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From Jay
I am certainly turned on by girls in glasses, and yes it has to do with 'geek-chic', or smart suited professional women. I like the idea of the sober 'Miss Moneypenny' smoldering with sexuality about to erupt.

In the seventies there was a corny game-show on TV in the UK called 3-2-1 which featured hostesses/dancers called 'The Gentle Secs'. They wore glasses and suits with short skirts - quite sophisticated looking really. Modern glasses are sexier than ever and I love getting head from my girlfriend while she is wearing hers, though she removes them when it gets too wild.

Sunglasses are a big turn-on for me; is there anything sexier than a beautiful blonde in an open top sports car wearing dark glasses?

From Joan
There's a story in one of the Best American Erotica anthologies, it was a fantastic story told from the viewpoint of a guy with an eyeglass fetish. (I think it was circa 1997, 1998?) I've worn glasses since I was three years old, and after reading that story, I decided I would NEVER opt for contacts! I mean, what's sexier - popping out a pair of contacts or slowly removing a pair of glasses? Plus, glasses can be removed by either the wearer or her lover. Personally, I find it very sexy when a man takes my glasses off for me and sets them aside. I'd like to see you try THAT with contacts!

From Anonymous
I recently had sex with a girl who wears glasses all the time, and I found myself incredibly turned on. She didn't even take them off, I didn't even mention it. The oral sex I got while she peered up through them turned me on like I've never been turned on before

From Joe
My girl friend recently got glasses and has to wear them all the time. I find that she really looked sexy in them especially when she dresses up and puts her hair up and we go out. The first time we had sex when she still had them on, I was so turned on, she tried to take them off, and I told to please leave them on. It was the best sex I ever has with her. Now she leaves them on when we have sex.

From kevinsmailbox
Like Alexander, my girlfriend is turned on because I need my glasses to function. [see Alexander's entry below] There have been many times where she will snatch my glasses and drop them on the floor because she likes watching me blindly grope for them. I don't have to pretend that I can't find them because I really can't see a thing without my glasses.

From Tina
Yes, it's true, women in glasses do get passes! I had to get glasses for reading and computer work my work colleague remarked on how attractive I looked, he suggesting I get a pair with those stylized fifties type frames. I did and loved them. You know what? I then got clothes to match the glasses, wide skirts with petticoats and high heels, garter belt and stockings, my colleague and I eventually going away for a weekend rock and roll convention, some great music, great looking glasses and some great sex!

From Mike
My present girlfriend always has to wear glasses and I think they make her look incredibly smart, sexy, and beautiful. She thinks it's a shame that she has to wear glasses, but I think they make her look incredibly hot! Intelligent and serious and sensual. She's just such a dreamboat.

From Lana
I'm a 44 year old divorcee with two teenaged daughters. A few years ago I had to start wearing glasses mainly for reading. For distance, they help such a teeny bit that I've been going without them. I've recently started dating a nice young man who absolutely loves the "look" my glasses give me. 

A few evenings ago, as I was getting ready for a dinner/movie date with him, I decided to wear my glasses for the evening. When I opened my door to let him in, he told me I looked beautiful and suggested that I should considerer wearing them all the time. I think I will!

From Alexander
I'm a guy who has worn glasses or contacts for most of my life. This has been out of necessity, since by the time I was high school I could not function without them. While in college contacts become too uncomfortable and had to go back to glasses. This was a big change because at that point most people didn't know I needed them. 

To my surprise, there were a couple of girls who took an interest in me that never did before. One of those I ended up dating for a while. Her interest regarding my glasses wasn't so much that I wore them, but that I needed them. A big foreplay thing for her was to take away my glasses so that the only way I could find her was by feeling my way around. We both found this to be a big turn on for both of us. That was kind of a surprise from my end because previously the thought of not having my glasses (let alone having them taken from me) or knowing exactly where they are would have been more than a little unnerving.

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