stockings, and thongs is really erotic.

From Frank
The thought of having sex with another guy never crossed my mind or my buddies. We shared an apartment for six months. We were both 23 years old and always out looking for women at night clubs, bars, parties etc. After working out of town for 2 weeks I arrived home on a Friday evening and again my room mate Steve and I went out drinking. We had no luck with the women that night and returned home late only to find that the heater in my waterbed had malfunctioned so the bed was to cold to sleep on. Stave suggested I sleep on his bed which we had done twice in the past for one reason or another.

Within minutes after the lights went out I felt this poke on my backside. He suggested we do each other because it was obvious we were both very horny. After a short talk I relented thinking after a few humps it will be over. Not quite. We took turns screwing each other and with different positions. It was wild to say the least. Oral sex was never a thought, just getting off was. (Although I wonder now what it would be like) We never did it again and never really talked about it much after.

We both got married and had families. Now, over twenty years later my wife just started using a strap-on at my request. It brings back memories of my buddy doing me. It feels great but she wishes she could sense what a real cock feels like. I'm sure she would be a better lay if she had the feeling. My friend was awesome. There was no attraction between us, getting off was the only objective. No strings attached.

From Dianne
I am a 26 year old bi female, I've only been with 3 woman in my life, mostly just for curiosity. I did have 1 female roommate 6 years ago that I had a sexual relationship with. We both had boyfriends but enjoyed pleasuring each other when they weren't around. We'd take showers together, take turns masturbating each other and have the best orgasms together. I'm married now and don't see her to much but I sure do miss the way she tasted, yummy.

From Anonymous
I have been married for three years. The first time I had a sexual encounter with another man was about a month before I met my wife five years ago. I have always looked at beautiful men and beautiful women since I was a teenager. I think that both sex is wonderful, I can do things with her that I couldn't do with a him, and vice versa. 

I find it hard to meet men that I would feel safe with, I just get chickened out. There is a married man who is a friend of my sister's and I have always dreamed of the things I would do to him. I get a vibe sometimes if we are around each other and I just don't know how to find out if he is interested in me or not. It is a wish of mine, to be having sex with another married man, but its so hard to find one.

From Rita
Having looked at other women and wondering how it would be tends to make me believe that if the situation presented itself I would. My boyfriend is constantly asking me if I find this one or that one attractive so I believe he's all for it. Having not yet done this I think I'd rather be with her a few times before then allow my boyfriend to watch only. I wouldn't want an emotional attachment as I have that. 

I would like to feel another women's body next to mine and explore. Being a member of a health club gives me the opportunity to view women in the locker room and get quite turned on. Unfortunately nothing has ever presented itself there and I'm too nervous to ask anyone. I keep watching the eyes hoping that I see a spark of interest.

From Anonymous
I am now 51 and have recently had advances by women quite often: grocery store, mall, basketball games. I must admit I have been tempted. I would love to feel a woman suck my tits and my clit. Who knows a woman and what she wants better than another woman...Houston we have a problem....but the feel of a penis is a wonderful thing. Who knows maybe a threesome would be a thrill

From Jenn
I have been in a committed relationship with a man for the past eight years, and for the past few have been seriously interested in including a woman in our sex life. I often find myself looking at other women, prefer watching or reading ffm porn, and even have highly erotic dreams about women. I've shared this with my boyfriend, and come to the conclusion that although I am technically a virgin in the girl/girl department I am bi-sexual. Looking back, I've always had crushes on girls and boys, but didn't know until I was older that girls could be sexually interested in other girls. I grew up in a very small town.

However, I can't seem to get my boyfriend past the 'talking about it' stage. I've thought about going out and finding a woman on my own, but really don't like the whole looking for sexual partners online scene. He seems to feel that he wouldn't be able to perform to his usual standard if there were a third person involved, and spending my entire sexual life knowing how to get a guy into bed with me, I find women intimidating, and would appreciate his help since he's spent his entire sexual life knowing how to get a woman into bed with him.

What I was really surprised about though, was the numerous mention of fear of emotional involvement with members of the same sex. I've had sex with men plenty of times that had no emotional involvement whatsoever, so why would I expect a sexual encounter with a woman to be emotional either? It's not as if I would be looking for an emotional relationship, just another girl's body to enjoy.

I keep hoping that I will be able to explore the rest of my sexuality some day, and really hope that my boyfriend will be able to be involved in it.

From SouthernDeepImpact
There's probably a clinical name for guys like me. I really, really get off fantasizing about getting ass- fucked by guys, and giving deep-throat blow-jobs. I even indulge these fantasies with a collection of 8 to 12 inch jelly dongs. And I love it.

However, the idea of actually doing it, when I'm actually in the company of other guys is a real turn off. I never see the guy who I think "yeah, I want him to fuck me." The fantasy is one thing, but the reality is quite another.

For that reason, I'm pretty sure I'm straight hetero. (My wife will be relieved!) But the fantasy of a homosexual encounter is really attractive.

I'm pretty certain I cannot be actually gay because I just cannot make the emotional attachment that would be necessary. I think real gay people have real emotional connections to their partners. I can't do that. Even in the fantasy, it's just about sex and nothing more.

So I'd say that makes me straight with homo-erotic fantasies. Oh! But what fantasies they are!

From Matt
Just to speak for the other side, I can honestly say I've never wondered whether I might be bi. I'm heterosexual. This isn't a decision I've made, it's the result of many years of observing my own reactions. I'm 51 years old, and I've literally never thought that a m-m experience might be interesting. I love to look at pretty women, and I almost can't help looking if the woman is naked. 

But, if I watch a porn film, the minute a man appears my eyes automatically turn to the side and my erection vanishes. I'm one of those guys who can't tell whether other men are good-looking or not. It's not just a Seinfeld bit, I really can't tell. Men just look like men. I can sometimes tell when a man is particularly ugly, but that's it.

I have nothing against bisexuality, I consider it to be an advantage. But it's an advantage I don't have.

From JJ
I think of myself as straight, because I only find women's face and ass attractive, but sometimes I fantasize about having a guy fuck me up my ass and me suck his dick, I met a guy my age (21) to fuck, but I wussed out, I don't know what to do!

From klittykat
My first clitoral orgasm was in the 2nd grade. A pretty little dark-skinned girl named Dawn rubbed her pussy against mine in the girl's bathroom and gave me the best feeling of my life! I have the same orgasms today, but there achieved with my fingers or my husband's tongue (a much more intense orgasm I might add). But I long for the day when I can get my hands on a woman who wants to grind pussies with me all day.

From L
When I was young, I had a same sex experience. A neighbor asked me to let him suck me off. I do so on several occasions. Then I found I wished to do as much to him. I do so and found I liked it however not enough to really pursue it further. Years later, I had another real change to do so again, however I turned it down. I think we all are or can be attracted to our own sex. One must cross that line. If one can so be it, I could never really do it.

From Rob
I think the majority of readers are in the 20s to 30s age range. I would love to hear from you older guys and gals. I'm 69 and love all facets of sex. I had a good friend that sucked me off many times. His favorite fantasy was to have me fuck his wife with my huge cock (Grab you left wrist with your right hand, that's what it felt like) and fill it with cum then he could get down there and lick it out. But now he is gone and I miss him a lot. 

I can no longer get an erection due to medical problems but I enjoy seeing a large hard cock. I wish we could meet a guy both my wife and I liked so he could fuck her while I licked her clit. Then pull his cock out every little bit so I could suck on it. Then when he shot his load, I'd clean both him and the wife with my tongue. I am still able have an orgasm with my simi-soft cock and squirt pee across the room. It feels nearly as good as the real thing. So lets hear it from the old farts.

From Brigitta
Although I have never participated in any sexual activity with another woman, the curiosity is definitely there. I have always found the female body attractive - like art. I was brought up in ballet school and have always appreciated the female body as a work of art. The way we can make our bodies flow with grace and flexibility - no wonder men love us so much! I have always enjoyed looking at pictures of naked women noticing the differences in each body form. I have revealed these thoughts to my boyfriend and I think he enjoys how turned on I get by other women.

I have expressed a fantasy that I have - not really sure I want it to come true, but I would like to be seduced by a woman who has experience in this area. I don't want it to be someone I know or would see out in public. I wonder what it would be like to feel the smooth skin of another woman, to kiss her breasts, to slide my tongue inside her pussy tasting her excitement. Part of me wants to do this with my boyfriend watching.

Perhaps this will be the year of new experiences.

From Karen
I started finding myself "turned on" when I would look at the porno magazines my husband often had hidden around the house. I never really thought about being attracted to a woman. I did however find myself attracted to to the women in the magazines. I have always been turned off to what people refer to as "dykes" and "butch" women. I don't know why. But I have found myself having overwhelming desire to have sex with a "hot, young beautiful" woman. And I don't particularly want a woman "doing" me...I want to "do her". (other than kissing). 

I particularly want to wear a strap on and fuck a hot looking babe silly with it. Anal...all of it. I want to eat her out, but I don't want a woman doing that to me. Is there some term for that? I wonder what makes me that way? I love men, love sex with men...I especially love the feel of big strong arms wrapped around me. I just have had this fantasy about women for many years. I am 42.

From Loretta
My roommate and I (both female) are happily bisexual. One of our most enjoyable experiences is making love to each other after having sex with our male partners. Naked we slowly take turns on top and drive each other crazy. As we orgasm, we put our fingers in our own cunts and then deep into each other. We pretend we've impregnated each other.

From Mermaid
I get very very turned on w/ the thought of making love to a beautiful woman as I am a beautiful woman myself. I am dying to go down on a woman, to experience the sensation of what if feels like to taste, smell, and give the pleasure to another woman as well as receive the same. I fantasize all the time when I am masturbating, about being with a woman. When I am making love to my male partner, I imagine him licking both of us women at the same time as well as him watching us two women rubbing on top of ea other while he slides himself between us and this makes my pleasure so extreme that it can't be put into words. 

In reality, I don't know if I could do it. I want to ask him to get us a beautiful escort for one night but I am afraid to cross a line that can't be taken back. I sometimes would like to secretly just experience this on my own.

From Lizbeth
I find women to be quite attractive. A woman's body can definitely arouse me. I love breasts, thighs, ass etc., but I've never actually had the urge to have sex with another woman. Although I am curious about what it would be like, I doubt I'd ever do it.

From Greg
I have had girlfriends who just are no good at oral sex. I, of course, love it! Solution? There are plenty of "married guy cruising" websites where you can come by (no pun intended) a partner to get the relief desired by someone who obviously LOVES what they're doing, with no strings attached. I don't consider myself gay, just getting certain needs met.

From Anonymous
Yes, I've been interested in other men for as long as I can remember, but very much as a sideline to women. All my experiences (there have been about five) have been in gay bathhouses at the end of a long night on the town, and I've found them a wonderful way to unwind.

Have given anal but not received - that's something for a future visit - but from my experiences other men are fun, but not the end all and be all.

From Rebecca
Yes I have done it and would do it again many times over. I love being with a man also, but women are so much more sensual and woman are just more lovely to look at. A woman's body is art no matter what shape or size. I am attracted to people, not because of their sex, but for who they are, that is what attracts me. So if its a man good or a woman, either way it is the person that turns me on, not their sex.

From Anonymous
I was always curious about being with another woman, and I was fortunate to have the opportunity to explore this. I feel like a bit of a failure in some ways because it just didn't do anything for me, but I'm really glad I tried it, and it cleared the whole "am I aren't I" thing up.

From Bill
I am happily married and enjoy a great sex life with my wife. However, I have over the years, had many a moment when I had fantasized about men. Then about a year ago, an opportunity presented itself that went further than I before. 

I met this guy in a social setting and we were having some great laughs. Well as the night wears on he asks some of us back to his place for a nightcap. About 4 of us (men and women) go over there and we are all having one last drink. As the rest get up to go, I am not quite finished with my drink and opt to stay longer. Well frankly, this guy was attractive to me and as I finished my drink he got up to give me a hug and we just locked lips and kissed for a long time. To make a long story short, we ended up watching each other masturbate to completion. He has since moved from the area but I often think of him now and what we did not try.

From Jack
I would never ever ever. I think all of us have a part of us that is attracted to the opposite sex and a part that is attracted to the same sex, and that percentage varies considerably from person to person. I rate myself as being very close to 100% attracted to the female form. I'm turned off by men, all that hair, the muscles, etc. The moment woman start behaving like men (like farting, drinking a lot, being aggressive, competitive) then I'm not at all attracted to them either. 

Once or twice I dreamed about having sex with a man, and I woke up disgusted! I'm glad I'm attracted to woman and woman only. I don't think being 100% heterosexual is anything to do with being homophobic or about social conditioning. I just love women. I think they are gorgeous. I fantasy and masturbate about them all the time. I love how they walk, how they smell and the sound of their voices. They are the complete opposite of what I am. I also appreciate my woman to be the kind that goes for the masculine man, not the farting belching type, but the strong and physical type. I like it when my woman fancies me more just because I haven't shaved for a couple of days, or because I've just walked off the football pitch, or because I've been doing DIY.

From Dan
I have thought about this through the years occasionally but have never had a same sex experience. To me its about my own secularity or 'sexualness' and to experience it from a 'different angle'. Also it is a curiosity about how the female sees the male genitals and what she experiences.

There's also an academic perspective in which I wonder if I could or would even get aroused during a same sex encounter. What would my feelings be of deriving sexual pleasure from a man and how would I feel about giving sexual pleasure to a man?

If the opportunity came around I think the only things that I would be interested in would be mutual masturbation and giving and receiving oral sex. I've always wondered what it was like for a woman to have a man ejaculate into her mouth and also how would I feel about ejaculating into a man's mouth.

There are a lot of questions like these that cause me to be curious although I'm not sure I would ever actually do it, especially with STD concerns.

From Spiky Wench
Occasionally yes. But really, my interest in men is so much more passionate and overriding. I really cannot understand why people say the female form is so much more beautiful. I personally find it dull and bland compared to the beauty of a young, strong, smooth-skinned lad.

From Anonymous
I'd like to experiment with gay/bi guys in my area. Where's the best safe place to find someone?

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From Carly Robertson
I am twice married now. The first time I was married I had a sexual experience with a woman. After my first marriage fell apart, not because of the affair with a woman, I decided that I was bisexual. I had many encounters with both men and women. I am now married again and very happy. But my mind has shifted and my Journalistic mind has begun to write Erotica. It's great! Women and men, are awesome!

From Raven
I am basically heterosexual, but I think that I have always been interested in other men's bodies. I first began to discover my bisexuality when looking at porn magazines and movies, and I realised that I was turned on as much by the men's cocks as by the other activities. Eventually I made contact with a very learned bisexual Presbyterian minister who assures me that not only does the Bible not specifically forbid homosexual conduct, but that in the ancient world before the advent of Christianity it was considered normal for young men to indulge each other - partly as a means of preserving the young ladies' virginity before marriage.

As for me, I eventually took the plunge in a gay sauna just to see whether that was the experience I was looking for. Did I enjoy it? Well yes and no. I have since tried it on 4 - 5 more occasions and while I do find interacting with men sexually quite exciting on a recreational basis, I have yet to find any satisfaction on an emotional level. I have been with a steady and loving relationship with a woman for over two years now, with frequent and great quality sex. In that time have indulged in my bisexual side once. That was interesting, but mostly confirmed that overall I am most attracted to the charms and mysteries of the female body.

From Tony
I had an experience when I was young with a friend, I was too young to appreciate it. Since then I had been taught that this is "wrong" and felt guilty about it. I still haven't told anyone about it, not even my g/f.. 

I would love to experience it as an adult. I would love nothing better than performing oral on a man and having him "do" me as my g/f watched. I'm not turned on by men kissing, its more of a penis fetish. I have fantasized with my g/f about my desires and we are trying to make these fantasies reality. I am fixated on m/m/f 3somes and can hardly wait to experience my own. I love the taste of my own cum and really want someone to come in my mouth and ass.

From Chris
Yes I have, and yes I would again. I had my first m/m (actually, m/m/m) experience as a youth and felt so guilty that I didn't do it again for a long time. But I never stopped thinking about it. I have been married for a while, but a few years ago I was chatting with a lot of people on the internet and met a gay man who lived near me. I went to his house and we kissed, sucked and he used a dildo in me. It was great! I really had a good time and was sorry nothing more ever came of it.

The hardest parts for me are (1) finding interested individuals and (2) dealing with the guilt. It isn't like there are people out there walking around with "yes, I am interested" buttons. There really should be ways for interested individuals to find others in their areas who are interested in encounters, both those that might lead to something more and those that could just be a one-time shot. As far as the guilt, it primarily has to do with being raised "Christian" and having the experiences go against the teachings of the traditional church. That has changed in some instances and with some churches, but homosexual encounters (and thus bisexuality) still are considered by "society" as abnormal. Which seems odd, since most people seem to think, as individuals, that same- sex encounters are no big deal, even those who say they aren't interested.

I look forward to having another chance, but I am not going to hold my breath!

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From Phil
I'm a 28 year old virgin that masturbates fantasizing about women, but I once had a nude man look at me as I laid on the beach nude and he asked me if I would let him jerk off my dick. I let him and it felt good but I still long to be with a woman. Nude men are OK but nude women turn me on.

From Amy
While I'm biologically wired with a physical and emotional attraction to men, I have always found myself able to enjoy the feminine form, in an almost intellectual way, like a taste for fine wine.

As my husband and I are very open and honest with one another, and always have been, we can enjoy this together. In fact, when I was 20, it was he who encouraged me to pursue a woman. She and I had met, made friends, but oddly talked at length about how we were not attracted to one another.

"No two people who aren'tT attracted to one another spend this much time talking about not being attracted to one another! Now go get her!"

So I did. We had a brief but enjoyable fling, and I hope to do so again in the future should the right person present herself.

From Dane
I am basically hetero sexual but in early college years had some M/M sexual experience with my college roommate. Never emotionally involved with him just another way to get off when you weren't getting any with women. We helped each other to jack off and sucked some too but never came in each other's mouths. It was hot and I did find his body attractive. I still enjoy pix of hard cocks being sucked by women or masturbated. I am happily married too and Bi sex is only fantasy fodder now.

From Jenny
Yes I have, and yes I would again. I have had many bi- sexual experiences, and two semi-serious "girlfriends" while I've been married to my very understanding husband. My first experience was when I was 21, and I realized that I had been interested in other girls since I was about 12, but didn't realize it. It felt very freeing to admit it (at least to myself, my husband and my best friend) and felt like I could relax and enjoy sex more in general, even with my husband. It really opened up our sex life together- we felt more comfortable expressing our needs to each other, and he enjoyed hearing stories about my girlfriends.

I think we should all be able to enjoy sex with whomever we want - with respect to age, consent, etc. We should be able to do what feels good with other willing and consenting adults, no matter if they are same sex or opposite sex. I hope others realize their inner desires and act on them as I did. It can be a very positive experience and can really help you see yourself more clearly.

From Paige
Why is it necessary to label sexuality at all? Why can't we simply be sexual? I have had hetero and bi/homo sexual experiences and enjoyed them (or not enjoyed them) regardless of the orientation. I like men and women, whether individually or in a group, matters not. It's about the whole person, their scent, their feel, their mind. It's not just the genitalia!

From Bookwormly
I've never had a desire to be with another guy emotionally, and I find the male body way less attractive than the female form. But, the thought of playing with another penis has been on my mind for a long time, and recently I had the chance to act on it. It was as much fun as I thought it would be; having said that, it was a genital thing only, and I was very conscious that I had little interest in the person attached to the genitals. This made me feel ... less.

From Lee
Yes, I have. Yes, I would again.

I was bi-curious for many years, and had one small experience when I was but 20. It wasn't until I met Terrie on the internet that my curiosity flared to life again. Terrie flew in from New Orleans where she lived to my home in North Carolina.

My husband vacated the bedroom for the duration of her visit, and Terrie was very gentle in showing me the ropes. I've adored her ever since, and we still talk via the Internet.

I am now retired from corporate America, and write erotica. Living with two men, and my experiences with Terrie have made me a better writer, because I have been there and done that.

From Scott
This is an interesting subject. I don't find men sexually attractive at all. But on occasion my best friend and I have pleasured each other sexually. For us there is a major difference between helping each other get off and being attracted to each other. We have both sucked and fucked each other off. But in the end it is a sort of hollow feeling compared to the passion and feeling of fucking a woman. More like a masturbation aid then anything more.

I do think more straight men should drop their homophobic fears and experience same sex stimulation though. In my case it increased my understanding for loving for the female body and sexuality. But what the hell, in a bind I can get off with a guy even though in that case it is just physical with no real meaning.

From M
I have thought about it. I have wanted to know what it would be like to go down on a man. To have a play about, but kissing would be a real turn off. I have wondered what it would be like to be fucked up the ass by a cock, hell it feels good with a dildo. 2 reasons why not: 1) would not know where to start about it, and 2) wife would not like it I think.

From Georgie
Have I ever wondered? Of course. Have I acted on it? Finally!

An adults only party and a few adult beverages and plenty of sexual innuendo caused 'us girls' to get rather carried away. But the husbands didn't seem to mind. So the only thing that followed us upstairs was a "have a good time" and we did.

Making love to a woman is an intensely different experience. I don't think it's something I would want exclusively, but now and again it would be great.

Now my husband fantasizes about a threesome with her. But we don't think her husband would be nearly as agreeable.

From Jay
I have never had a sexual encounter with other males and find the idea of giving or receiving anal sex from a guy an unattractive prospect. Having said that, since puberty I always had some fantasies about mutual masturbation with my best friend and certain other guys.

It is no doubt a form of Narcissism but I often found the sight of myself in the mirror or friends in the changing room in their briefs quite a turn-on; I was fascinated by the way male genitals bulged. In my teens just putting on a pair of contour pouch briefs made me want to masturbate, and I sometimes did whilst looking at pictures of guys in underwear in clothing catalogues. Once when I went to college wearing such underwear I could not concentrate all day for thinking how I wanted my friend to jerk me off.

If the circumstances had been right I would definitely have gone this far. Guys in their early twenties sometimes give me a twinge of bi-curiosity though only if they have a muscular physique, fairly hairless body and are not effeminate.

Once when I was in my early twenties I had a major fantasy involving a guy of this description and of the same age who worked at a trendy clothing store. It was sparked by an occasion when he handed me pairs of trousers to try on in the changing cubicle as I was wearing only tee-shirt and briefs. For months after I had masturbation fantasies of him fellating me in the cubicle but I would immediately feel guilty after ejaculation, such is the repression brought about by society. 

Though I would never call myself bi-sexual I still regret never having mutually masturbated with that guy, my friend or another male who made me bi-curious.

From Cathy
When I was a girl I knew I had feelings for other girls. I didn't understand it so I ignored it. After that it was a matter of shyness. It took until my 40's to look for someone and a male friend helped me. He brought her to my house and I was stricken with her wonderful smile and the fact that she was shy too. We talked and danced and then she kissed me. That was absolutely the best! I love to kiss men but this was different. Softer more gentle quite sexy. 

We hugged and our breasts pressed against one another set me on fire. My friend sat very quiet on the chair watching, only. I was glad about that. Somehow we managed up on the sofa without our clothes. We touched, kissed and giggled. Somehow I became the pursuer and slowly crept down her body to kiss her lips. I panic not knowing what I'd do if I didn't like it. Ha, no chance! We landed up in bed playing, talking and kissing. 

We still see each other occasionally and talk on the phone. When we walked back to the living room our friend smiled and said' look's like we got a match'. We all laughed. I slept quite well that night. There has been others not as much lately. I think it's harder to find someone as you get older. I still can be shy.

From Dick
Oh, God yes! I've had some wonderful, satisfying experiences with a close male friend, and loved every minute of it! We enjoyed some shared and mutual masturbation and were both totally comfortable with each other.

Obviously, the key to a satisfying, memorable experience is knowing in advance that the other person feels the same as you regarding a same sex experience. It's certainly not for everyone, but there is a certain knowledge between same sex couples about how they like to receive pleasure; they understand how their parts work.

In retrospect, I wouldn't change a thing. We both enjoyed ourselves immensely.

From Julius
Easy for me to answer. Never wondered, never considered. No curiosity. The female is so overwhelmingly attractive she has no competition in my eyes. I'm just amazed that she finds the male attractive at all. Why aren't you all lesbians?

From Brenna
Hmmm... Never have. Have had offers, and I turned them down because it's not really my thing. Have I wondered? Sure. I am starting to wonder if we ALL wonder, and it's just whether or not you ever admit that you did wonder. Did I wonder at the period in my life when I had offers? No. I can't say that I ever had back then. Maybe it comes in its own time to each of us? I don't really know. Would I consider it if someone asked me today? I really can't say, but I doubt I'd say "no" quite as quickly...quicker if the woman doesn't appeal than if it's some other reason making me beg off.

From Zillah
Don't get me wrong, I do love men... although I'm a lot pickier about what I find attractive in men, and interestingly enough physical attraction to a man is never enough, he has to have a brain. Women I can find attractive (read intoxicating) on a more physical level, the way the look, smell, the shade of their skin, the way the light plays in their hair. Perhaps being pagan I have an easier time identifying the divine in women. Thus the need to worship. Interestingly enough for all my wanton ramblings, I have only a handful of female friends and get along on a personal level much better with men. So either I've got some deep psychological unsettlings, or I was a man in a past life... I'll opt for the latter.

From Barbara
I figured out in college that my basic sexual template is heterosexual. I love women as people and friends. I enjoy viewing beautiful nude women the same way I enjoy seeing beautiful works of art.

On the other hand, I do know that if I became good friends with a woman and it turned out that she was sexually attracted to me, I believe I would be able to respond and enjoy making love with her.

At the same time, I would never be able to remain faithful to her because I would still crave physical intercourse with a man.

So, in conclusion. I believe I could be bisexual but only if there was true emotional involvement. I wouldn't be able to make love to another woman on the basis of lust. I would need an emotional commitment first.

From Sunday
When I was younger I was curious, and I experimented. Actually a great deal of experimentation. I am happily married to a man, a wonderful man now and have been for 13 years. I was very open and honest with him about that part of my life, and he did have concerns. I still see women that make me go "WOW!" And over the years Hubby and I have had our adventures... I have to say that the human form is a beautiful thing, both male and female, each for their own distinct reasons. I appreciate both. I think what attracted me to women, well, certain women, was the whole package. It isn't just about the physical, but also the intellectual and emotional connection women share with each other. We can often talk to our female friends about things that we find it hard to share with our husbands.

From Diane
I quite freely admit to enjoying the female form. As an artist, I definitely find women attractive, often more so than men, although I'm not gay. I have always been open to the possibility of a same sex fling or, perhaps even, relationship although I've never had the opportunity. If one arose, and it seemed like a good idea, I'd have no problem. That being the case, I really put myself somewhere closer to the middle of the Kinsey scale, but on the straight side.

From Old Bookie
M&M, yes. For me, m+m, no. My orientation is entirely mf.

I would not suck my own cock if I could reach it—I think. Yet given the opportunity, I would plumb the depths--manually, orally, labially, phallically—of any clean, consenting, intelligent, interesting, interested female over the age of, say, 30. In the course of that lubricious activity I would not omit lustful attention to breasts, nipples, areola, and any other erogenous areas in the woman, er, at hand.

And I respond greedily to reciprocal stimulation of my own nipples and other areas, though I neither give nor receive anal activity

This strong hetero preference implies no hostility toward those of the MM persuasion, simply lack of lovemaking interest.

I remind myself of the second man in an old joke I have used before: A man in a bar asks his neighbor what Lesbians actually do. After a long, graphic, detailed answer, he responds, "Oh, my God! I'm a Lesbian!"

From Jim
My wife and I have talked about meeting another couple for same sex. Both of us are nervous about trying this although we have both fantazied about doing this. When we have sex we talk about her making love to another women and her watching me and another guy together. I admit it sure causes the heat index to rise. 

At this point it's still in the talking stage and if we did we'd have to find a couple that we'd both be comfortable with. Maybe it will happen.

From April
I've never been intimate with another woman although I have an appreciation for an attractive, sexy woman. I'm trying to fulfill a fantasy of exchanging Tantric massage with a woman. (It's a hard thing to do via personal ads!) I could do great things with the clit but the big hesitation is whether I could put my tongue inside a woman's temple... I don't like swallowing semen and can't wrap my mind around my tongue in a vagina.

From Confused
: I am a 33 yo married woman. The other night, while watching porn with my husband, he asked me if I would mind if a woman sucked my nipples or performed cunnilingus on me instead of a man. This is a concern for me seeing that I said I probably wouldn't mind. I don't know if that makes me bi. 

I love sex with my husband. And like all men he has fantasies, but would never want to include someone else in with our sex life. I do think that some women are attractive or have great bodies, but I do not think that I could or would perform any sex act on them. Any comments or help?

From T
For as long as I can remember I have been attracted to women. I started masturbating when I was 5 or 6. Even then I thought about girls. I am now 18, I have had no sexual experiences with women yet but I can't stop thinking about it. I can't say that I am a lesbian yet, because I have to be with a women first to really know. 

I masturbate daily to the thought of a girl going down on me, sucking kissing, having her face pressed against my wet pussy. I have to meet a girl already god I'm wet just thinking about it. I sometimes masturbate to guys but it usually ends up turning into a sexy woman.

From Anonymous
I have never experienced the same sex variety, but my woman wants me to try it. I have to admit seeing how hot it makes her has me ready to give it a shot. I mean it is only sex right? So as long as everyone is in agreement what does it hurt. My wife will be there directing things all the way, and it will turn her on greatly. She gets so hot when we watch Bi porn and two guys and a gal go at it, she will want it right then and there. So this is an experience that one day we will do. Just have to meet the right person is all.

From Wayne
I consider myself a heterosexual man. I do love women and always have. I never look at guys and think "he’s cute", or "I’d like to be with him." However every once in a while I think about giving a guy a blow job or him giving me one. I find woman who like two guys together very sexy. I think same sex curiously is more wide spread in heterosexuals than most people are willing to admit.

From Sabrina
Oh sure. I've explored that genre before. While it was enjoyable in its own right, I prefer the strength, sexuality and brawn of a hot man inside me.

From Anonymous
I had an experience when I was a youth, with a friend. Unfortunately that was it because of the guilt I felt. Only in the past few years, as I have begun to accept my sexuality, have I given serious thought to trying it again. I have shared my curiosity with my girlfriend and she gets quite turned on by it. I am not attracted to men emotionally it's strictly about the sex. 

We watch bisexual movies together and she uses a strap-on on me during sex. I enjoy cleaning my cum off/out of her after sex; so I think I've done "it", just not with a man. I think the guilt of actually being with another man still haunts me. I know I could only do it with my girlfrine involved. We are slowly moving towards the real thing, I think we just need to find the right person.

From Tim
I consider myself as straight. Having said that, one time I was at an adult bookstore with the typical video booths. This particular one I noticed had glory holes between two booths. As I was getting into the video I noticed a hand come through the hole, obviously offering to stroke me.

My 2nd brain down there took over and I moved my hard cock over to the waiting hand. I felt my cock being stroked and it felt wonderful. I kept myself from coming then and went to the counter to get some condoms.

Back in the booth the stoker was still next door. I nervously unwrapped the condom and rolled it down. I slid my cock through the hole. I felt a pair of warm lips encircle it and he started sucking me off. I came.

I of course then wondered what it would be like to be in the giving end. On another visit I was set to try it. With little prodding I soon had a hard cock sticking through the hole. I kneeled down and took it in my hand and slowly stroked it. I slid a condom over it and took my first cock in my mouth. My head bobbed back and forth until I could feel his balls tighten and him filling that condom with cum.

On another visit to a different place things started out similarly. My condom covered cock poking through a hole, expecting to be stroked or sucked. I detected a different feel this time though - a better feeling. I realized that the guy was backed up to the hole and my cock was at the entrance to his lubed ass. Oh my god, what a feeling to slide into him.

From Ginger Anne
Absolutely! I feel that sexuality is fluid and to totally ignore the sexual beauty of half the planet seems ridiculous. I've never been with a woman, but one day, hope to have the experience.

From Dave
In the mid 1980s my then wife and I decided that to spice up our sex life we'd have a threesome with a bi-sexual male. She was keen to be serviced herself by our male but also wanted to see me with another male. I think she was quite surprised to see me for the first time suck off another male, the guy climaxing in my mouth and me swallowing his cum (she sucking me off at the same time). I enjoyed fellating the guy and enjoyed his semen. 

In another part of the same session I penetrated the guy, another 'first' for my wife to witness. The overall experience was very successful, my wife enjoyed watching all the male-on-male aspects, and we enjoyed two other sessions with this guy before my ex wife decided not to cooperate any further. 

We eventually parted and divorced and I became a bi-sexual, swapping between men and women sexual partners. I remarried, a much younger woman than my first wife, who at first enjoyed my bi-sexual men friends in MMF sessions but then turned nasty, we also parted and divorced.

Today, I'm single, 65 y/o, a bi- sexual man who enjoys sucking other men, being sucked by other men, and penetrating other men in the anus and being penetrated by other men, as well as the full gamut of male-female sexual activity. 

Oh yes, my first wife is one of my sexual partners for the occasional bi-MMF, her husband apparently having no interest in 'creative' sex.

From Douglas
It was late 1939/40 and my regiment had sent a detachment to far East France and it was very cold. We had a French interpreter attached to us and I was appointed liaison with him. We lived for 6 weeks in a floor of a house with no heating. He slept in the double bed and I slept on the floor in his camp bed. One night he said to me "Its very cold why don't you join me in this bed. He was over 6 ft tall, a handsome man, one of the French gentry and had a touch of Moor in him I believe as he hailed from southern France .I asked him to bring some French females with him next time he returned from the city. He then offered me his backside and I gave him my then 7 inches and enjoyed him although I am heterosexual, I like girls.

He next dropped his pajamas and showed me all he had and it was something, a huge waste on a gay man. It was 12 1/2 inches long, he permitted me to measure it and it was 8 inches around the waist. The head was a vivid red but the shaft was purple and he asked me to handle it but I declined, much to my regret in later years. I would love to have it today and "try" to get in my mouth. He did not ask me to have it in my rectum but I couldn't have taken that size anyway. This was an amazing experience but later I found that he had complained to my commanding officer that I was not suitable for the job. I called that deceitful after I had pleasured him. by the way, he was a complete virgin when I took him.

From Robert in Portland
A couple years ago a friend of mine from Boise was passing through town and called me just as I got home from work. I told him "sure, come on over", and gave him directions to my bachelor pad.

I had not seen him for several years, and we sat around drinking wine. He said he had been thinking about me all afternoon, and while he sat around calling, waiting for me to get home, he wrote me this note. He then proceeded to take a folded piece of notebook paper out of his pocket, and placed it on his knee. Being too lazy to get up, I asked, "what's it say?" He said "you'll just have to read it".

A while later, when I finally got up to take a piss I snatched the note off of his knee, unfolded it and read "blah blah blah blah blah .... I have always wanted to suck your cock and am hoping tonight's the night blah blah blah blah." I thought about this as I pissed, decided "what the hell. It's not gonna be me who is the one sucking dick", so I finished pissing and quickly stripped off all my clothing, and walked back into the living room buck naked, my big dick dangling right there in the open for him to admire.

I poured myself some more wine, lounged back on the couch where I had been sitting, and gave him a look that said "what are you waiting for?" He got on his knees, and then gave me about the best blow-job I've ever had, quickly bringing me near orgasm a couple times, then backing off. Eventually he took me over the edge, swallowed my load, and licked me clean. He then took a big slug of wine, said "Thanks, I've gotta go" and took off. Haven't seen him since.

You know, when you stop and think about it, you'd naturally get the best head from another male. After all, they are endowed with the same basic equipment and know exactly how it works. I don't have any desire to be a dick-smoker, but man, I'd sure be glad to find another guy who wants to suck on mine!

From SS
One night many years ago my friend Cruz and I were driving across Nevada on our way to get away from our home in Idaho and spend some time at the beach. As we frequently did back then (being young and dumb and full of cum), we were drinking in the car, and smoking cigars to pass the time. Cruz was telling me about the first time he went to a whore house, and he had an African-American chick, and how exciting that was, him being a white guy.

The more we talked of this, the more I wanted to try a whore house myself. Eventually we came to a small town, and found the brothels. We went in and each enjoyed a lady (I was fortunate that they had an African-American girl for me to try ... as that idea really made me hard!). After we left there, we were pretty tired so we found a place in the desert to camp. We were both still pretty "amped up", from the stogies, the whiskey, and of course our fun at the whore house. 

For some reason as we lay there on top of our sleeping bags (it was summer and still quite warm), reminiscing about the evening's events, I got this urge to suck on Cruz's dick. Without saying anything to him, I finally got up my nerve and "just did it". What was odd is that he quickly moved into the "69" position, and started returning the favor. I wasn't sure how "far" I wanted to go with this (I never have seen myself as a "cock-sucker") so I stopped sucking him, but he kept on with my cock until I shot a load of jizm into his mouth! 

Since that time I have occasionally sucked him off ... but he gives me blow-jobs whenever I'll let him. He is definitely more bi-sexual than I am, and maybe just hornier in general.

From KB
Many years ago, when I was 17, I spent a weekend with my pal Dennis as his family was out of town. On Friday night, we got hold of a case of beer. As we drank and drank, pissed and pissed, we finally made a bet (over, of all things, a game of MONOPOLY). Losing the game, and therefore the bet. I was to give him a blow-job.

Thinking I wanted to get this one time thing over with asap, we went into his parent's bedroom, I got down on my knees and started licking and sucking his cock, as he watched me in the reflection of the mirrored closet doors we were in front of, with a huge grin on his face! After a short time, he grabbed the back of my head, rammed his dick as far down my throat as he could, and sprayed a big load of his gooey spunk down my throat, forcing me to swallow. I felt somewhat degraded, and begged him to suck me off .... but he wasn't about to. 

Much to my chagrin, within a couple of days he figured out a way to sort of blackmail me into becoming his "Tuesday afternoon blow-job boy" ... so for the next 6 months (until his family moved away, otherwise I'd still be sucking that prick) it was my "job" to orally service him however he wanted it, every Tuesday afternoon when no one was home at his house. 

Although I didn't tell him, it got to where I enjoyed sucking cock, and have sucked quite a few since then! Strange how things work out!

From Riley
When I was younger, we lived in a duplex. On the other side was a young guy. Eventually, we became friends and spent time together. Occasionally, all the parents would be gone leaving the duplex to us. At one point, we began to masturbate by simply pulling down our pants sufficient to reach our dicks. Eventually, this evolved into full nudity. He immediately became infatuated with my big dick (about 6 1/2" at that age) and balls and the small patch of brown pubic hair at the base. He had a small amount of fuzz. His dick was average in size. 

Finally, he asked if he could feel my big dick and I agreed. I must admit that it felt good and he began to stroke it with one hand while masturbating himself with the other. This continued for a few weeks until I began masturbating him. Out of curiosity, we would rub the heads of our dicks together. One day while he was masturbating me, I shot cum for the first time. The cum got all over his hand and he licked it off. It was obvious this really turned him on. The next time we masturbated, he took my dick in his mouth, sucked it until I lost my load. This continued until we moved. I never saw him again nor have I had an experience like that again.

From JM
My fantasy was, predictably, watching another man take my wife while, for her, it was watching another man take me. I owned up to being very curious about sex with another man, really wanting to experience sucking another off, experience the taste of semen in my mouth as shot from an erect penis of another male, perhaps enjoy another man in my anus (certainly my wife enjoys me in her butt). 

We advertised for a youngish, athletic bi-male (we are in our 40's) and a few months later eventually agreed on a 30's bi guy. The first part of the evening was spent servicing my wife, he recovered quickly to enable anal and oral as well as vaginal sex with her. After showering, we were ready to re-start and I quickly found myself kissing our male, a very strange experience but in the sexually charged atmosphere perfectly acceptable, especially as my wife was using her mouth to ensure both of us had full erections. 

We then went into a '69', me sucking him, he sucking me, again another 'first time' sensation for me, one I admit was truly enjoyable, very erotic, just sucking on another man's penis. I orgasmed soon and he obviously enjoyed it while he lasted another five minutes or so before ejaculation. What an amazing feeling! I loved every second of it, the heat and the taste, the thickness of his semen, I gagged slightly and brought his penis to the tip of my tongue so a lot of semen went into my mouth not straight down my throat. 

I really felt as if I had achieved some form of breakthrough, acknowledging my bi-sexuality, so it was all the more disappointing when he declined to either provide penetrative anal sex or accept it from me. Instead he returned to my wife whom he described as being one the sexiest women he'd ever met, she enjoying for the second time the anal I didn't get to experience once.

From Big Guy
Even though I have been married for 30+ years, I'm totally convinced that I would love the feel of a cock growing in my mouth. I'm not quite certain about swallowing the cum (I've tasted my own on occasion, not sure if I like the taste or not), and I may have to let nature take it's course. 

As far as getting fucked in the ass, I think that would be a major turn on. I have experimented with several household items in my ass and loved most of them. I am interested to know how women rate getting fucked anally versus vaginally. I think the anal penetration is "naughty", which makes it even more sexual. What are the differences in feeling, etc.

[Big Guy, check out our Anal Files where our readers dare to share anal experiences]

From Anonymous
Regrettably, the only time in my life that I had the opportunity to suck a cock was when I was very young. Whilst in grade school, my cousin and a friend of his came to my house to "play". We ended up experimenting in the bathroom. You know how that goes. First we would put another's penis in your mouth, then you would begin to suck on it and feel it grow. All the while I was afraid of him coming in my mouth, which I didn't think I wanted. The feeling of that hard dick in my mouth was indescribable. I loved it! 

I think I would like to try it again now that I am much older. Like everyone else, I am certain I'm not gay, but I do think I would be a good cocksucker. By the way, after we sucked each other, we put our fingers in each others asses, but that's another story.

From Al
My gym might be a little more liberal than most but in the large all male sauna it is accepted that most of the older males, me included, will masturbate each other. There is no buggery but on one or two occasions to my knowledge, since I was one of the fortunate recipients, younger twentiesomething males have fellated older males. I have not seen an older male fellate another older male and the sight would I believe look very ridiculous. 

My wife accompanies me to the gym on the weekends and tells me that in the female sauna one or two women regularly masturbate each other accompanied by kissing of nipples. Interestingly, the large Jacuzzi that sits between the two sauna huts is unisex and all of us, either gender, invariably go naked into the tub after a sauna and no-one is the least bit worried about any sexual activity that may take place, as long as it isn't forced, and my wife has had a number of very pleasant experiences in the tub with other men.

From Fanienne
I am a woman who loves having her breasts stimulated. My breasts are of modest size, B/C. [From the Editor:  Sorry for interrupting, but we are appalled at how many people thing a B or C cup is modest. The facts are  B cup is average, C cup is larger then average] So they have never attracted a lot of undue attention. I have however, strongly encouraged my lovers to spend all the time they wanted, enjoying them. Some took the hint and others weren't invited back.

Last week I found someone who appreaciated and understood my needs perfectly. I had just finished showering at my health club, when a young, maybe early 30's, woman complimented my breasts. At first I was left without words. I'm not homophobic. In fact I have always appreciated the beauty of other women, I've just never had one start a conversation that way. Now I'm in my 50's and work hard to stay in shape. When I regained my verbal skills, I thanked her and continued dressing. She continued to watch me, and finally asked if I would like to get some lunch. I was intrigued now, so I accepted. Lunch was pleasant and comfortable. So comfortable we ended up back at her loft.

I knew I was being seduced an I loved it. I was nervous but not afraid. When she kissed me I couldn't believe how natural it felt. I would occasionally fantasize about sex with another woman, but that was where it stayed. I didn't know what I was supposed to do exactly but she did. When she pulled my top down and kissed my nipples, I literally melted onto the sofa. If I could have reached my own nipples, I'd have done everything exactly as she did. I had always heard that no one can please a woman like another woman. Now I know it to be true.

My only regret from that afternoon is that I wasn't more open with her. She made love to me. I experimented with her. I've promised myself that the next time, yes there will be a next time, I would hold nothing back.

If you have ever given one moments thought to a same sex experience, take the opportunity if it is presented.

From Judy
My first sexual experience with another person was with a girl a few years older than myself. I was a teen and totally inexperienced but she knew all the moves. I consider myself a straight woman and am married to a wonderful man, but I think back to that night and the amazing oral sex that she and I had. She is also married and we are still friends but we never talk about the night in the tent. I have a feeling that a lot of girls try what we did to see what its going to be like. For me it is a pleasant memory.

From Gary
I think everyone, at one time or another, fantasizes about same sex adventure. I am 63 years old and have been married for 43 of those years; however, if given the opportunity, I would suck a cock and take one up my ass in a heart beat. When it comes to sex, I believe that whatever happens between two consenting adults is just fine.

From Anonymous
Well I recently made my fantasy a reality, at least partly, and it was hot! I met a dude on line and we met at his house. We got naked in his bedroom. I got on my knees and played with his cock, which was short, but thick. I enjoyed how soft the skin on the glans was when I took him in my mouth. I also liked the slimy pre-cum that seeped continuously from his urethra, but I was scared to let him jizz in my mouth. We then got on the bed and did some 69 for maybe 5 minutes and I came hard and loud. I'd never come that fast from a woman giving me a b.j. I was in oblivion, howling and grunting and shooting my semen. I was not even conscious of whether he swallowed or not. 

He gave me two more strong orgasms within the next 30 or 40 minutes but they weren't as intense as that first one. If the right opportunity and a man with whom I was comfortable came along again, would I repeat it? YES.

From WD
I have never had sex with a man and probably never will, as I am happily married. I don't find guys attractive. Nothing about them--their shapes, their skin, their smell, whatever--interests me. I'm into women, period. But I do have thoughts.

When I was about ten years old, two years before puberty and orgasms, I spent the better part of a summer fixated on the big bulge in a handsome lifeguard's Speedo suit at the beach. I didn't imagine doing anything with it, but the image became so intrusive that I worried that thinking about it would make me gay. So by sheer force of will, I kept the thought from recurring.

I had a guy friend who came out as gay freshman year in college. He made it clear that he was interested, but I didn't find him attractive at all. I let him see me naked a couple times though. One time on a walk in the woods we stripped naked and lay on our backs, sunning ourselves. Another time when we were traveling together, we shared a room, and by impulse I took all my clothes off, lay on my bed, closed my eyes, and let him look at me. On neither occasion did we touch.

I have long had occasional fantasies about giving a guy head or taking his penis up my ass. He has to be young and really good looking. Sometimes I imagine having sex with myself, or my exact double. I do all the things to him (me) that I like my wife to do to me, plus take it up my ass. Then I repeat the whole experience from his (my other) point of view. Weird, I know, and narcissistic. I just wonder what it would be like to suck my own cock and lick my own asshole and fuck myself until I come.

When I was about twenty-five, I once briefly met a guy about five years younger who attracted me. He was beautiful in a masculine but kind of boyish way...maybe 5'9", tan, long and almost curly hair, slim with moderate pectoral development, little body hair, and handsome. I was on the beach with my then-girlfriend and I couldn't help but fantasize about a threesome. I still think about it from time to time when I'm masturbating.

I see us having a few drinks in a room near the beach, showering off the sand and sea salt, and then my girlfriend sucking both of our cocks. Then she dares him to suck mine, which he does, and then they share, one licking my balls while the other sucks my hard cock. Then I suck his cock in such a way as to give my girlfriend an education in fellatio...I go wild licking and sucking and deep throating this handsome, dark young man's lovely penis. My girlfriend starts touching my bottom, first with her hands and then with her mouth, kissing and biting my bottom and then licking my anus. She licks my balls from behind also and starts sticking her finger in my hole. (In reality, this is about my favorite thing . . . my best lovers, including my wife, have been into my ass and have pleased me this way).

Pretty soon she gets some lubricant and starts opening my anus with two fingers and then three. I start to become really horny, especially as she tells me what a hot ass I have and how sexy I look with this guy's big cock in my mouth and how much I'm going to love being fucked in the ass like my tight asshole is a pussy. And that's exactly what happens. My girlfriend says I'm ready, that my anus is relaxed, so I turn around to offer my virgin ass to this younger man, who has had sex with girls, even anal sex, but not with a man. I feel afraid, looking back at that big cock, but my girlfriend encourages me and gives me soul kisses. He guides his erect penis to my poor little hole, and to show my willingness I arch my back and stick my ass up higher, while reaching back to spread my ass cheeks.

Then it happens. He presses the tip of his penis to the ring of my anus, and presses. It resists at first, but then gives with an audible POP. "Oh god!" I say over and over, as he slides the shaft deep inside, right to the hilt. For the first time, I have a man inside me. I am on the receiving end of homosexual anal sex. I can never take it back...I have lost a special virginity. I feel a moment of regret, and the shame that society puts on this act. But then a joyful feeling silences the voice of ignorance and doubt. I'm fucked, truly fucked! His balls slap against the back of my balls, and I start returning his thrusts with eager, hungry backward motions. My girlfriend turns to offer me her pussy and ass to eat from behind, and I take up her offer. We go at it with utter abandon, my girlfriend crying out things like, "Eat me! Eat my pussy! Fuck his tight ass!" while I groan, occasionally pausing from cunnilingus to cry out, "Fuck me! M