Phone Sex
Is Your Phone a Sex Toy?

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From Jane
Yes, I have to admit my phone is a sex toy, and I love it. I use a discreet phone service and get to live any fantasy I want; sometimes I want a woman, sometimes a man. I use my vibrator while talking through one of my fantasies and WoW, let me tell you - it's the ultimate in sexual experiences while still remaining faithful to my husband of 32 years. Perfect for those times when hubby is out of town.

From Gary
I've got a girlfriend whom I haven't seen for a fortnight. Last night we had full blown phone-sex for the first time. Wasn't planned I just phoned her late and she was in bed so I asked what she was wearing. We both masturbated and basically just told each other what we wanted to do to each other. I closed my eyes and was imagining her being there with me. 

I just described what I wanted to do to her, how I wanted to touch her, how I wanted her to touch me and so on. I use dirty words but not vulgar ones. The words pussy and cock get me a better reaction from her than c**t and d**k but you have to find what works for your girl. I didn't have to talk constantly, not even I could do that and I'd also had a couple of drinks which I found helped me relax. I found breathing deeply helped turn her on and let her know I was still there. 

Some people say giggling/jokes help break the tension but I avoided making jokes, I think that would be a sign you're nervous / uncomfortable with what you're doing... plus I was trying to turn her on. If you were in bed with her would you make jokes? Imagine it like that.

From Daisy
I just started working as phone sex operator and I'm having a ton of trouble being descriptive, etc. A lot of my callers want me to be dirty and say dirty things to them but I can't for the life of me think of what to say. 

When I have phone sex with my boyfriend, it's mainly him doing all the work. Any tips on what I can say to my callers or a website that can provide me with info, stories, fantasies...I'm a hopeless romantic so I'm positive they don't have to hear my real fantasies.

Try How to Talk Sexy to the One You Love. Available at Amazon.com / Amazon UK / Amazon CA

From Sarahlynne
I met my boyfriend over the internet, and we actually had Yahoo chat sex before we ever met! I know that sounds weird, but it was really hot. He even had me "direct" him once, which was amazing for me, since I like a bit of dominance. We've also had phone sex, and he loves to hear me come. I love to hear him breathing heavily. I often call him after I've masturbated and tell him what I've just done. He loves to hear that I've been touching myself while thinking of him.

My advice for anyone having difficulty with phone or chat sex is to relax and say what you want. It's always good to say that you want to touch her, taste her, etc. You can say that you are imagining being with her and talk about what you will do when you are together. You can play into any fantasies that you know your partner has. You can also say what she does that you like that you can't wait to feel again. Women like to hear what you like. The more you tell us, the more you'll get it!

From Bob
You can recognize outsiders by the terms they use. "Phone- sex" is what you call it when you've never done it. Pretended or imitated maybe, but nothing original.

Think of a song that's changed you. Not just entertained but moved you deeply. Doesn't it defy genre? Does categorization a chimp could perform mean anything? If you've fallen deeply in love it's not about the media or the techniques or the positions. It's all about them, it's completely about the person.

I've fallen really deeply a few times, and from the inside it's so totally not primarily a phone-sex experience, or a cyber-sex experience or a g-spot experience or a baby- making experience. It was all about the connection and the rich delicious complexity of the souls and what they turned out of each other.

Is true love possible on the phone? You better watch it before you say no, because if not then you've actually decided for yourself that it's not possible anywhere. It's just a tiny step from there to saying it's not possible in any other stoopid situation... Cause they're all are stoopid. If true love exists at all, do you really think it can be bottled or tagged or imitated?

It never was about where you go to find her. It's always been all about where you're at. Angels who decide to guard each other can do it with Morse code on prison pipes. The real trick is being alive at the same time, everything else is easy.

From Jim
My 'girlfriend' whom I've never seen in person lives in another country. We have had some beautiful experiences over the phone. To hear her having an orgasm as we tell each other what we'd like to do or have done gets her and me going like nothing else. It's definitely more than just beating off, let me tell you!

From Kim
My cyber partner and I got into phone sex as a (pardon the pun) climax to on-line action. Sending her over the edge with a few sweet words was as exciting for me as it was for her. Although we haven't been together for quite a while, I still remember the force of our orgasms and feelings.

From Steve
I know how you feel Wayne [See Wayne's entry below], I'm not a virgin, but it is extremely difficult for me to talk dirty on the phone or even in bed. I have to really think about it, and then I feel stupid, and that ruins the passion, and the hard-on. One book I found helpful is How to Talk Sexy to the One You Love [Available at Amazon.com / Amazon UK / Amazon CA], it's a self-help book with some good tips on how to do the deed. 

From Wayne
I am a bachelor of 24 years, and am an upward-mobile college student. Recently, I met this quirky, cute and sexy girl over the Internet, and it didn't take long before we got sexually interested in each other... thing is, she sprung this phone sex thing upon me out of the blue one night when we were talking on the phone.

Now, previously I've never done it over the phone, so it was kind of weird the first couple of times. For starters, I really don't know what to say to build up an explosive sexual tension on her part, second, I get really nervous during our tele-rendevous, and can't perform very well. Is that normal for a full-grown male who is otherwise a virgin, or is it an indicator that something's up with my "plumbing"?

All I know is that I get really tense when I start doing things that I'm not used to, or don't expect, such as actually having sex, phone or otherwise. I really don't want to come across as too nervous, and if I do, I'm afraid that she'll see that as a weakness and dump me right off the bat for someone who isn't nervous during intimate encounters.

Is this a communication issue, or just that I need to get comfortable with the fact that I have the potential to turn a girl on?

Thanks for any help you can bestow upon me.

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