Swing Clubs

What goes on at these parties?

Anyone ever been to a swing club or sex club? I'm dreadfully curious—what's it like? What are the rules, the etiquette? Can you go and just watch or do they find that annoying?

By "swing clubs" I mean the type of establishment where you have a membership and there are scheduled parties and dances, rules and regulations, etc. Off premises or on. It turns out there's such a club in the city where I live, and I'm told by my gentleman friend that an acquaintance of his (from work no less) can refer us to the proprietors. I'm not the type to want to get naked with strangers, but I certainly am the type who has always wanted to indulge an untried voyeuristic inclination.

So, the more anyone can tell me about what goes on at these parties, the better I'll know if I want to try and go to one...or two or three or...

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From Franklin
We were on vacation, mentally a thousand miles from home, so felt very confident and daring about doing something we'd not do on our own doorstep.  My wife justified the visit by saying she was just going out of curiosity while I openly said that I was turned on by the thought of watching her being ravaged by another man but more than that seeing her kissing him, fondling his balls and taking his cock in her mouth.  So, by the time we walked in the club we were up for it. 

We sat at the bar chatting to other couples, younger than us (we are in our late 50's), then did a tour of the club and watched in the voyeur area two couples swap partners and go from oral to anal to vaginal sex in less than 15 minutes, one of the men eventually ejaculating over his partner's face and breasts while his wife went back to all fours for her partner to enter her anus for a final climax.  It was all very arousing and as we watched I was behind my wife, my erection pushed into her buttocks, a hand working its way into her bra, massaging her breast, her hand eventually sliding in to squeeze then (once my fly was open) stroke my penis, me kissing her neck.

At some point we were joined at the voyeur window by another couple, the wife in a short skirt, lace top hold up stockings and high heels.  She caught me looking at this very exciting sight and smiled, in response and with a lot of courage motioned to the husband that he took my place behind my wife.  It didn't fool my wife who instantly knew that the penis in her hand was no longer mine.  It broke the ice and we agreed we'd like to swap with them and returned to the privacy of our hotel room.  It was a very enjoyable evening of pretty uninhibited sex including me and the other husband jerking each other off, our ejaculated cum aimed at the open mouths of our swapped partners. 

My forever memory of that evening will always be my wife's partner slowly thrusting her vagina, grunting with each push, all accompanied by some raunchy language from my wife encouraging him to go
faster and deeper inside her.

From R.D.
Although my wife and I have not gone to many swing clubs, we have enjoyed swinging with one couple this year and a couple months ago, did a soft swap with her best friend and her boyfriend.  Actually, it came as a bit of a surprise to me.  We were visiting my wife's hometown and were staying in a hotel.  After the going to that her friend also attended, we went out to dinner and the got together back at our hotel room.  My wife's friend is very attractive.  She had dated women for several years, but has been with the same guy for a while.  She and my wife have known each other since they were kids.  In fact, her friend helped coordinate our wedding.

Anyway, while her boyfriend was getting busy with my wife, I undressed her and proceeded to kiss her ass for the next several minutes. I really enjoyed licking her crack.  I could tell she was getting pretty excited.  Next, I rolled her onto her back and took each breast into my mouth.  The next thing I knew, she had pushed me on to my back, pulled down my boxers and began to suck and nibble on my dick.  Then I could feel her putting both of my balls in her mouth.  What an incredible feeling!  Normally, I am way too sensitive to take that for more than a few seconds, but she expertly swirled her tongue around them and brought me right to the edge, stroking my dick at the same time.  After what seemed like an eternity, I finally exploded into her mouth.

While I was lying on my stomach recuperating, she climbed on top of me and began to kiss the back of my neck. Then she asks, "Can I masturbate on you?"  I said, "Be my guest!" For the next several minutes, she proceeded to grind her clit against my ass.  I swear I could feel it poking me.  Gradually, her thrusting became more aggressive and she began to writhe and moan uncontrollably.  With one final thrust and a clench, she came and collapsed on top of me.

Then she said, "I've been wanting to do that for so long."  I told her she's got an open invitation to fuck me up the ass any time she wants.  It turns out taking a man from behind is #1 on her list of things to do, but her boyfriend isn't ready for that yet. If we get together again, I'd like for her and my wife to take turns on me. That would be great!!

From Charles
My wife and I visited a swing club last winter in Goa en route back from a months vacation in Australia, enjoyed the experience mainly because we have good sex drives and regard ourselves as being liberated.  One evening we had left a club at one in the morning, walking back to our hotel when we passed a very plain looking wooden door with a sign that actually said If you don't swing, don't ring.   We agreed it was a swing or sex club, interesting I said about to move off when, without a further word, my wife rang the bell.  A girl in Playboy type costume opened the door, led us to a desk where another girl made us club members for $80, then to the bar where we were given free glasses of Champagne. 

Within minutes a young couple, German, started talking to us.  We admitted this was our first visit ever to a swing club and they said it was their second, their first being the night before when they had swung with three separate couples, describing the rooms they had used as very clean, bed sheets were changed after each activity, room with wc, wash basin and towels, large bowls of condoms were on either side of the bed, the sex toys were clean and worked, and the tv and porn dvd also worked.  On each occasion they had chosen to swing as a foursome with their couples, sharing the same room and bed. 

The next fifteen minutes or so were spent exchanging niceties, they learning about us and we learning about them, they being married for 8 years, we for over 35, then we got onto the subject of sex and as my wife was wearing one of her shorter skirts, low cut top and high heels I guess it wasn't a big shock when the husband took more and more interest in talking to her while his wife focused on me.  So it was no shock when the husband turned to me and suggested he and his wife swing with us and before I could say a word my wife said great, could be fun. 

In the room the wife wanted to wait and watch her husband perform with my wife and while she undressed to her bra and panties, me to my boxers, I sat in an armchair, she sat on the arm, and slowly masturbated me while we watched, eventually dropping her head to suck me. My wife and her new sex partner both undressed, she to her underwear, he totally naked, fully erect as they kissed very passionately for a few minutes, he removing her underwear, she stopping to suck his penis which she continued to enjoy for about five minutes before eventually rolling a condom on his erection and climbing onto him.  He began to bite and suck her breasts and nipples and climaxed after about ten minutes.  

He then invited us to join them and while his wife continued to suck me on the bed, the husband began to suck her vagina and my wife started to suck his penis.  It ended with my rolling on a condom and penetrating the wife while my wife rolled on her partners penis another condom and sucked him to a climax.   We all washed, dressed and returned to the bar.  Did we partner again that night?  Yes, of course we did.  Although my wife had her breasts and nipples covered in bite marks from her German partner, she wasn't perturbed since she said it was all fantasy and for the first time in a very long time she was enjoying being a slut.  We swung that night with two more couples, returning the following night for another session with our Germans who introduced us to French and Russian couples who we swung with in separate sessions.  

It was a very mind broadening experience, very enjoyable, very liberating, and has contributed much to our own husband/wife sex activity since getting back.  In the ten months since our experiences at the club we have yet to find a suitable couple or single guy to swing with.  We have replied to ads and run them ourselves on several swing websites but the couples and single men we have met and swung with have not matched our expectations, not just sexy people but intelligent ones, not just those who want opportunistic sex, but those we can create on-going satisfying, rewarding relationships with.  We shall continue to look and are thankful to that visit to the swing club in Goa for broadening our sexual horizons.

From Paul and Jay
We are in our sixties, retired, enjoy our sex, making love most afternoons or evenings. Thanks to the Internet we discovered there were many happily married couples who wanted to expand their sexual experiences and satisfaction by swapping with other couples. We discussed it but never actually got to either reply to an ad or posting our own. It changed one evening when, in our favorite restaurant, we shared with a young, good looking fortiesomething couple at the next table our frustrations at the poor service.  Over dessert and coffee they suggested we get the tab and decamp to a nearby jazz bar which we also knew and had visited a few times.

There we managed to hold a more conducive conversation with them, discovering they lived about a mile from us, suggesting we end the evening at our place and at 1 in the morning we got back to ours.  Up to then there had been no hint we might swap with them but in the intimate dimmed lighting of our lounge with jazz on the hi fi the conversation inevitably got round to sex and we openly and honestly declared our interest in expanding our sexual knowledge and enjoyment with another couple.  They also declared their similar interest.  It didn't take us long to agree we should end the evening with a foursome.

It was very enjoyable, more fun than intense sexual pleasure and I found it fascinating to see my wife suck off another guy, compliment him on the volume and taste of his semen, and a little later see him penetrate her vagina and anus.  For my part I believe my new partner enjoyed my lovemaking, she too fallating me and swallowing my cum (to my personal satisfaction), and enjoying me inside her, she being impressed that an oldie could get and maintain a large erection and produce enough semen to make it memorable.  They stayed the night in our guest bedroom and over breakfast we all discussed long and hard our very first mutual foursome, agreeing that we wanted to repeat the pleasure again.

From Dan and Keri
Our first experience of swinging came over the holidays when we met a couple our age, 30s, at the restaurant line at our hotel. We got chatting and saw a lot of them in the afternoons and evenings. Back in our room on the second night my wife wondered if they wanted to swing with us. We agreed they did and agreed to say 'yes' if they asked us.

The following lunchtime they finally popped the question and my wife said 'we thought you'd never ask!' and went to their room for our first session with them, a very enjoyable foursome, both wives afterwards ambushing us guys into a mutual 69, my first experience of sucking another guy's cock, the two of us eventually shooting our loads into each other's mouths, an awesome experience for me.

We met them each day after lunch and after dinner for some very satisfying foursome sex. Back home we decided that our vacation fun was just that and we weren't going to join a swing club or group although my wife said she'd like to experience different cock to mine at some stage.

From Jay
We were in Bermuda in the summer when my husband took part in a charity golfing event. I don't play but spent my day in the club house, first being taught some rudimentary strokes on the nursery links. Later, I came in out of the heat and sat in the bar wondering what to do for lunch after discovering that the charity teams wouldn't be back until mid afternoon. I was wearing a tennis skirt so when the compliment came about my tanned legs I thanked the guy but inwardly was horrified at such a limp opening line. The guy was Jimmy, one of the club officers, and after about 15 minutes of exchanging pleasantries he asked if I'd join him in the members' clubhouse where a buffet lunch and champagne was available to members and their guests.

There I was asked by Jimmy if I'd care to join him and some of the members on one of their yachts for a Sunday 'sun worshipper' brunch, intriguingly told not to bring my bikini. Although the invitation was extended to my husband he declined, preferring another round of golf. On board, the 30 or so guests were either lying in the sun, down below getting some brunch, or simply chatting. Despite the advice I had brought my bikini and soon slipped out of skirt and blouse to soak up the sun. When I eventually went downstairs to use the rest room, I was quite shocked to see beyond some doors, that should have been closed, three naked couples in a variety of sex acts and positions. On leaving the rest room I glanced to the doors and as I did one of the ladies came out, saw me and said something like 'aren't men messy' as he tissued her vagina. I could only say 'is this a private party?' to which I was told that the 'sun worshipper' brunch I had been invited to was in fact a swingers party, although no one was under any pressure to join in.

Back on deck I joined all the other females and went topless, my sunbathing soon interrupted by a young couple, the wife asking me if I'd like to swing with them. I explained that I'd never swung in my life before, wouldn't know what to do and at 47 was probably 20 years their senior. Their compliments on me looking not a day over 30 didn't work as I said it was not my style to have sex with strangers. It didn't work. They explained what they wanted to do, what they wanted to achieve from swinging with me, there'd be no violence, the husband said he was well endowed and I'd be very satisfied. It was truly bizarre but I reluctantly agreed and went downstairs with them.

I was, of course, very satisfied. In over 25 years of marriage I'd never had sex with anyone but my husband but that afternoon I had the wife suck me off, me suck her off, her husband suck me off, and I suck him, and I was very aroused, very sexually excited by all of what we were doing. By the time the husband was ready to climax, he penetrated me doggie style, first my vagina, then my anus, his wife below me licking, kissing my nipples, occasionally kissing my lips, as I lent low to kiss and lick her clitoris. It was an incredible hour of very exciting and satisfying sex and after showering I went back on deck to continue sunbathing.

When Jimmy looked me out a little later I pre-empted him by asking if he was going to ask me to swing with him. Yes, but would I object to his friend joining us in what he called an MMF? I asked him where his wife was and that of his friend. Both ladies were apparently elsewhere on board having their own fun. I was very blase and said, 'OK, of course, let's go!'. The sex was incredible. Two horny men, two hard cocks, with a mind-blowing double penetration as the piece de resistance. What more could an equally horny woman want?

By the time the yacht returned to the marina it was nine in the evening and I'd had an amazing eye opening experience that had changed my view of sex for ever. I'd had four sex sessions with total strangers and enjoyed every single second. At first my husband thought I was bragging but when he finally agreed to believe me he fumed at missing such a wonderful day's fun. Had he ever thought of us swinging
with other couples? He hadn't (nor had I for that matter) but some four months later we are now very enthusiastic converts, have some very loving, caring, sexy friends, couples of all ages, plus some very athletic, large-cocked single men, all of whom we now regularly swing with.

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