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"I have been cheated on, time and time again. See, I think they just get bored or something of that sort, because even now mine has been caught trying to do more than window shop." —Anonymous.

So why do people cheat? Possibly one partner isn't enough, perhaps people get bored, maybe 'the grass is greener' is hard to resist. Tell us about your experiences—the good, the bad, and the ugly.

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From Anonymous
Why?  Because if both parties don't make an effort on your relationship every day from a friend standpoint and sexual standpoint you lose interest.  Once you no longer try to make the other person as important as they were when you first met the interest disappears and it no longer becomes worth the effort.

My spouse has too many interests before us.  Once all of the other things that need to be done are complete there is no longer any energy, let alone effort, for us. 

I'm in a relationship where energy and time for us is so far down the list that I don't even try any more.  Once the children are older I am gone and will look for someone that is willing to work on the relationship than tell me, " It is what it is!"

From Mary
I think that the novelty and thrill of a new lover or sensation makes cheatin tempting. My husband knew of my fantasy to be with a woman. He also knew that he could not compete with a woman. I knew that if the right woman appeared that I might cheat. I think he noticed  the slight flirting between myself and the wife of his good friend.

To make a long story short he steered us all into our current situation. 0nce every few months we have a play night or weekend away with this couple. We women play to our hearts content whith each other in front of our husbands and then have sex with our own spouses in the same room. We usually don't swap partners but I managed to fullfill my double penetration fantasy as well! No cheating and every one is thrilled. Our sex life gets a boost and the temptation to cheat is gone.

From A Wife
Jm, you're kidding - right? Of course you cheated. [see Jm's entry below] Suppose your wife masturbated with 2 of her co-workers, what would you call that -- a stress reliever? Geez. How about this: Ask your wife if she thinks you cheated.

From Jm
Do you think I cheated? I was on a business trip down South with several female co-workers. Every  day was very stressful, so we would have a few drinks each evening.  One night we drank way to much and started talking about the best stress reliever there was, sex.  The 3 of us discovered that we were all practicing masturbation several times per day to deal with stress.  Then we started discussing how we masturbated, well one thing led to another and soon we were all naked, each of us masturabating ourselves and watching the other 2.  We all came several times - no one touched anyone's but themselves, so I am not sure I cheated on my wife?

From Wicked1
I have grown tired of only getting the feel of a vibrator inside me because he has a porn addiction. He can get hard as a rock watching it but hours later when he decides he wants to get off, he goes limp as soon as he tries to get it in. Pretty obvious which one he wants.  A very very silly boy if he thinks I will keep doing this and not go elsewhere for a stiff one!

From Anonymous
It had been months and in spite of all my efforts my hubby would not even look at me.  One morning after hubby went to work his best friend stopped by. I had a headache and he offered up a neck massage - well neck massage led to back massage.  Then he says back massage is better without a shirt'.   Well pretty soon I was naked and he was giving me the best massage ever. Well we spent all day making love' and when he left I could hardly walk.   I had no guilt at all, and if hubby cut me off again I will be giving his best friend a call for a neck massage.

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