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From Dawn
Hello, I am a 31 year old manager of an exclusive night club in Colorado. When I was at home one afternoon, I grabbed my laptop and created a member name and went into a chat room. I have to tell you this was the most erotic thing I have ever done. I work nights, my friends days so, you can imagine that I don't have a lot of interaction or time to find a lover.

I want into a 30's chat room to explore what everyone was talking about. I got instant messaged from a teacher in New York. We exchanged information (not the personal stuff) just ages, where from, what we do for a living. When we were talking, we noticed that we had not a lot in common, but he was as funny as I think I am, and really enjoyed talking to one another.

Well 2 hours went by, and he kept telling me he wanted to talk with me by phone. I was not comfortable with that so he respected my wishes but still tried. I had to go get ready to go to work and he had said he couldn't wait for the next day to chat with me again online.

While I was at work that night, I decided to try to go online again and boom, there he was. I had thought about him for several hours before I logged online that night. I had hoped he would be there.

I was in my office when he found me. We talked online for about a half an hour when I decided to call him.

When I asked him for his phone number, I don't think he could type it to me fast enough. I made that phone call and it was the best thing I have ever done!

When he answered, my heart rate accelerated and my palms got sweaty. When I told him that I was shaking, he told me everything he would do to make this first time on the phone comfortable for me and if I wanted him to stop, he would respect my wishes.

I let him proceed with what he would do to me if he were with me. He first asked what I was wearing...and when I told him that I had on a leather skirt, lace blouse and leather boots over the thigh, I thought he would cum right then.

I loved the way he made me feel when he told me very sensual ways of giving me pleasure. He was kind, sensitive and very attentive to a woman's needs and desires.

The first time, while in my office, I did pleasure myself along with him, but psychologically I wasn't ready for someone to hear me have an orgasm over the phone. However, he had no problem sharing that with me. And I loved it!! Knowing that I was on his mind that much.

All that evening and the following day, all I could do was hear him in my head. I was aroused the entire day and wanted to talk with him again.

That evening, after I was at work again, I picked up the phone and called him. Happy for me, he was home and thinking about me as well. Needless to say, it was the beginning of what is now a wonderful experience that I wouldn't change.

I told him what I would do to him if here were with me that night, and he assured me of the things that he would do to take care of me. Listening to his soft voice, knowing he was touching himself in my absence, I could only imagine how intense our sex would have been if he would have been with me. I had my first phone sex experience with him, both of us participating when I had a very intense orgasm.

It has been two weeks now, and I can't wait to talk with him every day. I hope he can visit me someday or I him. Our sex would be explosive!!

From Jenny
This is something that's very new to me...However, it has become such an important part of my long distance relationship. I have an incredible partner who lives in Florida while I reside in Texas. But the intimacy we share during our phone time completes me more than any physical relationship has ever.

Chris is a very sensual lover and the way he expresses his desires to me verbally makes me CrAzY! Just the soft tones from his lips or the way he describes every detail of what he wants to do to with me can cause me to have repeated orgasms...The fact that he encourages me to please myself has given a freedom that I've not been willing to allow myself before!

While the phone sex is awesome and something I think about it a lot...This is only a small part of our relationship. We spend hours talking of other things. He is the last one I talk to at night and he calls to wake me with the words "I Love You Baby" in the morning. He is my prince! 

From Christina and Alex
I and my boyfriend have started having phone sex recently and I must tell you it rocks, it satisfies my body hunger to a great extent. I love the way he gasps and becomes breathless and says my name, we are doing it almost daily.

From Cathy
I think phone sex can be strange. Do you always believe the person on the other line is really doing what they say? Even I have fibbed on this. But there are times I don't care. I want to feel the breath of their words in my ear. I want to know that my touch is their touch. When I come I want it to pour through the phone and make them wet. 

I enjoy my words and descriptions as I tell them how I love the silkiness of their cock against my hand. I want each word and letter to dance on them, tormenting the parts I know so well. When they are ready I load up with my best story or knowledge of them I have and I bomb away getting their own hand to do what it is I want. I want it to explode like a volcano. I want the phone to melt in my hand. I want to come without touching myself and to know that 'I' did this with my words.

From Chris
I have been having phone sex for many many years, and I have to say, it has been some of the best and most exciting times I have had. It has helped me become a better lover. I try new things on a girl over the phone and see how she reacts to it, then incorporate it into my actual sex. 

The sound of a woman getting so excited and intense over the words I say, and the images I place in her head are awesome. I have also found that girls are more willing to try different things on the phone, they seem more comfy that they are doing it and not someone else. 

I am currently talking online to a most amazing girl, and can't wait till she just can't take it anymore and has to enjoy a nice sensual phone call with me. I am sure she will be totally awesome and sensual with me, and that we will enjoy many many orgasms. I love her deeply, and can't wait to become intimate with her.

From GW
I have someone special who lives in Florida; she and I have shared many intimate moments late at night. just something about her that excites me to no end...we have both commented that each other's sexy voice drives us crazy. I know that I have some mind-blowing orgasms and have squirted lots and lots of warm semen thanks to her sweet sexuality on the phone.

From Kateri
I had a relationship that lasted for two years that was online and phone based. We would sometimes spend whole days together online. And at night we would cook dinner together. Then reconnect later in the evening usually spending two hours together before bedtime.

We did cyber-sex as a preliminary and then on to the main course. It was so intense that sometimes I would break out into tears when I had an orgasm. It was the most incredible sex I've ever had. I'm sure that was because there were none of the distractions usually associated with relationships.

Sadly I have yet to find any relationship to compare either in the flesh or otherwise.

From Jen
Hi, I've had phone sex a couple of times, the last time was with a hot guy from Greece who I met online and now I want to be a phone sex operator...why not make money doing it? Can anyone give me some advice?

From Peaches
I started doing phone sex after breaking up with my boyfriend and needing someone to help fill those lonely nights. I would wander into chatrooms and find guys to call. Within 2 months I was doing it for money to put myself through college. I love it!

After graduating, I started my own company. My parents aren't happy, but I am. 2.5 years later I have 10 girls working for me and I still love doing the calls.

From Sam
I had phone sex but through text messages a few years ago. I was having a rough patch with my current bloke, but I had kept some contact with one of my ex's. We texted each other every now and then. He worked nights as a psychiatric nurse and used to text me when it was quiet. This particular night we stared to talk about fantasies we had and he described to me his about being tied up and what he wanted to have done to him by 2 women. He asked my what mine was. So I told him in great detail what I had thought about. I could tell he was getting off on what I told him. He wasn't the only one - I got so wet telling him all this. It certainly fixed things between me and my partner. I woke him up with my hand on his dick and we fucked hard.

Later that day my ex texted me to say that he hadn't had quite such an 'eventful' evening especially at work for such a long time and that I had brightened up his quiet night. Did I want to do it again? I choose to leave it at that. Every time he texts and tries to get started again I turn off my phone and cuddle back up to my bloke.

From Kalliannassa
Yup, I've done it over the phone. It always gets a bit interesting because I am still very much the good little southern girl, and there are still some thing I simply cannot say out loud. Don't ask me why I can write them down, or type them and not say them but there it is.

However, I used to be very good at getting my ex off over the phone, and have made a good male friend absurdly horny (or so he tells it). They have both been good to me. It so doesn't compare to real sex, but is better than deprivation. I guess the best thing was knowing that I could turn them on that much and not have to be there to do it. Seriously Todd, give it a whirl.

From Christian
I started doing phone sex in the summer of 2002 with my boyfriend and boy did we enjoy it. We were really horny and I could not get to his house so we just ended up doing it over the phone. We were still virgins then. Even though we have had sex several times, we still have phone sex as it is so fun and has kept me sane.

From Liz
I love phone sex. As a divorced woman it has allowed me to explore my fantasies and my sexuality with lots of different men, something I could never do in real life. I am really turned on by erotic talk, the more explicit the better, and I have had some mind blowing orgasms from phone sex.

From Rachel
I'm a phone sex operator part-time. Although I don not personally get off on the fantasies men share with, it gives me satisfaction to help these men live out there fantasies that they can't otherwise for whatever reason. My mother was so mad when I took this job, and at first I figured maybe she was right, maybe all this phone sex stuff is for perverts and sexual deviants. But now that I'm into it, I've discovered that all sorts of people enjoy phone sex, and I feel that it's something that anyone could potentially get into. One of the most powerful turn-ons in the universe is a sexy voice.

From Diana
Like Mary I have been an e-mail friend (well, okay, several). After I feel comfortable with them on the net, I give them my number and, of course, the phone sex is incredible. The one thing they all have in common is that they are intelligent, articulate men who certainly know how to give and receive good phone! I'm sure Mr. Bell would be surprised if he could listen to some of these conversations today.

From Dick
Although I've enjoyed some "900" phone sex in the past, my wife and I use our home extensions to ring each others bell, so to speak. From separate rooms, we talk nasty to each other while masturbating, teasing and encouraging until we both explode in thunderous orgasms. So, yes, our phone is one of our favorite sex toys!

From Macabre
I'm with Mary I never in a million years would have thought I would engage in phone sex. I had always thought of cyber sex and phone sex as rather creepy and a bit desperate, what did I know?

Phone sex, much like cyber sex, can be immensely satisfying when both partners are expressive. They key is to set aside your inhibitions and be extremely descriptive. Hearing the voice on the other end of the line describing exactly how and where they are caressing you or telling your phone mate what exquisite tortures you are performing on them punctuated with gasps, moans and whimpers of pleasure well *shivers* makes me all warm just thinking about it.

BTW Todd, you REALLY should try it ; )

From Katt
My boyfriend of three years plays bass in a metal band that spends a lot of time touring. I go out with him when I can, but mostly I'm stuck at home working and going to school while he's out on the road. (It ain't like they show it on MTV, folks.) Because of the time we spend apart, phone sex has become a big part of our relationship. It started out with him calling me one night at 2 a.m. after a show because there were girls everywhere, he was horny and missed me and basically just wanted me to talk to him while he jacked off. At first I was pissed--you woke me up at two in the fucking morning to do WHAT???--But it ended up turning me on like crazy, and it has evolved into a ritual that in a lot of ways is the glue that holds our relationship. 

Sometimes he'll call me before shows, especially if it's a big crowd and he's nervous and needs his ego (and other things) stroked a bit before he goes onstage. Mostly he calls from the bus after shows for a little "sweet talk" to help him wind down and go to sleep. Sometimes he just wants me to get him off, sometimes we get off together, sometimes he tells me exactly what he wants to do to me when I see him next, while I use my fingers or one of my vibrators (another essential for a long-distance relationship!) to get myself off and scream out my orgasm loud enough for everyone to hear! 

Sometimes I'll spend a few days concocting an elaborate fantasy that I'll read to him while he masturbates, and the best of these I've even kept in a file for "special requests!" (Like "How about the threesome between me, you and your best friend tonight?" That's one of the reasons I visit this site, to get more ideas!) Other times it's just straight-up dirty talk, from "what are you wearing right now?" to how we're going to fuck each other's brains out in every position and orifice possible when we're together again!

We consider ourselves phone sex connoisseurs and he likes to joke that I should chuck my plans for a paralegal career and open a phone sex line instead, he says knows a lot of horny musicians who would pay handsomely for my services! (Yeah, right....but who knows?) I would strongly recommend phone sex to anyone who is in a long-distance relationship or who is involved with someone whose career takes them away from home for long periods of time. For my boyfriend and I, phone sex allows us to stay intimate and connected, and helps him resist the groupies and other temptations of life on the road.

From Melissa
Back in college, I was a phone sex operator for about two months to make a little extra money. Two months was all I could take before I had to quit. Although I became pretty popular and often requested (by my alias name), it was exhausting constantly having to talk to strange men about sex and having to come up with fantasies and stories to get them off. Even worse, having to come up with new stuff every night because I couldn't run the risk of saying the same thing to the same guy if he called back. Men were paying to hear new and exciting things not what they had just heard last night or two nights ago. (Believe me some men called that often)

If I remember correctly, unlike now where men can be billed by the minute, back then (1990) my agency charged flat time in increments of 7 minutes, 15 minutes or 20 minutes. Once their time was up, the call was over. It was my job to have every man come within his allotted time limit, be it 7 minutes or 20. The 7 minutes callers just wanted a "quickie". I loved those calls. They wanted to come and come fast. So all I had to do is talk as dirty and nasty as I could without needing to come up with a storyline or anything. A few choice words and moans later, they came and were off. Some were pleased (and so was I) to hang up 3 minutes later just as long as they came. I think those men needed a quick stress relief and didn't care how fast they got it.

It was the 20 minute callers that were the most tedious. They wanted a slow buildup to their climax. So I had to think up fantasy scenarios for him that would last for 20 minutes. Without being able to see them, I had to take my cues from their breathing or tones of their voice to determine what they needed from me or where they were in the coming process. Men who paid for 20 minutes didn't want to come in 10. So sometimes I had to slow it down if I heard the breathing getting too ragged. If they were a bit too silent then I knew I had to step it up a notch and talk a little dirtier, especially if we were coming to the end of their time limit. 

Often, I would have a porno playing in the background to use as material when I ran out of things to say. I'd watch the porno and just include whatever I was watching in the scenario I was telling him. I found the oldie but goody 1970's pornos were the best for downright raunchy, straight-to-the-point sex scenes. Boy, the pornos I have seen. I had to have one for every fetish that a man might have just in case he wanted me to talk about bestiality, or something else that I was not personally familiar with. This was all very taxing so I couldn't keep it up for more than two months. My hats off to those ladies who have no problems with it.

Very rarely would I actually get excited myself while talking to the men. I guess for me it was business. My job was to get them off not myself. I ended up faking all my orgasms. Men always wanted to hear me come so I learned how to fake them very well. 

However, talking to men in my personal life is a different story. I love phone sex with men in my life. I guess talking to someone I know is more appealing than talking to a stranger. It feels more like sex than porn. Once my boyfriends find out I used to be a phone sex operator they all want to have a "chat" with me. My personal chats are different because it more of a conversation in which we are both talking for each other's pleasure rather than just me talking to get a man to come. So I enjoy it much more. I love to lay there in the dark and listen to my man in his deep voice tell me what he wants to do to me. My imagination fills in the visuals. And boy do I love to hear my man come over the phone. It is so sexy for me to imagine him lying there touching himself. It makes me wet every time.

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