Sexy Reminiscing
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From Anonymous
I love to get my wife to tell me all about her previous lovers and what they did together. I like to hear all the tiny details and how she felt about what he was doing to her. She is quite happy to share this with me and it is a huge turn on. 

There is one particular story of a boyfriend who had been trying to make love to her for a long time. She finally let him have her on a couch and I never tire of hearing this. 

From Adam
I think that if you reminisce about sex it doesn't make you want to masturbate, it makes you want to have sex and if you can't have sex it is really annoying! So don't.

From Richard
My wife and I celebrated our 30th wedding anniversary a month or so ago. During our romantic candle-lit dinner in a country hotel she lit slip she'd been fucked by an ex while I was away in Cape Town on a six week project for my employers. With two children to look after, the youngest being two years, she wasn't able to join me. Thanks to babysitters she was able however to party and at one she met an old boyfriend. She agreed to meet him for dinner and, recalling he was well-endowed, went to bed with him, a total of four times before I got back. 

As she retold the story I felt very aroused and once back in our room we had some amazing sex, me all fired up by my visualizing my wife fucking this old boyfriend from almost 30 years ago.

From Anonymous
Early on in our relationship, we shared our sexual pasts vaguely. My wife was not comfortable sharing details and was jealous of my past. I encouraged her to share more of her experiences thinking it would help her accept mine. As she shared more detailed I began to realise that hearing the sexy details turned me on like nothing else. It did not help her jealousy. Very often we talked about her past while we were having sex. We talked openly about how turned on it made me. 

From D
Reminiscing is what I do when I am masturbating. I can't get enough. There are times when I am at the office and I reflect back to a time. He is incredible in every way. I'm thankful for my Pocket Rocket. Comes in handy at the office. Let's just call it my smoke break...my pussy is smokin once I'm done reminiscing about one of our encounters. If I could clone him I would. I'd also trade that Pocket Rocket in for a clone of his penis. I'd have to carry one hell of a big purse around though. But it would be worth it.

From Ghost Rider
There are times that I get caught up reminiscing over past encounters and partners that I had a sexual relation with. That's just what it is though. The past. While it might be pleasant to think back over things and the way it might have been if I had traveled a different road, I never got so wrapped up in it that I let it interfere with reality.

Also, I was never asshole enough to sit around telling my wife about previous women and encounters. Why be a jerk and run the risk of making her feel that I thought someone else was better than her or that I preferred someone else and just had to settle for her. I sure wouldn't want that to happen. A guy marries a woman because he prefers her above all others. A guy is a complete horses ass if he does anything to make her feel any other way.

From Stiletto Heel
I really dig this. I prod my spouse to tell me about past sexual encounters. He does it in a matter-of-fact kind of way and I enjoy the details. For him it’s no big deal but for me it’s a HUGE turn on. I get off on the images it conjures up. An ideal sexual partner would be someone who could reminisce openly about partners and about women he would and/or could fuck and how hard "she" makes his dick. The idea of him ramming someone else makes me increasingly horny and feeds my sexual drive.

From Anonymous
Sexual Reminiscing is something I enjoy doing. My husband asks me about my past lovers but I don't think it is wise to tell him. I once complied with his wishes by telling him about a sexual encounter at a drive in. He was mad for days and wanted to know his name. Of course I would not reveal the information to him. He demanded to know how I could have sex with my lover in a car with another couple and them not know it. When I told him he stormed out of the room and told me if I enjoyed it so much why didn't I stay with him. I don't know why he was so jealous.....maybe because I said I enjoyed the whole experience. I've learned never to speak to my husband about such matters.

From Anon
My wife and I hold no illusions - we both were around the block quite a bit before we hooked up, especially her. But we're interested in each other's previous sexual encounters only as curiosities or humorous stories. Her stories wouldn't turn me on and the couple of stories I told her got anything but a turned-on reaction ("Should I be getting tested?" "Great, if we do that, you'll just be thinking of her.") Of course, that was almost a decade ago, at a different stage of our relationship.

I think about past encounters often when I masturbate. My wife says she never masturbates to the thought of past lovers - they're gone, they're gone - only current lovers and fantasy lovers.

From Conquen
I have an insatiable appetite for my wife's past sexual encounters. I could listen to every detail over and over again. I hang on every word prodding for more detail. All the while on the verge of an orgasm just from picturing her and her lover in my mind.

I love my wife dearly and could never be jealous of her past. I would love it if she would masturbate while recounting the past. I want her to remember every touch, every tingle and every orgasm.

So I guess you might say I kinda enjoy it! If you haven't already...try it. It can bring you much closer to your partner.

From Anonymous
I not only enjoy my wife's stories of past lovers, often we will masturbate together as she recounts getting donged by some stud. I get rock hard as my minds eye shows me how hot my wife is. I press for details, soon we are both coming hard...Hell Yeah!

From Jim
I don't get insanely jealous when lovers talk of past sexual experiences... but I don't get turned on either. (Well, there was this one time...involved a long dress & a lunch break & a fountain & lots of unsuspecting on-lookers). Naturally I have been sort of PROBED of my past, and they always seem particularly eager...or extremely casual...and then get hurt. Very rarely aroused. And mostly turns into an argument. I guess everyone really just wants to know how they measure up...and I've learned to lie.

From J.T.
Describing past sexual experiences with other people has, for my Lovely Wife and me, been a reliable way to stoke the amorous fires. Whether it's from before we met, or from earlier that night, we both dig on it.

Can't speak for her, but for me, it's mostly a mixture of curiosity and just a turn-on at the thought of my wife being wildly excited. Whether it's for me or someone else.

From Sky
I've come to appreciate that stir of jealousy in hearing my wife speak of being with other lovers. Mind you it's only been the past few years I've appreciated this. Soon after we first met, 26 years ago, she dared speak of such things, which I took to be a clearing of conscience and an invitation to me to do the same. I'll admit back then I was overcome with my jealousy as she told me about her sexcapades.

Today, I've come to realize even after all these years that I hold no dominion over her imagination, it is not for me to attempt to be or even understand all that she might imagine or desire in a man. So I actually enjoy imagining her getting excited being with other men, I've written a few stories along this line, some drawn from her history, some of my own creation. In fact I enjoy seeing her getting excited as when she flirts.

Two years ago, as we headed home after an anniversary dinner out with her wearing a beautiful dress offering a lusty eyeful of cleavage, I confided I didn't mind seeing how she was exchanging occasional flirts with other men who were eyeing her. I'll never forget her response, "That's good hon, because I didn't mind it either." In that moment it dawned on me, who would dare propose to take away the power of flirt from her. Certainly not I. My stir of jealousy over this transformed into a burning desire to take her home and fuck her sweet ass to high-heaven.

Today, when I look into the depth of her eyes I see that very same mystery-of-a-woman I met so many years ago, the woman behind the name, the face, the naked body that seemingly have become as familiar as my own, knowing full well her imagination is beyond my knowing. There's a deep beauty that has come forth from learning just to appreciate being with the mysteries of this woman. Thankfully she "forgives" me of my flirting too.

From iris
I tend to look forward and not back. Now, as for fantasies, that's more my style or perhaps, <gulp> comfort level. While I'll always be honest when asked, I appreciate the 'don't ask and don't tell' ways, I guess.

From Anonymous
Personally, I LOVE hearing about my lovers' past exploits, and I love talking about my own. And I love talking about things we did together, too, reliving them together. I just love talking about sex, period!

I find it to be a turn-on, an education, a bonding experience. The old taboo against talking about ex-lovers is ridiculous, in my opinion. If you're so insecure that you feel threatened by hearing about things that happened in your partner's past, you've got some self-examination to do.

In 14 years, I never found out (though not for lack of trying) how many lovers my ex-husband had had before me, what kind of sex life he'd had, what his secret fantasies were. When I tried to talk about my own experiences with him, he'd shut me down almost instantly. Since then, for me, open conversation about sex is prerequisite to a sexual relationship.

From Diane
Okay, so I'm a bit peculiar, or so I've been told. I always answer questions people ask and I always answer them truthfully. I've never really seen a problem with that. I guess it's because I have no regrets and I've never felt I did anything bad or wrong that I needed to hide. My mother used to call me a happy moron, and in many ways, I guess she was right.

I've never minded talking about my past sexual exploits, such as they were. I guess I always felt I really hadn't been that wild, so anything I had to say would pale before the experience of others. My ex was the exception that proves the rule.

He was a singer. A singer in a Heavy Metal band. Very hot. Who knew he was practically a virgin? I guess he definitely thought I was wild, even though I wasn't. I don't think he was ever jealous of my past. I think he sort of liked hearing about it. I don't think he liked hearing that someone might have been better in bed than he was, so I pretty much shied away from statements to that effect.

He told me about his two other girl friends, but not whether they were any better or worse than me. I think that's fine. Our past sexual experiences had nothing to do with our break-up. Whether fortunately or unfortunately, things fall apart.

Anyway, I find it interesting to talk to lovers about their past experience and I enjoy talking about mine. It's fun and can be titillating. It's also a good way to find someone's receptiveness to various kinks.

But really, think about it—none of us are children or, god forbid, virgins. To hide our past like it didn't exist? Why would we want to do that?

From Barbara
I've never been jealous of my husband's prior sex partners and have enjoyed listening to him reminisce. Why? Because he's with me now. I have no reason to be jealous because that's all past history.

He's the same way with me. I'm with him now. I chose him over all the other sex partners I've known. He's the most important man in my life now and he's the one who makes me happy now.

From Paul
My wife and I have reminisced recently about some fun we had cruising down the freeway in LA. This was when I moved to the US back in 2000. We'd picked up the rental car from LAX, and were following our friends down the freeway. We started to get amorous, and it ended up with my wife stroking my cock as I rubbed her tit. When we arrived at our friends place, I had to rearrange myself and then do up my pants before their kids came around to the car. When we reminisced about it, we got quite turned on.

From Amanda
Yeah, my husband and I both enjoy hearing about our past exploits. In fact former lovers have in some cases become current lovers once more. Not only do we like to talk about past lovers, but also since we are polyamorous, we like to hear about one another's current exploits as well. I find it very exciting when he comes home from a date to hear all the juicy details. And if they are hot enough, I put them in a story.

When I tell him about my exploits, he gets turned on. Sometimes if a lover has tried a certain technique with me that resulted in success, I'll describe it and he'll try it too.

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