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From Dawnstar
I've been to 3 in the past 2 months—unfortunately I spent my time there only as a voyeur. I won't go into what made me go in the first place; but here's what happened and what I know...

Swinger's clubs cater mainly to couples, single males are heavily restricted but single ladies are "always welcome." The first place i went to w/ girlfriends to check it out and we were late and everyone had already hooked up. There were common rooms and private rooms and lots of fucking. It was an older crowd and not very attractive (but not because they were older) w/ some exceptions...90% white...yawn. It was weird because for a place that was supposed to be "deviant" (others opinion—not mine) the actual sex was somewhat vanilla ...not many sex noises even...and I wanted to see freaky shit. I did however meet a nice couple that talked to me about the various clubs and informed me of all the rules and such.

2nd place was closer to town, younger crowd but still a "couples" night. This one had a dungeon too. Got MANY offers. My girlfriend and I were being watched and the first man who talked to us, got the scoop, found out we were single and not gay and then we sat on a couch and received callers all night. No one interesting though, but there were more black men and black couples there. Want to go back to that one on a singles night...

3rd place was in FL—my friend had quite a time there once but alas; my single girlfriend and I might as well have been wallpaper. It was couples night but the only night I was in town that I could go, so I wanted to check it out. No action—but I had a Ron Jeremy sighting. Very amusing.

So check it out if you want—can't hurt. Voyeurs are welcome for the most part—those who want privacy go to the private rooms. Most also seem to have websites with all the info you need to join plus the rules.

From Pete
Ricardo's experience [see Ricardo's entry below] sounds pretty gross but when my wife and I paid our first visit to a swing club (near Nashville) while on vacation, we had a very enjoyable time. Perhaps us both being fiftiesomethings and married for 30 years makes all the difference. We had seriously discussed well in advance visiting a swing club and both agreed that we wanted to experience some fun with another couple.

On arrival we were pleasantly surprised to be asked to change into towelling robes, we thought we'd be at a bar fully clothed. My wife kept her stockings and garters on plus bra and panties and I kept my boxers on. At the bar we soon made friends with other couples (no singles at this club) and after half an hour we were in friendly relaxed conversation with another, younger couple, and sitting at the bar my wife was very receptive to the husband's stroking of legs and caressing of breasts and waist. We all knew we were ready to swing.

We went upstairs to a bedroom and the four of us had some very enjoyable condom protected sex, the nature of this very first swing session for me and my wife being that she and the other wife continually swapped back to husbands, then back again, so it was a strange session. About an hour later we swung with another couple, our age, and this was a far more satisfying session, my wife certainly impressed with the size of the other partner's member.

I guess a key element of success is swinging with good looking people who are balanced, intelligent, as well as horny, and great lovers without any inhibitions. Since our trip we have had difficulty in finding on the internet suitable couples to swing with so a visit to another club is planned.

From Ricardo
We were in our honeymoon in France. ..we just married I am 26 years and my wife 24 years. We never discussed swinging before or even thought about it. What happened, we enter a club thinking that it's a Night Club (disco), but we discover that its a swinging club ....we went downstairs and we found everyone down in action.

After a while a single young guy came and started touching my wife and talking to her...then without any permission I see my wife stripping fully naked with this guy and start the action. I got angry when I saw him coming in her mouth.

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