Swing Clubs
What Goes On At These Parties?

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From Tee and Gee
In our fifties we regard ourselves as being in the prime of our lives and as such enjoy our sex, three or four times a week, more frequently when we are on vacation mode. It was while we were on a two week break from our careers we were intriqued by an ad in the local what's on magazine. We both deduced it was a swing club and looked at each other. Our eyes said it, 'shall we try it?'.

Now, in 30 years of marriage the two of us have only ever strayed once, during a very bad period in the marriage, but we have discussed joining a couple we know who belong to a small group who partner swap. We visited the club, twice. The first time we were mere spectators and enjoyed watching other couples swap and having great sex. Our second visit we indulged, meeting a couple who were friendly, intelligent and very horny. It was a great experience, we were in the same room, watched by other couples through the window and my wife proved she is a very sexy lady, very interested in exciting sex and more than able to satisfy any man.

It was, of course, safe sex, condoms were worn for all the sex acts, including oral, my wife admitting later she missed the rush of her partner's cum in both her mouth and vagina, but said her 'mind was blown' by her partner's size in her anus. We exchanged cell numbers and met the couple again a few nights later in our hotel room. A lot more relaxed and more enjoyable we eventually abandoned the condoms in the last of three sessions that evening.

Back home, we're back to being an ordinary married couple but our friends' invitation to join them at their next swing party will get a very firm 'yes please' from us.

From Kit
Our experience was a first, also on vacation. We were given a flyer advertising a 'lifestyle club' and over dinner we seriously discussed what was obviously a swingers club and did we see swinging with another person a threat to our marriage (30 years) or was it just a fun thing? We enjoy sex and have sex three or four times a week so we both agreed we'd probably not be very inhibited and would enjoy sex with a stranger.

So we went and we did enjoy. We met with a couple in their thirties, at the bar they made us feel very relaxed, great company, very sexy, so we went off to one of the rooms and had a great foursome. We came out feeling very good about ourselves, returned to the bar and met another couple and had yet another very exciting session.

Back home, long after the vacation was over, my wife asked if I'd be interested in swinging with another couple. Of course, I said, we signed up with an on-line club and are currently looking for two swing sessions, a couple and a single guy.

From Pete
Ricardo's experience [see Ricardo's entry below] sounds pretty gross but when my wife and I paid our first visit to a swing club (near Nashville) while on vacation, we had a very enjoyable time. Perhaps us both being fiftiesomethings and married for 30 years makes all the difference. We had seriously discussed well in advance visiting a swing club and both agreed that we wanted to experience some fun with another couple.

On arrival we were pleasantly surprised to be asked to change into towelling robes, we thought we'd be at a bar fully clothed. My wife kept her stockings and garters on plus bra and panties and I kept my boxers on. At the bar we soon made friends with other couples (no singles at this club) and after half an hour we were in friendly relaxed conversation with another, younger couple, and sitting at the bar my wife was very receptive to the husband's stroking of legs and caressing of breasts and waist. We all knew we were ready to swing.

We went upstairs to a bedroom and the four of us had some very enjoyable condom protected sex, the nature of this very first swing session for me and my wife being that she and the other wife continually swapped back to husbands, then back again, so it was a strange session. About an hour later we swung with another couple, our age, and this was a far more satisfying session, my wife certainly impressed with the size of the other partner's member.

I guess a key element of success is swinging with good looking people who are balanced, intelligent, as well as horny, and great lovers without any inhibitions. Since our trip we have had difficulty in finding on the internet suitable couples to swing with so a visit to another club is planned.

From Dave
We were in Australia a few years ago when we finally got out first swing experience. We are in our forties and been talking about swinging but never doing anything to experience it, my wife having reservations, believing it to be a sign our marriage had failed. It hadn't of course, we were very much in love, enjoyed our sex but we acknowledged that as people with very big sex drives our lovemaking was becoming a little stale.

So we discussed swapping with another couple or having threesomes, one with a guy, one with a bi female. We never got the courage to search out some couples and singles so left it hanging, frustration growing.

In Sydney we were given a flyer advertising a lifestyle club so we decided to go along. Cut a long story short, we met another couple, went to a room in the club, swapped partners and had an enjoyable time. With no pressures my wife sucked off her partner while his wife was more keen on me providing basic virginal sex. We went again, this time I did get fellated, while my wife got it anally.

Result? We met them again, this time in our hotel and reprised the fun we'd had at the club. Back home we searched the net and met with both couples and singles and for a year or so we had a great time swinging, our own sex life improving considerably until we felt we didn't need external stimulus any longer and ended our swinging period.

From Will
Like Phil my wife and I are in our fifties and like a lot of couples who have a rock solid marriage of our age we don't find it at all strange to consider some consensual, open, honest, extra-marital sex to add some spice to our sex lives. [see Phil's entry below] We had never discussed swinging per se but at parties it was obvious that as a good looking couple we'd attract similar couples, initially for good conversation, mutual dinner parties where the subject matter would of course turn to sex.

Three or four dinner parties later and we had reached a point where our not so new friends and ourselves, completely unsaid, had to decide if we were going to be platonic friends or, perhaps, partner swap and see if the relationship had any real foundations of strength, or just a convenience to facilitate extra-marital sex. Why don't we all go away one weekend? my wife suggested, it could be fun! The accent was on the word fun, said as a simile for swapping, in a sexually charged atmosphere following much consumption of wine.

The weekend was a success. We swapped twice, my wife enjoyed the sex with the husband as I enjoyed the sex with his wife. It was our first partner swap and it gave us a taste for more but, sadly, our friends decided to see less of us and it left us wondering what we'd done wrong, we coming to the conclusion that for them it was just sex, not a desire for a productive creative relationship. My wife and I are now looking for a couple, our age or younger, with whom we can create a successful and rewarding lifestyle relationship.

From Phil
A few years ago my wife reached her fiftieth birthday and despite her attractive slim figure had doubts about her looks and personality. That led to a very thorough discussion about love, marriage and sex, and inside that we discussed extra-marital sex as in was there a need for it in our marriage, what would it produce, would it lead to our divorcing? While sex with another man wasn't a major element of her self-doubt I knew that might be something that would help her, if only superficially. 

I suggested that we consider looking for another couple to swap with. She dismissed that saying it was more about me wanting to leave my semen in various women's bodies. I convinced her it wasn't and she eventually reluctantly agreed to allow an ad to go onto a swingers web site. To cut a long story short out of the 200 plus replies we got we got down to a short list of three couples, our age, all professionals. Two years later and we have wonderful and very fulfilling relationships with those same three couples. 

Sex is of course a major part of the relationships and my wife is sexually fulfilled by each of her three men but more than that we have mutual interests in the arts, travel, antique collecting, opera, ballet. Safe sex is important and after initially insisting on the use of condoms we now know each other very well, trust each other implicitly and the use of sheaths which husbands and wives alike detested is a long faded memory. 

For the time being we have no interests in meeting other couples, there is no need when all three of us couples meet for a weekend, a three-way swap of all partners is so much more emotionally fulfilling than hanging out at a swing club.

From Mike
My wife and I have recently been discussing the 'use' of another woman in our relationship. We have been discussing our female friends and their bodies, and my wife has even joined the gym (not that she needs to she has a fantastic figure already - with beautiful 40dd breasts and a cracking pair of nipples, all dark and large) she joined the gym so she could get a good look at their bodies, when she comes home we make love whilst she describes their most intimate parts and we discuss at length what we would both like to do to them. 

A few months ago I came across a group of friends discussing a local swingers club, we decided to go along for a drink just to see what was going on. During the evening we watched couples in groups making all sorts of wonderful love which in itself was beautiful, we started chatting with another couple and we slowly got into the 'swing' of things, suddenly my wife was half naked, sucking the breast of this other woman, she had such a lovely look in her eye and between us we spoke silently. 

By the end of the night I was making love to my wife whilst she licked another woman out, and I was banging this other woman whilst my beautiful wife gave her partner a deep throat, all intertwined together. It was a wonderful experience and we have vowed to do it again, we won't be as nervous again the next time..... and there will be an next time. Our personal lovemaking has been brilliant since and we still fantasize over her girlfriends ... mmm nice. Best of both world for me (and her).

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